Do Scorpios...?

Do scorpios usually cut off ties with friends once they cannot benefit from them anymore?

hmmmm this an interesting topic. I have (had) a scorpio young male as my friend and nothing more. Things just got weird and poof he was gone. I think he had a crush on me but just a bit too young for me. So we had not text in over a month and we are texting again, so I ask "So are we friends or what?" (in a teasing jokingly friendly manner because I was teasing him about giving me the ax on facebook). lol I told him he was being a bit dramatic." So he text back "Do you know how to be a friend?" I was like WTF.....of course I know how to be a friend. He admitted that he cleans house often and deletes people from his facebook because in my perception he is a very insecure scorpio. I was like man Scorpio ......it is facebook who cares if you have "real friends or networking friends on there?" Anywho he now text me for silly things like for mutual friends phone number. I don't usually befriend youngans but he is really a cool person to hang with. I was his massage mentor while he was a student. There is a huge barrier of professional ethics to not cross the boundary with other students and also he is 21 and I am 39. He was so dramatic about the whole thing too ....he said "well it took you a while to notice I had been deleted." I was again "IT IS FACEBOOK". He did thank me for the mentoring because it helped him in his study. So time will tell if Scorpio can be friends. I think he might be more closed with me now because he did share some personal stuff in his life. He is a sweet guy, but maybe I crushed his ego— *sigh* Oh Scorpios ....oh scorpios. :\

PD

For this question, I'll answer base from experience 'cos I was accused of "using" a person once. (just because I didn't go her special concert or whatever..she said i was not a real friend and only contacted her when I needed help.. I was bewildered and said "HUH?")

Some people misunderstood me as their friend just because I ate lunch with them during break or I studied with them after class or I called them at night to ask questions about a project or a homework. For me, those people aren't friends. they are colleagues. So, when the time came for me to move on, i.e. (found a new job, graduated from school), I didn't talk to them anymore. Does that mean I abandoned friends after I used them? I don't think so. Because for me, They were never my friends in the first place. I never shared personal information with them or shared family affairs with them.

For me, friends are the family we choose for ourselves. they are the people I confide with about my personal problems, my dreams, my triumphs. if I only talk business with a person, or other mundane stuff such as the weather, that's not a friend. An acquaintance perhaps? A co-worker? a classmate? I mean I don't know.. It's not easy to be my friend. You have to pass a series of test with flying colors for me to consider you as a friend and when that happens, I'll be your friend forever, through good times, through bad times, no matter what happens.

First of all sorry for typos above ......ughhh I am running on 5 hours of sporatic sleep so I am a bit delirous. lol

I think I agree with that statement PrincessPisces.

"I think Scorpios can be friends as long as they don't want more than just friendship with you."

Scorpio740 the friendship criteria you describe is something that probably many of us follow, I just find Scorpios a matter of fact about it. There is no gray area with you all. For instance I have a hierarchy of friends. I have a handful of friends who are like my family whom I have been friends with at least 20 years plus. They know me often times better than my own family knows me. We have seen each other grow and change from years gone by. I than have aquired friends through other friends, school, social networking, and work. Some of them make it close to that hierarchy top and some just stay as more on that lower level of friends I do things with. Now some of the lower level friends have the potential to make it to that top hierarchy. That is why I never treat friends as disposable. Does that make sense? Now with a Scorpio because they are so private and only a few select make it into that realm. Now this whole series of test I would be interested to learn. Can you describe.

BG - Yeah .....Ms. Robinson ......just the title I desire to have. lol 😛

Posted by pacman76
Do scorpios usually cut off ties with friends once they cannot benefit from them anymore?

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Nice post . People are gradually becoming aware of scorpio and their actions . I think there should be an effort from government to increase the awareness among people who do not know astrology about scorpios .

@Pisces_Dream

Hmm.. it all depends...whenever opportunity arise i guess.. =)

I'll give you an example that happened 4 days ago.

Friend A and I accidentally saw each other and decided to eat lunch together. Coincidentally Person B was also in that same place that we went into. Now, Person B is someone I don't really like talking to. Anyway, Friend A and Person B are friends. Here's how the conversation went.

Person B: Hey Friend A, how are you, we've got a table over there do you want to join us?
Friend A: really, that's great. Friend A looked at me and said "we can join their table"
ME: hmm, no, I like it to go. You can join them if you want to.
Friend A: Looked at Person B and said, "Well, we're ordering to go, it's nice seeing you though"
ME: smiled at friend A and offered to pay her lunch. =)

Like that.. hope you got an idea.. =D