But seriously, some people come to dxp for advice. Kinda like a last resort. You always have helpful insightful input to offer. You may have even saved a relationship or two.
Is that heroism? It may be in someone else's eyes.
I think the soldiers fighting in the war are heros. They are fighting for a cause. They are fighting for their country and for all the citizens in it.
I think the parents of the soldiers are also heros. They have given their children to their country. I was thinking about this on the 4th. I watched grieving mothers walk through the memorials for dead soldiers. They no longer have their babies. Their babies died for a cause greater than themselves. I couldnt' imagine giving my son to war. Thinking about raising him to be a decent responsible citizen then watching him go off to fight for our country. I would be proud. But I don't think I could do it. I'm not that heroic.
You also have alot of people who look up to their parents as their heros. I don't want my children to see me as a hero. I want them to know I am not perfect. I am flawed. I have been there and done that. I don't want to be on a pedestal. I just want to be loved and respected for what I have done to raise then.
I did do an act of selflessness to help out a practical stranger. She became my best friend. I did it to help someone out and it ended up benefiting us both in the long run. 🙂
I was in New Orleans in April 2005. My b/f and I stayed a week. We met a bartender where we were staying. She talked about the city, what we should do, see, eat....then she talked about herself. We talked about our life at home. She was a cool person. We exchanged #'s and talked once or twice.
After Hurricane Katrina we called her. She and her family had evacuated to a small town in Texas. They were going to go to Houston to look for jobs. I told her the job market would be flooded and she agreed but said she had no other choice. So we called her back and told her we had a plane ticket in her name and she was coming to stay in Vegas until she got on her feet again.
We moved our son into our room for a few months and she stayed in his room. We helped her emotionally. We helped her with FEMA, Red Cross, getting a job. Needless to say, she has been here for about 10 months now. She has a wonderful fiance. They have a pretty house and she is helping him raise his children. She is doing wonderful! And she is my best friend to boot!
LOL! Thank you m&m. But like I said, it benefitted me just as much. She is such a part of my life and I love her so much. It was just one of those things that happened for a reason.
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Have you done anything heroic? Does anyone consider you a hero?
"Heroism comes from within. It is a selfless sacrifice." That's what I consider heroism.