I hate obsessing!

Fellow scorpios...I hate obsessing! Do you guys obsess about stuff you can't have right away? I really hate obsessing because I can't really control it at times.

How do you work with your obsessions?

it's usually just work and artistic related things i get obsessive about,it's more of a form of perfectionism for me.

Kafka, I don't think it's strictly a scorpio thing, I sometimes get really obsessive
when I'm drawn to someone or something...I tend to think about that object of my obsession all the time.I've kinda grown to hate this obsessive side of me.

I've no control over it either. The only solution that works for me is time...I've noticed that with time my obsession kinda goes down a little...but then I'm a pisces, we're supposed to be fickle/changable people.

Yes that's exactly me OFA! I hate obsessing because it differs me from others so clearly. It makes me stand out in a bad way, and I don't like it. It'd be ok if everyone else were obsessing like me...But because they don't, I feel abnormal😢

I wish I was a fire sign...Maybe Saggitarius, or Aries...They seem to have it easier! Or even an enigmatic Pisces...But scorpio!? Why would anyone want to be tortured by a scorpio's soul...

My sun: Scorpio (Water)
Moon: Capricorn...damn it! (Earth)
Rising: Leo--only thing that makes my life easier😛 (Fire)

I have almost no air signs in my chart overall. The largest balance is between Earth and Water.

Oh and people, what does the top part of the chart mean again? I mean the top half of the circle. I think one part means the inner world and the other the outer world. So depending on where your planets are placed, you reflect or don't reflect parts of yourself to the world.

And also, does anyone here know how to read charts? Like the whole deal with Trines, Sextiles etc...? If so I'd love someone to read mine.

Thats me,Atlantic myst.Scorpio with a taurus moon and sag rising.It's a pain in the ass but also a plus in other situations.It's takes me forever to decide something because of the tug of war with the polar oppostition thing,don't really want to believe in this astrology stuff too much so im just saying I take a while to decide things because I am usually looking at as many different sides of that particular situation as possible and asking the "what if" questions alot.Im slow to decide,will also ask for outside opinions because those can sometimes be clearer than my own,yeah,I guess I do obsess in the analysing and worrying in terms of cautious department but can control it to where I know when to stop or drop it.Just not very emotional which is rare for a scorpio supposedly.

Not very emotional is a wrong way to put it,I just generally just keep it controlled and in silence until I figure it out or nothings coming to me and will ask for opinions.Aloftness and in silence is usually my way of figuring things out is a better way of putting it.

Why would anyone want to be tortured by a scorpio's soul...
Well because when a pisces or Cancer, comes along you feel special and healed.
at least thats what i read.
so its a waiting game.

Actually thats basically what happened with my own scorp/pisces relationship,I used to be a total b tch before he came along.Anymore it's very mild and I wish I could be that mean again sometimes but all's still good this way too sometimes as well.

So Tiamat, if I may ask...What do you think changed in him, or lets say improved, ever since you came along in your Pisces' life? Just curious. Like, you're not a b tch anymore, so what isn't he anymore?

I for one have put the O in Obsessing. I sometimes feel good that I am so analytical, but then I realized it unhealthy.

Kafka

As you could probably already tell from some of my posts,im a walking practical joke so he laughs alot.Have also been was very,very patient with a two year depression that he took out on me alot.Im pretty much the only person thats consistant in his life and also haven't screwed him in one way or another.For all the lighten up stuff he does for me,I do the same thing when he needs it-only in the depressing,pessimistic way pisceseans are known for.I guess thats basically how the two water signs together thing works,so long as your both not miserable at the same time,you can bring the other out of it and balence each others strengths and weaknesses out.

"They do say after a scorpio has dated a Cancer they grow up. As for a cancer date a pisces we grow up and once a pisces date a scorpio they grow up."

Hey...I like that🙂 It makes sense. I have grown up after I broke up with my Cancer...Why is it in that particular order though?

Thanks Taimat, that was interesting to read...It's true that two water signs can totally drown each other in depression if not synched up properly...I have a Cancer gf and we could potentially bring each other down! We have to be very careful at it.

But they could also be great support systems. I wish I had more Pisces "friends" of both sexes, or Scorpio for that matter.

Oh,hey thats not my birthday,mines november 4th.Dunno,saggie did say something about my charts being similar to an ex's of his except for a cancer influnence,I have no cancer in my own until it gets to the juno sign which isn't in the charts part of it.Basically says I act like a cancer in love or other sites claim a cancer would be my soulmate but don't like the idea of something that simple such as "signs and astrology" saying who I should date or not.

Oh,that wasn't directed at you crab sorry should've indicated of whom I was addressing,apparently sagiTAUries thought I was Oiprocs the sage or something because of our birthday or something,apparently it was just the charts and maybe I posted something similar to what he thought she would.