Getting a Scorpio back after really bad break up?

So I'm a Aquarius and I was with my Scorpio boyfriend for about 5months, things were going really well and then one day he broke up with me over a really silly argument , I tried everything to get him back I called him non stop to try and make things better, I feel I have smothered him now and scared him off.. I don't want to not be with him but I don't know what to do.. Our relationship seemed perfect to me I wouldn't change a thing and I want him back more than anything... Help ——

Off his radar how

And wat do I do if ice already smothered him 😢 😢 😢

LOL smother him some more!!! *evil smile* so he can't take it anymore!! 😄

Loool u shudder never mess with a Scorpio haha

He still answers my calls he's just giving me the cold shoulder I know he still loves me!

If I disappear will he want me back? I don't want him to loose interest completely ?

Nessa first of all stop arguing, that's drama, if you need a break, take break but if you argue with a man you are showing him you have no self control and fall apart at the slightest issue that comes up and can't handle the hard stuff.

Get off his ass, stop contacting him, stop chasing him, if you chase a man he will run, so just go chill out and stop worrying about reconciliation, if he has an ounce of feelings for you and you stay gone long enough, he'll eventually open up the lines of communication but it has to be when he's ready.

Pushing for reconciliation and chasing a man will work AGAINST you instead of for you so disappear off the grid for a little while, go do something productive and fun, stop beating yourself up over what happened, the issue is over, the argument is over but it doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over for good so you have to be okay with what he wants and what he want is for you to back off and get a life instead of making him feel responsible for giving you a life and giving you happiness.

Be the Independent Aqua that you truly are and put on your aloof cap for a little while, he'll be back before you have a chance to wonder why he's still gone.

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Tiki33,!thanks for the advice very helpful hopefully this goes well I just need to focus my energy on something else

Depends on what the argument was about. You may think it's silly, but that is only your POV. You say your relationship "seemed perfect to me", but it may not have been to him. Why would someone leave a "perfect" relationship over something "silly" and not even be willing to talk to you to resolve the issue? with that said, I'm not sure there is any one "thing" you can do to fix this unless you address the argument. If he's not willing to, you may need to simply let go.

But won't disappearing make me loose him completely he says he's unhappy about life ATM but I want to be there for him but he's blocking me out, he never tells me how he feels 😢

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Posted by tiki33
Nessa first of all stop arguing, that's drama, if you need a break, take break but if you argue with a man you are showing him you have no self control and fall apart at the slightest issue that comes up and can't handle the hard stuff.

Get off his ass, stop contacting him, stop chasing him, if you chase a man he will run, so just go chill out and stop worrying about reconciliation, if he has an ounce of feelings for you and you stay gone long enough, he'll eventually open up the lines of communication but it has to be when he's ready.

Pushing for reconciliation and chasing a man will work AGAINST you instead of for you so disappear off the grid for a little while, go do something productive and fun, stop beating yourself up over what happened, the issue is over, the argument is over but it doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over for good so you have to be okay with what he wants and what he want is for you to back off and get a life instead of making him feel responsible for giving you a life and giving you happiness.

Be the Independent Aqua that you truly are and put on your aloof cap for a little while, he'll be back before you have a chance to wonder why he's still gone.

this. works like a charm

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Can't this work to my disadvantage and cause him to stay away forever Scorpios seem so get over stuff pretty quick

My first comment i was with my scorpio for 10mths i'm a scorpio/sagittarian, last week he break the relationship
reason being he don't love me does'nt want a relationship & hopes we can be friends, i said no friendship because thats
how we started & i was single for 5yrs before i met him.
Can anyone give me some constructive advice plz.
And to aqua i understand & feel your hurt

Stop contacting him. They need time to think. After that, they'll do the chasing. One thing I've notice with a Scorpio is the more you pursue him the more he runs on the opposite side. Make him think you are not really affected leaving him bothered.

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But won't disappearing make me loose him completely he says he's unhappy about life ATM but I want to be there for him but he's blocking me out, he never tells me how he feels 😢

Well dammit, how is what your doing working for you? Keep smothering him and you will never find out. Heed the excellent advice and stop fighting it. You may get your answer. Another thing if this behavior he's pulling now is making you so upset why the hell are you clinging onto it? Makes no sense.