Won't make this long and drawn out. Dating Scorpio guy (I'm taurus). Hot/cold. recently hot, now cold. Coldness always bothers me with him because last time he went ice cold it was to try again with a cheating ex. Didn't work.
So I snooped. Guessed his pass to his myspace. Nothing lately, but saw he tried to pick up a random girl two days before he asked me to be his gf (we'd gone back and forth for a month after he left the cheating ex). Also saw some of his friends sent him OK Cupid ads of girls to get with. One of his friends cut and pasted a wall post I made to him and said "Hey, (a random girl) just put 'single' as her status, you might want to hit that."
So I don't know what to do. I think I've been too nice to him. He was heartbroken - he said - by the ex that cheated on him and I wanted to show him I was different. I thought Scorpios are loyal? Does he not respect me because I went back to him after he dumped me to try again with his ex? I am hurt and confused. Any help is appreciated!!!
I went back to him after he dumped me to try again with his ex? I am hurt and confused. Any help is appreciated!!!
You put yourself in a low low low position, no respect for a girl that does'n't know she deserves a man that won't leave her for another woman...your going to be doing ALL the work and I know your the only one in the relationship because your checking up behind him, you don't feel like he's really yours yet, you feel imbalanced by his lack of participation within the relationship...your emotionally thirsty and that can drive a woman to do stupid things, stop trying to SHOW and PROVE yourself to him...YOU ARE ENOUGH..YOUR GOOD ENOUGH and if he can't see it without you convincing and showing and proving then DUMP HIM because snooping is so not attractive...get some mystery about yourself, the open book persona is BORING *yawn* stop stalking him by checking behind him, get a life and I mean real fast or this relationship is doomed for failure...he just got out of a relationship, you were the rebound chick and now he's on the prowl for a hard to get woman and most likely he's looking for another version of his ex...your the safe bet but soon as he finds his dreamgirl he's outta there again...I wouldn't have taken his cheating ass back
Tiki, you are on point, no doubt. I agree with everything you just said! I am thinking about dipping and just letting him figure it out, no conversation. I'm tired of this.
Of course, that's the only reason he is doing it is for the reaction and the attention. He is not even really angry. He is laughing guaranteed!!
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So I snooped. Guessed his pass to his myspace. Nothing lately, but saw he tried to pick up a random girl two days before he asked me to be his gf (we'd gone back and forth for a month after he left the cheating ex). Also saw some of his friends sent him OK Cupid ads of girls to get with. One of his friends cut and pasted a wall post I made to him and said "Hey, (a random girl) just put 'single' as her status, you might want to hit that."
So I don't know what to do. I think I've been too nice to him. He was heartbroken - he said - by the ex that cheated on him and I wanted to show him I was different. I thought Scorpios are loyal? Does he not respect me because I went back to him after he dumped me to try again with his ex? I am hurt and confused. Any help is appreciated!!!