HELP! Relationship advice with a Scorpio Male

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Blluurrr
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10 Years

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I was friends with a scorpio male and eventually we started dating, it's been 2 years since we got together but he's also been distant for the past 6 months. He was really intense at first (wanted to be around me nonstop and i wanted the same) soon after we started dating he decided to move in with me. Not long after that I got pregnant. He was great all the way through my pregnancy but then 1 month after our son was born he started being distant.
He would keep to himself all day and would mostly just lay in bed or on the couch and not do anything (he still went to work but that was it). After 2 months of him being like that I confronted him and asked him why. We ended up arguing because he wouldn't say why he was being like that.
After that he went stone cold, he completely ignored me he would still would still come home and sleep here but he wouldn't say a word. From time to time he would out of no where start talking to me as if we were friends again and joking, or want to have sex, or would decided to come lay down next to me in bed, or comfort me when i was having a bad day.
about 2 weeks ago, he told me that he wanted to break up and move out. I just recently started working again and am fully capably of supporting myself and our son. I told him that he could stay here with me for as long as he wanted until he could save up enough money to move out and he said he wanted to do that but that it might take some time i.e. 6 months to a year he doesn't know. The thing is he has friends who would offer him a place to stay and he has had no problems in the past with walking out of a living situation with an ex. He hasn't told anyone that we've broken up yet except his sister.
Why he wants to break up he said that it has nothing to do with me and that I didn't do anything wrong to him , that its simply him and he wants to be alone. He said he still loves and cares about me (he just no longer feels the same love that he did in the beginning) and that he's not interested in being with anyone else he just simply wants to be alone.
Since we've broken up I've been giving him his own space and not bothering him (i'm not ignoring him, we still live together) but yet he's still starting conversations with me, texts me from time to time, and still wanting to have sex.

Is this relationship really over? Will he come back?
I still love and care about him deeply and want to be in a relationship and spend the rest of my life with him and he knows that.
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Blluurrr
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That's the thing I don't think our kid is what's keeping him around. He was previously married (he absolutely hates the person now) and had a kid with her and when he ended it with her he immediately the same day moved out. He grabbed his stuff and moved to a friends house and left his ex and their kid with the house. He said the biggest difference between me and his ex is that he doesn't hate me and that he loves that I'm a good person to him, his daughter, our son, and that I do everything I can to take care of them.