I GUESS ITS TIME 4 ME TO WAKE UP AND LET GO

As you all know ny now, I'm a Sorpio female in love with a Pisces Male and we've been knowing each other for 3 years. I want the relationship to go further and he doesn't know what he wants. Well, atleast I used to want the relationship to go further. Now I think I should leave him alone.

The relationship basically has been all about him. Its all abot what he wants and needs. He'll ask to borrow money from me, swearing up and down that he really needs it and he'll pay me back. I never get it back and the show his appreciation for me trying to help me out, he gets around his friends and either ignores me or dogs me out (which he says he just be joking wth me).I know that I shouldn't be doing anything for him especially since he doesn't do for me, but I love him and I figured that maybe if I do for him he would want to finally be with me, but I'm just making myself look like a fool. When we're alone he will say that he cares about me and that he doesn't wanna lose me, but then its a different story when we're around other people. We've had some good times together, but now it seems like the bad is outweighing the good. He gets around his friends and acts like I don't mean nothing to him. I tried to work things out and its like the more I try, the more I get hurt.I'm tired of the mixed signal and the dogging me out. I really don't wanna let him go because I love him so much, but I have no choice. Hey, I might as well wake up and realize that he doesn't love me and never will. I really need advice and its more to my story but I don't wanna take up anymore space and so here's my email address. raymond761@webtv.net PLEASE HELP ME!!
RONDA
(A HEARTBROKEN SCORPIO)

Yes! Let him go and give yourself a chance for a real man who will love you. Set your standards higher and there will come a time when guys like him, won't even approach you.
My brother is a Pisces married to a Virgo. He has not been hurt by women, because he's been too busy hurting them. Don't always think because a man doesn't want to make a commitment it is related to a woman breaking his heart. I think that's why we should really get to know men before falling in love with them, and giving them our bodies. We have too much to lose. Some men will walk away and feel absolutely nothing, while the woman he toyed with is broken-hearted. Anyway..my sister-in-law would do anything for my brother. He uses her, cheats on her, and degrades her to keep her filled with doubt and low self-esteem. He wanted to have someone he could depend on, but he never intended to give as much as he was asking to receive. That's selfish. He has always been selfish and is very abusive in nature. I don't know what causes females to fall for him. He's my brother, but to me he's a total creep. Yet, he gets the attention and affection of successful and very attractive women. It just blows my mind. Reason being: I know he doesn't have much to offer any of them. His philosophy in life concerning women is if they didn't like it (the way he treats them), they wouldn't put up with it. When you think about, he does have a point. Unfortunately, there are men in this world who think the same. A message to all women: If we're not getting what we want out of a relationship, leave ASAP. Don't wait for the creep to break your heart and leave you with scars and baggage that might interfere with you finding true happiness in a real man. Power to all the women in the world. Good luck in your personal search of self.

He's too selfish. Forget about him.

RONDA YOU SHOULD ASK HIM IF HE LOVESYOU BECAUSE MOST PISCES MEN BELIEVE IN FAMLIY I REALLY NEVER MET ONE WHO BEHAVE DISRESPECTFUL TO WOMEN MY OLDER BROTHER IS A PISCES AND HE NEVER DISRESPECT WOMEN AND LOVES HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN BUT IF YOU FEEL LIKE HE TRYING TO IMPRESS HIS FRIENDS YOU SHOULD HAVE PUT HIM IN HIS PLACE ALONG TIME AGO BEFORE YOU GIVE UP PULL HIM TO THE SIDE AND LET HIM KNOW WHATS UP AND IF THAT DONT WORK KEEP IT MOVING BECAUSE THERE SOMEBODY OUT THERE FOR EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US I WISH ALL THE BEST AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. BLACK

Rhonda,
I unfortunately went through my share of creeps in dating and semi-relationships (those are short lived), and one long term one...
I do not believe it to be a Pisces thing...I have found creeps in almost all sun signs (including my own and yours).
My Pisces step-Dad is a wonderful man...
The guy I see now is a wonderful man...
But, neither was the first guy tried...

Get what I am saying...I had to go through a lot of jerks and half-truths to find someone who treats me really well and that I can completely trust!

It does disappoint one that those jerks will possibly never learn any lessons though, doesn't it??!!!

Take Care!
Star

Honey, I am echoing the senitments of the other responses....LEAVE THAT MAN ALONE!! I know it is really going to take some time, but it sounds like he is just usin' and abusin' you (maybe not physically, but difinitely emotionally). I was in the SAME predicament only a couple of months ago except I am a Pisces woman and he was a Scorpio man. I know it is really hard to hear someone tell you that you should leave the man that you are totally in love with alone especially when he does something...anything minutely nice and then all of a sudden you begin looking at that gesture as,"he really does care about me"...I'm here to tell you DON'T fall into that trap. This is a battle that you will have to struggle with by yourself because you are the only one who can take the rose colored glasses off. Yeah, he may care about you, but how much? Obviously by what you said, it isn't as much as you care about him or as much as you want/need him to care about you. TRUST YOURSELF!! You know if someone really cares about you...no matter what they say, your gut tells you everything, just listen to it. Also, realize that you are much more special than he (or you for that matter) chooses to acknowledge...you have to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST before you can love others and that's for real!! I could sit here and tell you all about how I was treated in my situation with my scorpio man, but just hearing someone talk about their experience won't help you figure out your situation being that everyone is different. Just remember to learn to LOVE YOURSELF and TRUST YOURSELF...does this guy honestly make you feel good about yourself? Is he giving you the security and attention that you need? Going by what have written, do you believe that he truly does love and care about you? Those are just some things to think about. I certainly wish you all the best though.

Not ALL Pisces men are bad - the one you dated was a total jackass!