My first post here. First of all i've been dating a girl who is divorced for a year. (not the Scorpio woman) Before I began dating this girl I was friends with a fellow Scorpio girl. We met through my work. I'm in sales and she bought something off me. She was engaged at the time. This was a few years ago. She would come into my store and buy product and we became better friends. We started to get more involved with our talks and then last winter we went through a stretch of a month or so where we didn't talk. During that stretch I began dating a girl. After that month had gone by the Scorpio girl contacted me and we continued talking and she had told me her engagement was off and I told her my situation. It didn't seem to affect our relationship but during the summer we really got a lot closer and she started to open up about her feelings (she needed alcohol) Being a Scorpio I knew she was very protective of herself and the fact i'm in a relationship. We would talk for 3 to 4 hours every night and I knew that I needed to either end my current relationship or something. We are born 2 days apart. I'm the 12th and she is the 14th. I'm older, but that is irrelevant now. As we have gotten closer she is becoming distant because I haven't changed my current situation but she also hasn't opened up to me because she's protecting herself. It's been a few days since we've talked as I have given her distance. I understand that she may feel 2nd best, but I always tell her how I truly feel about her, but until I do something she won't "buy" it. The feelings I have for this girl aren't comparable to my current relationship. I don't want to lose her. I always get the "well you have a girlfriend" speech. I would do anything to be with this girl but I need help in how I should approach this since we are both Scorpios. Sorry this is so long.
