Help me decipher this scorpio guy

I met my scorpio guy at work, when I as covering a shift for another colleague. We got talking, he asked me a few personal question, but I didn't really think much of it.

Later that week, I saw him by coincidence, he asked me when I was working next (which was at the time he normally works) and told me he would see me at that time then, but I had to change my shift and when I saw him next, he asked why I didn't work. Later, again, he found me on social media (without me telling him my full name and we have no mutual friends), which was the point I realised he might be interested.

Since we got on very well and I found him very attractive, me being an Aries girl, I took the iniciative and asked him to help me with something work related outside work hours. We met up, discussed work for about half an hour, but then talked about personal things for another hour, he asked me a lot of quite personal questions, whether I am staying in the same city after my graduation (yes), told me what he found out about me from other colleagues (in a none creepy way 😄), stared into my eyes, in general seemed interested.

When we see each other at work, he always looks into my eyes, we have a quick chat and he usually updates me about what's going on in his life without me even asking, he still seems intersted, but he isn't acting on it.

Also, before our meeting, he texted me he would be late for the meeting and that he would buy me coffee for the inconvenience caused, but again, me being an independent aries girl, I didn't want him to spend money on me, so I bought myself a drink before he got there, which now think he could have taken as a sign that I am not interested...?

The more I know him, the more I am attracted to him, so any advice is appreciated, thanks! 🙂

Be yourself and let things flow organically. Learn him and respond accordingly.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with buying you own coffee, however I could see how it may send the wrong message the way you went about it.

When a man tells you he would like to buy you a drink, either decline the drink and suggest you just meet anyway, or let him buy you the drink. What you did could be a little off putting....I see you butting heads a bit over time if you continuously feel the need to "assert your independence" over trivial matters.

Simply, enjoy the experience.

ladykey,

He is a Scorpio. I had a Scorpio at work before and he was an engineer. He kept buying me food and

even bread and coffee. There is nothing wrong with this. That engr. is really generous.

That Scorpio guy seems generous. Please don't assume when there is none.

Scorpio guys when they likes you they won't tell it right away. They will observe you first and

ask you many questions. That Scorpio guy you are referring sounds friendly.

Thanks guys, do I just wait or do I do anything? We don't work together, so there're not many opportunities to talk and I am worried that if I just let it go, one of us will loose interest/fall into friendzone.

And the coffee situation, I don't mind if guys pay for me, but because I came earlier, I didn't want to sit without a drink 🙂