Does he really care

I have been dating a scorpio for 3 months and we get on well but i dont know how he really feels. Body language says he likes me but is it only sex. The most he ever says is that I drive him crazy and he wants me. Wants— Wants me or wants sex? Is there any honest scorpion males prepare to answer this question. When I try and get an answer from him he talks about future times but doesnt really answer the question.

dear,
scorpioes NEVER admit their love. even if they are in love with someone, it is much easier for them to buy a gift, give a hug, etc rather than saying the word..it is so hard on them
Scorpio

I am married to a Scorpio. We've been together for almost 5 years. It is a very difficult relationship, because of all of his silly mind games. Scorpio is very insecure and in response to that, seeks control and domination. Don't expect him to change, because it's his very nature. My husband plans to seek counseling for some of his issues, but from the beginning he was straight forward about his need to dominate and control. You have to read the signs they give you and decide whether you can live with their ways. They're not easy to live with. My husband swept me off my feet. He was generous, loving, attentive, and a wonderful love maker. Within 2 months of our relationship, I had a promise ring (unexpected, I might add) and a request from him for me to accompany him on a trip out of town. It was very scary. I remember asking him if he loved me and he didn't want to answer the question. They don't like to reveal who they truly are, inside. The reason, I believe, they do this is to protect themselves from hurt. They hurt very easily and heal very slowly. Anyway, he did confess his true feelings, but I knew already simply through his actions. Afterall, love is a verb. I'd rather see love in action, than hear someone speaking mere words, without showing/expressing it. Love is a gamble. You have to take things slow and let him show you where he wants to take the relationship. Be careful and proceed with caution. Know what you're getting into. Don't disregard those nuances in the relationship as things that will pass. They won't. You will have to love them just as they are, or move on. If you think you're going to change them, you're wasting your time. God knows I'm a witness and a person who speaks from a great deal of experience. The sex is still great, but it's other issues, like mind games, that trouble our relationship. Trust me. They can dish out games very easily, but they can't take what they dish out. If you were to do some of the things he's doing, he would feel manipulated, hurt, deceived, and betrayed. That, I suppose, is the most troubling part of a relationship with a Scorpio. They only see their side and it is difficult for them to see other people's point of view. They don't see when they're being manipulative, deceitful, etc. They will rationalize away their crap quickly and easily. I will say this to you and any other woman who has fallen for a Scorpio: Know that what he's showing you, during the courtship stage, is exactly what you can expect later, to the 10th power, once you're his wife. He's bossy, demanding, arrogant (at times), very jealous, seeks to lock his little trophy (that being you) away from the rest of the world, and has a difficult time accepting the "individuality" of his partner. He wants to be your everything and by God if he doesn't feel that way, he'll make you freakin' miserable (that is, if you love him). I guess, noone's perfect. We all have our flaws, but be careful and tread lightly with a Scorpio. There's a bit more to them than meets the eye. Study them and ask them questions and watch their reaction. They don't want many people to know them. If the truth be told, the mystery they put out there is a facade. Theirs, actually, not much that's mysterious about a Scorpio, if you do your work. My husband hates that I have him figured out. They're very similar to Aries, in that, they like to play games. Once you have figured them out, the game is over and they have a harder time playing their games with you. As you get to know them, which will take quite some time, you will see a lot of things unfold before your eyes. Then, you realize this man isn't as great as he comes off to be. My husband came off as a romantic. By nature and his astrological sign, he's not romantic, at all. But, Scorpio, wants what he wants and will do what is necessary to win the heart of an unassuming woman. Once he is certain that he has you hooked, the true Scorpio nature will be revealed, i

I dont know what to say to that response. I must admit I have confessed how I feel to him because I thought it would reassure him that I do care. Maybe your right about the games and maybe its time I started playing the games with my own rules. Thanks

Sometimes Scorpions - especially males - are confused and scared, but want sex because it's their "birthright". Maybe he does care about you, but may not be able to communicate in a way you can relate to. If I were you, I would break up with him because he refuses to be direct with you.

Beg to differ with the Scorpios won't tell you when they love you nonsense.

Simply not true, we are very clear when we truly love someone. It may be hard for one of us, especially a male, to express it on the drop of a hat, but we would not leave you guessing.

In fact, when you scratching your head about how one of feels for you, I think that is a pretty bad sign. Some Scorpios get very caught up in ulterior motives. Ask yourself if you are being used in some way, honestly.
Ask yourself: would someone who really loved me and/or even cared about my feelings in the first place act this way?

Let me edit that, I actually filed divorce on him a few months ago. Of course he is being very vindictive and dragging the whole thing out. The only thing worse than being married to a lower Scorpio male in my book, is going through a divorce with one. But I'm Scorpio too, so he is actually somewhat afraid of me.
I just wanted to point out everything you said is right. These ladies just dating these magnetic Scorpio men (cause there is no shortage of women entranced by them) have no idea until and unless they marry one.
Once he realized that I saw through his mask and his manipulations failed to work on me, that is when it all blew up. Yes, any whispers of "something is not right here" only become screams after you tie the knot.