great

just great. 😢 told ya it was gonna happen. he decided to break the relationship off, I told him that's fine, of course he got mad and the reason he did was so uneccessary. some days later he called back and said he wanted to try again and i told him nope, because I'm sick of being dumped over something so petty and he tries to come back. I think he thinks its funny. This is the 2nd time he's done this. He said it's better to be friends, and when he feels he could trust me he'll come back, guess it took 3 days for that to happen. He claims he trust me now, but he said that the last time. I'm not even doing anything wrong. Lord have mercy. I am going to kill him. 😢

LOL!

This relationship was unreasonable too. You both were fighting. The time to move on had come and passed long time ago. Good luck.

Uh,yeah,okay,you got yourself a real winner there.They say women are the ones who can't make up thier minds and don't know what they want.I got a paintball gun you can borrow that way you can take your aggressions out without jail time.Aiming for fleshy areas such as the rear end leaves some mean bruises.Blue,pink or green balls?

Tia:

Paintball gun? Do you like to play with it—

Usually thats why you get paintball guns.Why?Doesn't turkey have paint balling?If so it's kinda like hunting only nothings being killed unless someones an idiot and aims for someones head,spine or something.

>> LOL!

This relationship was unreasonable too. You both were fighting. The time to move on had come and passed long time ago. Good luck.

Sounds to me that you're a little too evolved to deal with someone like him. You love him, and he's playing games. I hate to say there's no chance that anything is going to come of this aside from heartache, but essentially that's all that needs to be said. You can either decide to prolong it, or stick to your guns and find someone who appreciates who you are and can handle it. Easier said than done, true, but I wouldn't say a word if I didn't have a similar situation happen to me... Don't waste your time with someone who's going to toy with you, unless you only want to be toyed with.

Take care....
Storm

BeautifulScorpion,

sorry to hear you're in that situation. i don't know the whole story but have questions:

"He claims he trust me now"

isn't trust something you gain very slowly, bit by bit? isn't it something you show and can feel, but don?t advertise? how can a person just decide out of the blue that they trust you NOW? doesn't trust have to grow with time—? he seems to be a bit... hm... dunno... maybe superficial—

oh, yeah! another question:

"He said it's better to be friends, and when he feels he could trust me he'll come back, guess it took 3 days for that to happen."

why didn't/doesn't he feel that he could trust you? did you give him a reason for suspicion?
and, within only 3 days you won his trust (or so he claimed)——— heeeeeee.... whaaat—?
babe, you must be a genius winning his trust that quickly!!!! what's this game he's playing—

if you wanted to kill him, i'd understand!

BeautifulScorpion,

I don't normally post much but I figured I would add my small opinion =).

I noticed in your last post, you said the both of you don't talk about problems very much. That was root of your (your being you AND him...I don't mean just you) relationships problem. If you two weren't able to talk to eachother then about issues, then, and I'm going to be brutally honest here...there was no hope in hell for the relationship to work.

Both partners need to be able to communicate and compromise, that is fundamental.

I speak from experience. My girlfriend is a Scorpio (I am a Taurus) and we can both be very stubborn, BUT, we are able to talk to eachother and always work everything out when issues arise. Sometimes I bend, sometimes she does...the point being talking about problems when and as they arise and being comfortable in doing so with eachother.

I can sense the frustration in your words. I don't want to seem too forward, but I just get the feeling that this guy wasn't the right connection for you. You deserve better.