Here's a thought....

For all of you people who have questions about that certain scorpio person you know, I have a great idea. Anything you want to know about that person will be revealed if you just ASK THEM, not us.

We don't know your person. All scorpios are not magically connected to each other. We don't know the mindset, feelings, or predictions of total strangers we never even met, scorpio or not. So please how about asking your person 'what are they thinking' 'do they have an issue', 'do they like you' 'will they come back' and any other things you are curious about? It just makes more sense.

If you can talk to strangers easier than you can talk to the person you're supposed to be with, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship. A: either your person is not easy to talk to, or B: you lacks proper communication and rather be indirect.

I for one would be angry if my partner went elsewhere to know my thoughts, feelings, and personality.

Yin's 2 cents.

Posted by LadyYin
For all of you people who have questions about that certain scorpio person you know, I have a great idea. Anything you want to know about that person will be revealed if you just ASK THEM, not us.

We don't know your person. All scorpios are not magically connected to each other. We don't know the mindset, feelings, or predictions of total strangers we never even met, scorpio or not. So please how about asking your person 'what are they thinking' 'do they have an issue', 'do they like you' 'will they come back' and any other things you are curious about? It just makes more sense.

If you can talk to strangers easier than you can talk to the person you're supposed to be with, maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship. A: either your person is not easy to talk to, or B: you lacks proper communication and rather be indirect.

I for one would be angry if my partner went elsewhere to know my thoughts, feelings, and personality.

Yin's 2 cents.

Point taken but this is a forum where people want to discuss things and get advice.

but what good is opening up to everyone else EXCEPT your partner? you have a question about your partner so shouldn't you ask your partner first? and if they dont communicate, that means this is not the person you should be with.

but like i said...how would strangers know 'why scorpio wont talk to me'? at best, all you get is a bunch of guess that usually turn out to be wrong. if a person won't talk to me, i will not beat up myself. or ask anyone else. i will leave since obviously communication between us is dead.

i dont expect others to be able to cut someone off as quickly as myself can. i'm really curious as to why all the frustration is worth it. eh, love is blind.

it seems the effort to communicate is one sided. people come here to find answers to try to hold together what little relationship they have, but what is the partner doing besides not talking? im sure they are not on forums asking how to communicate better with you.

lol I think people coming here have a point, getting a scorpio to open up is a tough task especially when they pick their words so carefully or are in the early stages of a relationship. The scorpio can answer to your questions but you'll rarely get the entire story because it's usually complicated even in their minds.

it's too many people trying to excuse poor relationship skills.

we have the people on forums trying to find out an answer that is right in their faces - no communication means you dont have the relationship you think you have. it would be better to cut ties than to keep doing your head in.

then we have the posters who make excuses for the scorpios who cause the problems. (no, im not biased. im a scorpio too. im just being fair.) oh maybe he/she is busy. oh they will talk to you when they are ready. maybe he/she doesnt trust you well enough to communicate...

bull. if you love someone and are in a relationship with them, you make time to communicate. you don't leave your partner in the dark. that is cruel and a form of game playing. i know we're secretive, but it is time to let that go when you choose to get into a relationship with someone you claim to love.

you dont need a bunch of strangers to tell you that.

well yeah but few people have stellar relationship skills, I know for one I'm awful at that but sometimes you just need to let it out somewhere, hear what people have to say about it and take their advice or choose to do your own shit. I doubt people really come here to do exactly what strangers tell them to do, I guess it's more venting than anything.

Posted by Arielle83
Are you new or something?

This is easy to say but 100% of the people who ask astrology related questions aren't using logic.

Yes. I am new. And I'm curious. Hence the topic.

Anyway, it's apparent that people who ask those types of questions aren't all there. But it's too much of that, especially in scorpio board. If people let go of their expectations they get from astrology, maybe they would be able to see the type of person their scorpio is. We don't follow 'rule book/ astrology book' behaviour.

I get people may not know who they are dealing with. But how are we to know any better than them?

Posted by FrostAndBite
I've learned a hella lot more about astrology and my relationships in life by looking at me before the other person.

+2,015

Posted by FrostAndBite
Also, astrology is simply one more outlet people use when trying to avoid their problems. If my partner is X sign, and X sign is known for Y behavior than it's not my fault, it's theirs and I am justified in feeling the way I do.

now I know why Elle stopped advising people on relationships and would only really answer questions people had about themselves or their own chart. I've learned a hella lot more about astrology and my relationships in life by looking at me before the other person.

+1 to everything.

and also on bold.