How to deal with Scorpio's moodiness/distance?

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As a pisces I'm a sponge. I try to keep on the positive side once I have a plan in place to take care of a specific problem.

How do I deal with incessant moodiness? I don't take it personal and I give him distance. We are not in a relationship but I want to be closer. We communicate almost everyday. Usually when he's feeling well, he jokes around and converses easily. He's in a lot of pain and works about 60 % of the time. I can sense my talkativeness is occasionally annoying but I sometimes feel the need to distract him. We are at the point where I know his "pattern" so I give him space to initiate communication. But I want to be closer without going to extremes.
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Posted by MlleFisk


It's frustrating to watch you make threads and go out of your way for this guy hoping for a more intimate relationship. Meanwhile, he gives you crumbs. I admire your tenacity though.
I think you need to hear that. Most scorpios are not worth all the hard work you're going to have to put in just to get a little bit of something out of them. You're going to be exhausted at the end of this and deeply frustrated, I promise. You deserve better. Much better. Stop trying to accommodate him. Stop believing what astrology says. Scorpios are not always good for Pisces. In fact most of the time they are not.

I think it's time you take those rose colored glasses off to see him for who he really is. What is he bringing to the table? What did he done for you? Does he make you feel good about yourself? Does he make you feel like you and him have something worth fighting for?


Once again: Not all Scorpios are good for Pisces.
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Posted by livictori
As a pisces I'm a sponge. I try to keep on the positive side once I have a plan in place to take care of a specific problem.

How do I deal with incessant moodiness? I don't take it personal and I give him distance. We are not in a relationship but I want to be closer. We communicate almost everyday. Usually when he's feeling well, he jokes around and converses easily. He's in a lot of pain and works about 60 % of the time. I can sense my talkativeness is occasionally annoying but I sometimes feel the need to distract him. We are at the point where I know his "pattern" so I give him space to initiate communication. But I want to be closer without going to extremes.
Why is he in pain?


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Posted by FrostAndBite
I'd listen to your fellow Pisces. I've been entangled with a few scorp men over the years. They aren't going to let you slip away if they love you and are worth investing in. Someone can love you but not be a capable partner to you. That's a hard pill to swallow because we are taught that love is a magical thing that fixes people but there's absolutely no truth to that.

Distance and moodiness are one thing. But when you are starting to be shut out or pushed away, it's a sign that it's not working and you have what could be a permanent uphill battle of unfulfilled expectation ahead.
+1

Never mind the thin layer of eggshells he's laid

down in his immediate vicinity that she's treating

like a concrete wall. :/

I think she should stomp on them. 🙂




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Posted by livictori
As a pisces I'm a sponge. I try to keep on the positive side once I have a plan in place to take care of a specific problem.

How do I deal with incessant moodiness? I don't take it personal and I give him distance. We are not in a relationship but I want to be closer. We communicate almost everyday. Usually when he's feeling well, he jokes around and converses easily. He's in a lot of pain and works about 60 % of the time. I can sense my talkativeness is occasionally annoying but I sometimes feel the need to distract him. We are at the point where I know his "pattern" so I give him space to initiate communication. But I want to be closer without going to extremes.
I fcuking hate memes and shitty insta quotes but this is so true I gotta do it...

"The best way to get someone's attention is to stop giving them yours"

END OF .

If he don't come to you after then there was nothing there worth saving/worrying over/ thinking about/ trying for/ etc etc

It hurts oh how it fucking hurts I kno you're thinking "this stupid cunt tinxy don't hv a clue"

Trust me I do

Love yourself and just STOP.

See what happens ...... Try it