I want to snatch one of my coworkers from his gf

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Is that bad?

Nvm dont answer that, i know it is.

Ive only known him for no more than 3 months and we just recently (like this week) started talking more in depth. Before it was just small talk or about work. Its been a long time since ive had such relaxed and fun conversation with a guy. I joke around with co workers regularly but conversations usually stop at basic smalll talk. I havent released a full tidal wave of deep thought on him yet (not everyones at that level and the situation hasnt really called for it), but im still in my observing stage. Found out today hes a mid(?) February baby. He only said "Around Valentines Day". Also found out he has a girlfriend 😛 I honestly dont think i would go so far as to manipulate him but he had me wishing his girlfriend was a cheater or something so i could have him. We got on the topic of buying gifts and Surprise! he said his gfs birthday is the day before Halloween. Another Scorpio. I want to cross the line and flirt, get physical but i would feel bad afterward. Bad yet powerful. /shrug He keeps asking me when i work again and affirmatively repeating it when im scheduled with him, but i havent pushed any boundaries to know if hes devolping any feelings other than friendly ones. Any of you ever wanted to seduce someone whos taken?
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First off be honest. You really do wanna steal the guy and fuck him. His GF is a fellow Scorp so he is automatically drawn to you. You also have zero respect for yourself OR this guy. Where is your loyalty? I seriously question the stereotype about Scorps and loyalty. I think they are just too sexual and will step out with the first man they find attractive and pays them a lot of attention.

I think you wanna fuck the guy just to see if you can.
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Posted by Happygolucky
First off be honest. You really do wanna steal the guy and fuck him. His GF is a fellow Scorp so he is automatically drawn to you. You also have zero respect for yourself OR this guy. Where is your loyalty? I seriously question the stereotype about Scorps and loyalty. I think they are just too sexual and will step out with the first man they find attractive and pays them a lot of attention.

I think you wanna fuck the guy just to see if you can.
Lol I said I probably wouldnt actually do it and I wont. What kind of sense would that make? If he were to leave her for me, what would stop him from leaving me for someone else? I was just expressing a desire to have him. I seriously doubt he'd leave her for me...BUT




Now im getting a little confused here. He was the first to initiate contact (nothing at all major). Lately ive been really stressed about work and when he notices(usually always), he'll bring up how I seem really stressed and kind of ask whats going on. The other day he kept teasing me and kept the playful banter going, I later realized, to help get my mood up. Twice he stopped me to get little pieces of foam out of my hair(we were unpacking). At first I was just like oh ok whatever. Then he did it again and I was like ooooookkkkk...again? Just the night before I thought I let him go and moved on realizing it was unrealistic for me to want him, Im never going to have him. Then, the next day all that happened with him being flirtier than usual. I realize that a lot of it could be things maybe a close friend would do but ive known him less than three months and talked to him even less. Now im confused and like him again lol.
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Posted by aquaboy84
Of course the two scorpio's on here would say no.. theyre too sensitive. a less sensitive folk can only handle an aqua. do your thing and may god be with you and hopefully you can get him.
This is why.. My aqua ex for 12 yrs cannot move on. Yes scorpio sensitive. Yes aqua less sensitive. now what ? for 12 yrs he cannot move, unbelievable less sensitive aqua.

it made me laugh.. hahaha
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Posted by SailorScorpio
Told me today, Feb 27th. Pices?

I already said Im not gonna act on my feelings and still got called a disloyal home wrecking slag bag. I think im gonna love this forum lol
Well that's what this place is for to let out your inner shit that you wish not to tell real live people lol

Remember only you know the whole story and no one here knows every reader will interpret things differently with scraps of someone's story a glimpse into it.

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ha

Posted by Tinxy
Posted by SailorScorpio
Told me today, Feb 27th. Pices?

I already said Im not gonna act on my feelings and still got called a disloyal home wrecking slag bag. I think im gonna love this forum lol
Well that's what this place is for to let out your inner shit that you wish not to tell real live people lol

Remember only you know the whole story and no one here knows every reader will interpret things differently with scraps of someone's story a glimpse into it.

🙂
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Yep thats why Im here 😛 The only other people I talk to atm are other coworkers and theres no way Im gonna vent this to them. Its why I love forums.

I think hes trying to get to know me without crossing any boundaries. The other day he insisted on giving me a ride home even though my manager already said she would. The conversation in the car remained casual, comfortable, no awkward silence. I just feel so at peace around him but I need to let go lol
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Posted by SailorScorpio
LOL like I said before, theres no way hes gonna leave her and Im not even gonna try. Hes a good guy and I wish him happiness.



Posted by Taniwha
So howd it go OP?
I deleted his number. We didnt/dont have a relationship outside of work anyway. He gave me a ride home once, but das it. Im about to quit, actually (nothing to do with him). Retail is soul sucking.
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ew I feel you on that. Sometimes customers can be cool when they're not acting like they're entitled. I love my coworkers though, and I have so much fun despite it being somewhat of a corporate tyranny. I would never quit (at least not until after I graduate college).
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LOL like I said before, theres no way hes gonna leave her and Im not even gonna try. Hes a good guy and I wish him happiness.



Posted by Taniwha
So howd it go OP?
I deleted his number. We didnt/dont have a relationship outside of work anyway. He gave me a ride home once, but das it. Im about to quit, actually (nothing to do with him). Retail is soul sucking.
ew I feel you on that. Sometimes customers can be cool when they're not acting like they're entitled. I love my coworkers though, and I have so much fun despite it being somewhat of a corporate tyranny. I would never quit (at least not until after I graduate college).
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Yeah I love my coworkers too. Theyre the only thing keeping me attached. I felt like a zombie at work today; Im so done. I have no idea how people can stand working their while lives at a job they hate. I mean I understand some are struggling to get by but goodness.
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Posted by Huldra


Restless kitty syndrome?
Ha maybe. Its just before I even got to know him, as I was getting to know him, and even now, I felt like I was drawn to him. Everytime we get each others attention or talk about something, Its immediate eye contact, like we lock onto each other, and my breath catches a bit. Every frikin time. If its a more casual conversation, we wont necessarily hold eye contact for very long but the initial connection is there. Ive never felt that kind of connection with anyone before. Hes also encouraging, helps keep me sane at work, etc, etc.
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Posted by Huldra
Why do only women on this forum who approve of behavior similar to OP's are predominantly fixed? I don't hear this shir as often from Cardinals or Mutables.

Restless kitty syndrome?
it's def not acceptable lol. one time my friends ex tried getting with me and sure he was decent looking but I could never do anything like that. I'm like 50% fixed. never cheated. only been cheated ON. maybe that's why I am different. a Libra dating this wonderful Aries tried getting w me and I lectured him for about an hour and he told me to shut up because he's "older and wiser" than me. I was like "if you were so wise you'd realize what you already have is more important to you than losing what you have for something so selfish and stupid."

he's my friend.. but he's a dumbass. he may be 8 years older than me but he doesn't act like it