What is he playing at?

My other half who is a scorpio does some things which make me think he's ignoring me or doesn't care. Is it a game?

For instance, I tagged him in a cute pic, when I saw it I thought of him and wanted to let him know so I tagged him. It was a quote and it was something sweet about love. I tagged him in a few other things...funny videos etc.

An hour later he liked some other pics which included girls frolicking around playing sports on the beach in their bikinis but yet never responded to anything I said. He obviously saw what I tagged him in. Why is he acting like he's totally oblivious to it and ignoring it? What's with this nonchalant behaviour?

I got so annoyed I untagged him in everything lol. It feels like a slap across the face...me trying to be sweet and he goes ahead like he doesn't care and takes no notice. So f****** rude!!!

I'm an aquarius btw.

Some insight please!

Thanks. I got annoyed and didn't mean to over react. I haven't said anything to him about it and I probably won't.

In that moment of time I just felt ignored when I was trying to be nice.

I understand they like their privacy and it all makes sense what you said YellowSubmarine.

My bf seems to love social media and I'm the one who doesn't like it lol. He usually tags me in posts like on Instagram of funny vids but I don't like using it. He even said to me you ignored me when I tagged you..in a jokey way. So I respond to him now, I try using it more often and tag him in things.

And especially cos he liked the girls playing on the beach, it felt like he was saying something indirectly.

Or am I just being stupid lol

"He even said to me you ignored me when I tagged you... "

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Posted by YellowSubmarine
I agree with Rabbit, that's it's just Facebook, but I also understand what you're getting at...

Scorpio's and their inability to be open with emotion can at times lead people to believe they're being ignored or not cared for.. I've dated one triple Scorp, and three other Venus Scorps... and I'm Scorp dominant

He's not ignoring you, he just doesn't know how to respond.. and he's not going to respond, esp not in a public forum - they are very secretive about their personal life, which sometimes leads people to think they're two-timing, but with Scorp it's not always the case.

If I were you, I'd just bring it up the next time I see him (in person, not via text) - just say "hey, did you see that post I tagged you in?" - you'll get a response face-to-face, you won't get one in a public forum

ALL the Scorps I dated didn't even use social media!! They pride themselves on their privacy.

Or he's just an asshole - either way, when you ask him about it, the response will tell you what you need to know.

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Posted by Montgomery
"He even said to me you ignored me when I tagged you... "

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He might just be getting back at you - I wouldn't put it past a true Scorp... I'm only Scorp dominant, and I'm alllll about getting even because I live my life by what is fair.. if he's got Merc or Venus in Libra, perhaps even Mars in Libra, his intentions behind ignoring it would be different - Libra's are about fairness and balance, not necessarily revenge

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Him saying that I ignored him was quite a while back. Ever since him saying that I have tried to not ignore and acknowledge instead.

His venus is in libra. Merc is scorpio.

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Posted by Reincarnation
Ask him.

Scorpios don't mind direct questions at all.

Exactly. Like I said, wait until you see him and just bring it up. You'll get your answer.

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Does it seem abit random and out the blue asking him?...the next time I will see him is probably the weekend

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Posted by Reincarnation
Ask him.

Scorpios don't mind direct questions at all.

Exactly. Like I said, wait until you see him and just bring it up. You'll get your answer.

Does it seem abit random and out the blue asking him?...the next time I will see him is probably the weekend

No. You're just making conversation - you said he uses social media a lot so he shouldn't find it odd at all.

He probably wants you to bring it up, to be honest (Scorps and their mind games, but goddamn are they loyal)... anyway, he might want to see if you noticed, just like the way he noticed when you ignored him.

Wait, how long have you been dating?

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We have been together four years. In between its been a bit up and down but things are going well. I get the mind games and all that jazz at the beginning but doing that crap now it's just annoying.

Posted by Impulsv
Actually he probably trying to keep his manhood with all that girly love talk on tags

This is probably the first or second time I have tagged him in something lovey dovey. It's not an everyday thing lol. I hardly tag him in anything. I don't even like using it tbh!

Posted by Rabbit
1) it's just Facebook. Get the fuck over it.

2) MOST people would ignore being tagged in corny, cutesy Facebook shit. Get the fuck over that, too.

ftw

Aquas want full disclourse, spill your emotions all the time
Scorps are into selectivel disclosure

problem solved

lol I seriously don't have patience! Over the years I have learnt how to be more patient. I probably have to thank him for that!!

Usually things are going great then something just ruins the moment

I wish mine did lol...he's too busy following random girls, how lovely!