Hooking a scorpio

hrmmmm.. just a quick question, that would be very helpful to me, if all you scorp men could tell me how to win yer heart? I like a scorpio... and well
he seems very reserved, and shy. But at the same time, warming up to me EXTREMELY slowly. What''s a girl to do to help things along? thanks 🙂

Well if you find out can you please let me know, having the same problem with my scorpio guy. We have been going out for two months now, one minute his hot then his cold. The biggest problem I have is getting him to open up....If anyone has any ideas can you please share them with me ....Aussie pisces girl.....

Hi gals,
Been with a few scorpio's and as you both are water signs you should be able to work this dilemma out. They talk when they want to talk , and do what they want to do when they want to do it.Go with the flow and enjoy, if they are interested, they will work.

Speaking as a Scorp fella, I'm pretty reserved until I practically have someone standing in front of me with glow sticks waving me in. My suggestion is to let the fella warm up to you slowly and don't take it as an affront if it takes him a while. We're terribly analytical folks, and I often find myself trying to second guess how things could go wrong before they start. Best solution... talk it out.

thanks a lot everyone responding!
much appreciated! and Movietext.... you sound pretty much like what this guy is doing! precisely! thanks a bunch

i can feel for all the Pisces girls out there and i can relate to both sides. I am a Scorpio with a Pisces rising girl.

The thing is that Scorpio's like a bit of mystery and also like to be around easy going people to cool them down because although they seem collected on the outside, they always have burning issues - chances are that you are one of them. Good humour and not taking them too seriously i think would do the trick, but also showing him how irresistible you find him. Scorpio's like very feminine women and sensual yet sophisticated mannerisms.

H.

We are generally suspicious and have intense emotions ....... we are the wolves that circle the outer glow of a campfire deep in the forrest. We want company but fearful of someone mocking our ability for deep emotion. Never laugh or doubt sincereity when a scorpio man expresses himself. We also crave sex, not so much physical pleasure but deep intense "hug me when I come sex" (had to throw that in - because its true!)

Just be as real as you can with him. Dont give him any room for doubt and you may find that you'll get more than you bargained for. All we really want to know is that the unbridled passions that we WANT to unleash on our mates will be accepted and appreciated.

Hey thought that maybe you might like an opinion from a Gemini Girl. I'm not sure if I am a strange Gemini or not but the deep emotions that my Scorpio Man has, completely keeps me thrilled. He is a performer and always has beautiful women coming up to him and flirting with him. I seem to be the one that has to deal with my jealously, something that I have never experienced before. He says that it is part of his Job to flirt with women but his heart is with me. He has not become jealous or angry and does not overwhelm me because of his career. Gemini's hate to be controlled. I've learned that this Scorpio man is my future. Good luck to you. Be very careful of his feelings and you will go far. L

Pisces8 from Canada, you can't rush relationships. You have to be friends first before getting serious. I'm your opposite, Virgo, and I'm not trying to discourge you. I'm pointing out that relationships take time. Scorpios are private people, and you have to respect that.