Difficulties to find THE thing

Hello !
So I have a problem here and I see that few scorpios around me "suffer" from the same problem but no one find a solution.
The thing is that, I'm really ambitious, I have a lot of projects, of dreams and I know that I CAN fulfill them, but I literaly do nothing. Like I don't find THE thing that's living in me, I know that I have it because I feel it, it doesn't express itself.
I don't know if this have a lot of sense, but it's about devotion, like I'm devoted to a lot of cause or ideas let's say and I WANT, really to accomplished these things but my brain is never clear, like my ideas are always so messed up , it's so frustrating because I loose time, a lot of time and I hate that ..
It's like I don't find the "THING"
I hope you will understand and maybe help to find a solution ..

Thanks ! 😄

For those of you who don't know what the thing is, it's a roadside attraction in Arizona.

that thing is your ego
kill it and you will find your passion

Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
Hello !
So I have a problem here and I see that few scorpios around me "suffer" from the same problem but no one find a solution.
The thing is that, I'm really ambitious, I have a lot of projects, of dreams and I know that I CAN fulfill them, but I literaly do nothing. Like I don't find THE thing that's living in me, I know that I have it because I feel it, it doesn't express itself.
I don't know if this have a lot of sense, but it's about devotion, like I'm devoted to a lot of cause or ideas let's say and I WANT, really to accomplished these things but my brain is never clear, like my ideas are always so messed up , it's so frustrating because I loose time, a lot of time and I hate that ..
It's like I don't find the "THING"
I hope you will understand and maybe help to find a solution ..

Thanks ! 😄

I don't know how old you are. However, as I read this it brought me back to my divorce. During the middle and towards the end of the divorce I got into this phase/funk. I shut down inside which stopped me from accomplishing what I knew I had to do. I saved the energy to keep neutral on the outside for my son. My head was cluttered with worrying so much about the future...as soon as I started living day by day and getting through each day with "ok I'm gonna do this today". No matter how small those accomplishments were..it got better and better. Took me a good year to get my shit together.
So, I wonder, did you go through something that was tough prior to getting to this stage?

Posted by scorpiothebadass
that thing is your ego
kill it and you will find your passion

While not a Scorpio, I love this advise.
Once you stop being in your head and stop thinking of what you're supposed to be like at this point in your life, you'll be free to do whatever you want. Once you start accomplishing goals, you'll find it easier to set bigger and better ones. The humility of challenging yourself will help

This happens probably because at school all they teach is how to obey 'their rules' and work on the projects they tell you to work on. So it's up to parents or other siblings to encourage kids to start projects on their own. Even then, there isn't enough motivation or energy left from school/work/life to follow through.


But I'm sure it will make you feel good to express yourself, so why don't you start today ? 😉 Making friends who are self-starters might also help you get more motivation.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by Scorpiaaaaassss
Hello !
So I have a problem here and I see that few scorpios around me "suffer" from the same problem but no one find a solution.
The thing is that, I'm really ambitious, I have a lot of projects, of dreams and I know that I CAN fulfill them, but I literaly do nothing. Like I don't find THE thing that's living in me, I know that I have it because I feel it, it doesn't express itself.
I don't know if this have a lot of sense, but it's about devotion, like I'm devoted to a lot of cause or ideas let's say and I WANT, really to accomplished these things but my brain is never clear, like my ideas are always so messed up , it's so frustrating because I loose time, a lot of time and I hate that ..
It's like I don't find the "THING"
I hope you will understand and maybe help to find a solution ..

Thanks ! 😄

I don't know how old you are. However, as I read this it brought me back to my divorce. During the middle and towards the end of the divorce I got into this phase/funk. I shut down inside which stopped me from accomplishing what I knew I had to do. I saved the energy to keep neutral on the outside for my son. My head was cluttered with worrying so much about the future...as soon as I started living day by day and getting through each day with "ok I'm gonna do this today". No matter how small those accomplishments were..it got better and better. Took me a good year to get my shit together.
So, I wonder, did you go through something that was tough prior to getting to this stage?

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Hello !
It's exactly that : I shut down my inside ! That's why I never show feelings I always look like i'm neutral and I don't care about everything ! But it's not the case !
I really think about what you say and actually I go trough something (and I don't think first that it was that) that ask me to control myself and my feelings, not to "look ridiculous" and to look "cold" and neutral.
But I always been like that, my feelings are so intense, nobody have no idea, so I'm a bit afraid of overwhelm people around or if I just let it out a LITTLE bit people think that I exagerate everything !
Thank you for make me think about this !

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Posted by scorpiothebadass
that thing is your ego
kill it and you will find your passion

While not a Scorpio, I love this advise.
Once you stop being in your head and stop thinking of what you're supposed to be like at this point in your life, you'll be free to do whatever you want. Once you start accomplishing goals, you'll find it easier to set bigger and better ones. The humility of challenging yourself will help

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Yes that's completely that : I'm always in my head I think all the time I try to be responsible and take the more "logical" solution and not the "fuck off" solution if you understand !
Because I always fear to take the bad decision if I follow my heart/my mind ..

Posted by chocolatedreams
This happens probably because at school all they teach is how to obey 'their rules' and work on the projects they tell you to work on. So it's up to parents or other siblings to encourage kids to start projects on their own. Even then, there isn't enough motivation or energy left from school/work/life to follow through.


But I'm sure it will make you feel good to express yourself, so why don't you start today ? 😉 Making friends who are self-starters might also help you get more motivation.

Haha actually I don't have real friends who really care about me so it's not the solution for me :/

The problem is you fear failure thats why you are stuck
But you can control it if you understand that failure has a positive side teaches you lessons
If you dont fail you wont succeed

Yeah I know too I fear so much to fail, that's why I'm not so good speaking in front of a lot of people because I fear to fail...
I know that but I can't help it..

And how did you succeed in ?