How to fall out of love?

As a scorpio, if i begin to lose interest.. thats it, i am set in that mind frame and start to move on. I then find that the guy i am with will start to be clingy/desperate for me. which makes me even more turned off, and makes it easier for me to walk away!

This has always happened with all my ex's.

except now i am with a virgo guy, and long story short.. i dont know what to do. i want to be with him more than anything in the world but we have too many problems so im almost thinking i would be happier without him.

i have no idea how i can make myself fall out of love with him. or if thats even possible.


😢

Posted by scorpio24
As a scorpio, if i begin to lose interest.. thats it, i am set in that mind frame and start to move on. I then find that the guy i am with will start to be clingy/desperate for me. which makes me even more turned off, and makes it easier for me to walk away!

This has always happened with all my ex's.

except now i am with a virgo guy, and long story short.. i dont know what to do. i want to be with him more than anything in the world but we have too many problems so im almost thinking i would be happier without him.

i have no idea how i can make myself fall out of love with him. or if thats even possible.


😢

Move on...to be with a Virgo you have to have a huge load of patience. If you both aren't willing to work out what's not working, then it's over. Virgo's DO understand those words and he will get it. Good luck!

i cant 😢

Posted by ellessque
please don't pay any attention to that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

can you post your chart?

you might have some air you need to reconcile.

can you please give me the link of where to figure out my chart?? and then i will post it 🙂

Posted by ellessque
please don't pay any attention to that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

can you post your chart?

you might have some air you need to reconcile.

lol! sounds cute hehe

Sounds like karma is here to get you...

i hope this is what i was meant to paste:



Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 1.42 597
Sun Conjunction Venus 2.01 815
Moon Conjunction Uranus 1.26 288
Moon Conjunction Neptune 4.23 173
Mercury Conjunction Venus 3.43 566
Mercury Sextile Uranus 3.31 27
Mars Sextile Jupiter 2.56 59
Mars Conjunction Ascendant 3.39 152
Mars Trine Midheaven 0.39 55
Jupiter Square Pluto 5.33 -7
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 0.43 82
Jupiter Opposition Midheaven 2.17 -75
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 7.27 92
Saturn Sextile Pluto 2.27 87
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 5.48 84
Pluto Square Midheaven 3.16 -7
3077 -89 2988

this one?

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 1.03 Ascendant Gemini 10.48
Moon Capricorn 7.42 II Cancer 2.16
Mercury Scorpio 2.46 III Cancer 21.54
Venus Libra 29.03 IV Leo 13.49
Mars Gemini 14.27 R V Virgo 12.46
Jupiter Leo 11.31 VI Libra 24.02
Saturn Capricorn 19.31 VII Sagittarius 10.48
Uranus Capricorn 6.16 VIII Capricorn 2.16
Neptune Capricorn 12.04 IX Capricorn 21.54
Pluto Scorpio 17.04 Midheaven Aquarius 13.49
Lilith Sagittarius 9.31 XI Pisces 12.46
Asc node Aquarius 2.44 XII Aries 24.02

im confused.. im new to charts, what does it mean?

okay thanks 🙂

would you mind if i post his chart aswell? i want to understand him!

the only thing is im not 100% sure of his birth date! his mum said it's 1:01am but she wasnt 100% sure!

our problems arent really massive.. if you read my earlier post you will be able to see some of it. he's just heaps selfish etc 😢

HIM: i hope the time of his birth is correct! he had 3 other brothers, so hopefully this is HIS birth time not one of theirs! she couldnt completely remember off the top of her head


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Virgo 0.43 Ascendant Gemini 1.19
Moon Capricorn 7.59 II Cancer 2.11
Mercury Virgo 18.59 III Leo 6.30
Venus Cancer 14.57 IV Virgo 11.35
Mars Aries 11.25 V Libra 12.58
Jupiter Gemini 4.30 VI Scorpio 9.06
Saturn Sagittarius 25.58 R VII Sagittarius 1.19
Uranus Sagittarius 27.06 R VIII Capricorn 2.11
Neptune Capricorn 7.36 R IX Aquarius 6.30
Pluto Scorpio 10.07 Midheaven Pisces 11.35
Lilith Virgo 11.16 XI Aries 12.58
Asc node Pisces 14.03 XII Taurus 9.06

i LOVEEEEEEEE affection from him! i wish he gave it to me more publicly! i hardly get any PDA! with saying that though, i think he is proud to have me as his girlfriend. he hasnt said it but he always introduces me to anyone new straight away! haha.

he thinks im too clingy and affectionate and i hate having to chill out and not be my loving self.

thanks for your help 🙂

Posted by Mr. Defense
Booze or sex seems to do the trick. Anyway just find something to do with your life. And you will think about him less and less.. Remember life goes on

+1 minus the booze. An astro chart doesn't dictate this guys upbringing and the trauma he has suffered which he clearly hasn't dealt with yet. You need to step away tell him you are giving both of you space, clearly you are not happy the way things are going. You can't force what you want on this man. It will never happen. You'll push him away and resent him more. I guarantee you if you keep going the way you are, it's going to backfire. You really need to communicate what you feeling to him to so he can understand and offer him time to think things over for himself, and you do the same.

You should be thankful that you weren't born a day later, or your Venus would be in Scorpio, and you'd NEVER move on.