I can't help him, but...

Your gift sounds cool, I would have liked to see a picture of it 🙂

I feel sorry that you are having to deal with this,,, and I have always in the past thought that I could help other people get through their hard times, or issues. But now I have come to learn (the hard way) that I cannot do this anymore, and I dont even believe that anyone can. It seems like we have reached a stage where we have to stand back and let others go through their 'stuff'. We can be there for them if they need be, in support , and help (if they ask for it),,, but the hard yards have to be done by them.

Sitting idle doesnt sound like a good alternative, but I feel it is probably for the best. It sounds like he really really cares about you, and I really hope that he works himself out, and starts dealing with his emotions, or he will be the loser. It horrible having to wait around, I know,,, but perhaps he may come good and get through this hard stage in his life. You sound like a really nice person, and as selfish as it seems, I think it would be good if you concentrated all your energy on yourself. You are obviously the strongest one.

"if he wants to speak to me he can try again... why call me at 5am. I know we're both nocturnal vampires but it doesn't matter. It's 5 f..king am."

ya got that right.

"I know space is important, but is there anything else you would've liked for someone to do to get you out of your "rut?""

The thing with Scorps is whatever they feel it is with much intensity. So if he is down then he is way down. I dont think there is much you can do except love him from afar. But I think what he is going through is a refining process, so he will eventually come out and he will be a better man for it. Scorps have the inner strength and the sheer determination of King Kong. Things will get them down, but it never keeps them down. And they need the down time away to sort through their feelings and emotions and eventually they put things back into perspective. So dont worry he will be fine.

I'm new to posting but not new to reading. I feel for you. It's the worst having to "wait and see what happens next".

Scorpio's are an odd bunch (not insulting just observing). My brother is one. From the time he was a little boy if something bad happened or if he got hurt he never looked for the whole hug and "it'll be ok, everything will be fine" speech like I did. He would just shout "leave me alone" and go hide in his room-- even though "we" were not the ones who hurt him or the ones he was mad at. A few hours/days later he would pop out with a game and ask if I wanted to play and then I knew all was better-- or getting better with him.

It's a constant joke we make in my family (because each family of aunts and uncles chips in $ 11 and we get a "running" lottery ticket every Christmas and so the same numbers play every week all year) that if we ever won the lottery we would all be screaming-- where as "chris" would lock himself up in his room to "ponder" about his winnings --lol--.

I don't know if this story helped. Just my take on a Scorpio man.

I hope all is getting better with you.

When My little (well, he's grown now) brother went off to college while he was dating a girl from our neighborhood. So she tried to talk to him before my parents drove him all the way up to school-- and it was far-- hours away but he refused only told her goodbye and that he would see her over the break. She was so upset she just sat on our front stoop in tears as they left. I remember I had felt so bad for her.

Well I guess he also was feeling bad because he had left things off on a sour note with this girl. So no exaggeration a MONTH after he left he called her house-- collect-- in the middle of the night-- to talk to her!!! Her dad was so mad that after she and "chris" hung up her dad called my parents house and told my parents that he did not want "chris" calling in the middle of the night ever again --lol--.

Anyway my brother would have jumped in the car that second if he had a car up there to drive to her house to talk to her.

Maybe that 5:00am call was him cracking his shell. He might have been up all night and was thinking about you and wanted to talk. Or it could have been a ---ty call. But I would tend to think given your what you wrote on your post and history he wanted to talk.

Next time-- if it were me-- I would pick up. A 5am phone call is usally something important -- or a ---ty call but there is only one way to find out.

Yes, only bestest of friends publicly speak about offing eachother.

It's always about the red thong to you...

Also thank you for hijacking the thread while a Scorpio is playing stupid games with my head Goomba..... Killer friend you are.

I hate..... everything about you.

Ughhhhhhhh Get out of MY Cadillac Grill puto.

Does anyone besides Bianchi have some input on my situation... even if he has no input apprently. lol

Have you heard from your guy?