@Jack222
11 Years
Why does my scorpio gf do this?
Understanding Scorpio Girlfriend's Behavior
Scorpio women can be emotionally complex and may show coldness or distance to protect themselves. Their expressions of love can vary, often reserved in private but passionate in public. Her Virgo moon suggests she values stability and might have difficulty expressing deep feelings openly. This behavior may not indicate disinterest but rather her way of processing emotions.
and no, she is not the shy type , at least not on instagram, she has many instagrams followers , yess more than 3000
Posted by FrostAndBite
If you've already resolved to ending the relationship what more could us strangers possibly say to bring you peace of mind on her ability to love?
I guess scorpios can give me a clue about her behavior so I don't break up with her
Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
here we go again... *rolls eyes*
I see your are scorpio , plz help 🙂
Posted by annoyedfish
lol i swear this is not me trolling.
Lmfao awww
Posted by busyeyes88
If it is not working for you end it. You don't need astrology for.that?!!!
are you scorp ? thank you 🙂
Posted by Koniucha
Did you ask her??
yes but all she says is " I do love you" in a lazy way
The words is simple but the feelings is deep man
why you don't trust her?
lolll lazy way ,need a lot of energy for that xD*
Posted by Koniucha
Did you ask her??yes but all she says is " I do love you" in a lazy way
Maybe that is just her way. All that matters is that she actually does love you.
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well maybe I don't know , what would you do if you were me??
Posted by Koniucha
Virgo placements also aren't so mushy and touchy feely.I have Venus in Virgo. But I do like to hug and cuddle.
I agree, people with Virgo placements - especially moons - aren't very romantic people.. At least, not all the time.
Posted by LoveSeeker
lolll lazy way ,need a lot of energy for that xD*Yeah, I am a pretty low energy person myself.
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Why do you think so ?
Posted by Koniucha
Virgo placements also aren't so mushy and touchy feely.I have Venus in Virgo. But I do like to hug and cuddle.
She hugs me but she also expect to kiss her first when we greet you know she just stands there lol and sex sucks , she just lays there you know it is like having sex with a doll , boring ,tell me are you like this — I don't see this relationship going anywhere ....😢 do you think she will change??
@Koniucha my moon is in cancer too
Posted by LoveSeeker
lolll lazy way ,need a lot of energy for that xD*Yeah, I am a pretty low energy person myself.
Why do you think so ?
I have never been that way. I do like to run, but haven't in forever. I like doing stuff like gardening, riding my horse.
Astrologically, I have Mars conjunct Neptune. Neptune zaps the energy out of Mars.
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That's fine 🙂
scorpio women , do you think I probably just don't turn her on? will she change ? , Until now I haven't felt the passion that I heard about scorpios. She is the fisrt scorpio I'm dating , ,And I don't want to have false expectactions about her 😢
Posted by Koniucha
I would talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel.
I talked to her but she looks somewhere else like she is thinking about it but doesn't tell me anything more
Posted by starlover
I have a friend who has Virgo moon and she hates hugging and displays of emotion
so, would you continue relationship with someone like that?what would you do?
Posted by Jack222
@Koniucha my moon is in cancer tooWhat is your sun sign?
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mY SUN SIGN IS VIRGO
Posted by starlover
I would give up the ghost Jack
what do you mean? sorry english is my second language
Posted by Koniucha
Virgo placements also aren't so mushy and touchy feely.I have Venus in Virgo. But I do like to hug and cuddle.
She hugs me but she also expect to kiss her first when we greet you know she just stands there lol and sex sucks , she just lays there you know it is like having sex with a doll , boring ,tell me are you like this — I don't see this relationship going anywhere ....😢 do you think she will change??
You mean like a dead fish?
Are you sure she's not a Pisces?
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she is scorpio
Posted by Koniucha
Virgo placements also aren't so mushy and touchy feely.I have Venus in Virgo. But I do like to hug and cuddle.
She hugs me but she also expect to kiss her first when we greet you know she just stands there lol and sex sucks , she just lays there you know it is like having sex with a doll , boring ,tell me are you like this — I don't see this relationship going anywhere ....😢 do you think she will change??
You mean like a dead fish?
Are you sure she's not a Pisces?
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Heyyyyy, Pisces women are ANY and EVERYTHING but boring in bed. LMBO!!!
Posted by Koniucha
I would talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel.I talked to her but she looks somewhere else like she is thinking about it but doesn't tell me anything more
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Ok Jack....*sighs*. My Scorp boyfriend is almost JUST like this. lol I bring the fire and heat to the bedroom. He will admit out loud and in public that I have about two minutes to get mine before the whole act is over. Lol...now, sometimes over beer I negotiate for more time and once, I even set a timer and made sure that he didn't climax until I had me a good ole ride. lol ha ha ha ha ha
The difference is, I'm older though. All of this "calmness" and "settled" energy is GREAT as far as I'm concerned. He's around a lot and I even have to ask him to bring me to work sometimes and I don't drive. You would think he would just offer...nope. That Virgo energy is soooooo.....practical and kind of dry in ways. However, if you set it on fire it's like dry bush...it will burn, burn, burn, and burn some more. For us, this works, because I'm a firecracker of sorts and I just don't turn down....period.
Last night convo...him, wyd?...me, laying in bed drinking wine. Him, really?...Me, no, not really, I just lied to you. I have two naked guys in bed with me and both of them about 11 inches deep in my cookie box. lol....dude, what do you think I'm doing? I'm laying down in bed, drinking a glass of wine...Him, LMBO!!! I'm going to F you up.
See...without my sarcasm and constant saying/doing shit off of the radar, we'd be a boring couple. He almost ran out of the office when it was full yesterday and I started introducing him to people. I don't see him changing anytime soon. I can see that he's just not the "I love you" type. Yet, he lets me know in other ways. Like, by inviting me to important trips and calling me when he's on his way to do something important or calling me on his way back from something major. Inclusiveness. Is your girlfriend inclusive? Sounds like she is since you have open access to her friends.
I can't believe we made it all the way to the 5th page without someone mentioning this.
Figuring out your partners love language is very important, however I suggest she reads it too and then you two find a compromise.
Either way you two have a communication problem which is an even bigger threat so idk
Posted by Impulsv
Before u break up
Read the 5 love languages. I think that's the issue. Her way of showing being different that yours
Is this a troll topic?
I find the OP hard to believe, unless this is some make believe relationship you've made in your head and the woman isn't even aware of your existence. Are you the mythological nice guy?
I just can't wrap my head around a relationship like this existing. Are you sure you're together?
Are Virgos this daft? *reconsiders existence*
How old are you too?
How do your charts look like? Other than your moon, do you have venus in leo or something?
What has Instagram have to do with it?
i can't,
two*
.*
Ok, read the rest of the topic. Doesn't even seem she's human.
Is she a blow up doll you named Scorpio?
I can't take this topic seriously at all.
Posted by Koniucha
Did you ask her??yes but all she says is " I do love you" in a lazy way
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*sigh* discuss the difference you have noticed and ask her why she seems cold or indifferent when your together and talks about love with her friends. She may be one of those Scorps that expect you to just "know" she loves you and doesn't feel the need to say the words without prompting.
Posted by FrostAndBite
If you've already resolved to ending the relationship what more could us strangers possibly say to bring you peace of mind on her ability to love?
3 pages in and I need to co-sign with this now.
Posted by Jack222
scorpio women , do you think I probably just don't turn her on? will she change ? , Until now I haven't felt the passion that I heard about scorpios. She is the fisrt scorpio I'm dating , ,And I don't want to have false expectactions about her 😢
Too late.
Posted by Impulsv
Before u break up
Read the 5 love languages. I think that's the issue. Her way of showing being different that yours
5 love languages? what is that?
Posted by Koniucha
Did you ask her??yes but all she says is " I do love you" in a lazy way
She may be one of those Scorps that expect you to just "know" she loves you and doesn't feel the need to say the words without prompting.
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how is that type of scorpio? are you one of them? would you date one of those types in my situation?
@damnata , she is real
Posted by Impulsv
Before u break up
Read the 5 love languages. I think that's the issue. Her way of showing being different that yours5 love languages? what is that?
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Its a great book its about how people give and receive love and that were all different. You can google and downloadThe 5 love languages pdf and get the book. Highly recommend it .. helped me understand my scorp (whos love languages are touch and acts of service) more and helped me understand why he was saying i wasnt affectionate
Posted by Koniucha
Did you ask her??yes but all she says is " I do love you" in a lazy way
She may be one of those Scorps that expect you to just "know" she loves you and doesn't feel the need to say the words without prompting.
how is that type of scorpio? are you one of them? would you date one of those types in my situation?
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Wtf? Dude, this isn't a dating service where we are trying to get to know each other on a personal level. Why are you trying to be all up in my closet? How are these questions even relevant to this thread?
You received an answer to your dilemma. Talk to her or kick rocks already.
Smh.
Translation: I smell a troll.
i ALREADY KNEW HER MOON WAS IN VIRGO WHEN YOU SAID SHE "ACTS COLD" LOL PROBABLY MIRRORING YOU DON'T ACT LIKE YOU NEVER DONE THE SAME.
Her virgo moon seems to be stronger than her son I think she is shy in your relationship. She may want you to take the lead if your a follower virgo by nature then it won't work because you both want to be lead.
i knew u had a cancer placement. you sound like the clingy overemotional type who breaks up because things dont go your way. break up if you want to break up. dont ask for advice lol
that cancer moon wants to be babied, loved, and fussed over. it's not good enough to say i love you and show it a bit. it's not mushy and gushy, so he gets pushy.
Because she's a Scorpio,that's why she acts that way,if she cold around you,were moody as hell for no damn reason,we don't like to show affection,damn sure not in public,we are private,so if she's telling her friends she must really like you,I'll date a man for years and never tell anyone,doesn't mean I don't like or love him,just means I am private and don't want anyone in my business,Sounds to me like your a bit of an attention whore though,like why break up with her,Scorpio's like space,they need space under her cool outside is a million emotions going on,maybe you stopped doing something,are you a challenge to her,we love a good challenge,maybe if you stop texting her so much,stalking her instagram,and lay off the I love you every 5 mins,maybe then she will,do the things you want,and also if she is social like you claim,how much do people really know about her,I know tons of people but only 2 people know me in life,like know my soul,instead of random facts about me.
Was she a happy secure financially stable fulfilled individual prior to u guys' relationship?
And what grown person who's not a celebrity needs 1,000 let alone 3,000 "friends" on instagram?
If all u say is true about the lack of affection & her friends know more about her love for u then u hear it from her, sounds to me like she more in love with having a boyfriend to show off/ with validation/a void filled then she's actually in love with u.
I am a scorpio born November 1st and i gotta say this has been me in a relatinship before. Sometimes i find it hard to get close to someone and can love them but if i feel slighest bit of untrust or annoyance, i will act like that. And I am not super affectionate to be saying i love you all time....my actions will show it.
Posted by Jack222
I'm about to break up with my scorpio girlfriend , I don't see her very excited about the relationship and we've been together for 2 years ,she is kind of cold , she says I love you only when i ask first and never come and hug me when we greet you know, she doesn't even answer her damn phone and never call back , but what I can''t understand is this : her friends always tell me that she talks about me all the time , they tell me that she is so in love with me , that she is crazy about me and stuff . Dear scorpio women , please tell me if this behavior is normal in scorpios , I mean why does she act so cold when we are alone but she talks about the "love " she has for me when they are with her friends?? I'm afraid she just wants to keep me until she finds someone else ..
She has the moon in Virgo and I'm virgo
@ihaveavoice2 sent you a private message 🙂
Posted by LadyYin
i knew u had a cancer placement. you sound like the clingy overemotional type who breaks up because things dont go your way. break up if you want to break up. dont ask for advice lol
so what should I do??
Posted by Octoberbaby91
Her virgo moon seems to be stronger than her son I think she is shy in your relationship. She may want you to take the lead if your a follower virgo by nature then it won't work because you both want to be lead.
i never dated a virgo ,I'M virgo but i'm not cold . I dont know why she is cold
Posted by Koniucha
I would talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel.I talked to her but she looks somewhere else like she is thinking about it but doesn't tell me anything more
Ok Jack....*sighs*. My Scorp boyfriend is almost JUST like this. lol I bring the fire and heat to the bedroom. He will admit out loud and in public that I have about two minutes to get mine before the whole act is over. Lol...now, sometimes over beer I negotiate for more time and once, I even set a timer and made sure that he didn't climax until I had me a good ole ride. lol ha ha ha ha ha
The difference is, I'm older though. All of this "calmness" and "settled" energy is GREAT as far as I'm concerned. He's around a lot and I even have to ask him to bring me to work sometimes and I don't drive. You would think he would just offer...nope. That Virgo energy is soooooo.....practical and kind of dry in ways. However, if you set it on fire it's like dry bush...it will burn, burn, burn, and burn some more. For us, this works, because I'm a firecracker of sorts and I just don't turn down....period.
Last night convo...him, wyd?...me, laying in bed drinking wine. Him, really?...Me, no, not really, I just lied to you. I have two naked guys in bed with me and both of them about 11 inches deep in my cookie box. lol....dude, what do you think I'm doing? I'm laying down in bed, drinking a glass of wine...Him, LMBO!!! I'm going to F you up.
Why do you talk about your sex life on the internet? I'm sure he'd leave you if he knew you were posting this. Or at least act like the OP's gf.
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Why does it bother you? That's a better question.
Posted by Koniucha
I would talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel.I talked to her but she looks somewhere else like she is thinking about it but doesn't tell me anything more
Ok Jack....*sighs*. My Scorp boyfriend is almost JUST like this. lol I bring the fire and heat to the bedroom. He will admit out loud and in public that I have about two minutes to get mine before the whole act is over. Lol...now, sometimes over beer I negotiate for more time and once, I even set a timer and made sure that he didn't climax until I had me a good ole ride. lol ha ha ha ha ha
The difference is, I'm older though. All of this "calmness" and "settled" energy is GREAT as far as I'm concerned. He's around a lot and I even have to ask him to bring me to work sometimes and I don't drive. You would think he would just offer...nope. That Virgo energy is soooooo.....practical and kind of dry in ways. However, if you set it on fire it's like dry bush...it will burn, burn, burn, and burn some more. For us, this works, because I'm a firecracker of sorts and I just don't turn down....period.
Last night convo...him, wyd?...me, laying in bed drinking wine. Him, really?...Me, no, not really, I just lied to you. I have two naked guys in bed with me and both of them about 11 inches deep in my cookie box. lol....dude, what do you think I'm doing? I'm laying down in bed, drinking a glass of wine...Him, LMBO!!! I'm going to F you up.
Why do you talk about your sex life on the internet? I'm sure he'd leave you if he knew you were posting this. Or at least act like the OP's gf.
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And no, he would not leave me. Lol...that's something reserved for people who are afraid of truth and expect other people to be JUST like them. People actually come here seeking these insights. Do as you please and don't provide them. You do you and let me do me. Please and thanks.
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I'm about to break up with my scorpio girlfriend , I don't see her very excited about the relationship and we've been together for 2 years ,she is kind of cold , she says I love you only when i ask first and never come and hug me when we greet you know, she doesn't even answer her damn phone and never call back , but what I can''t understand is this : her friends always tell me that she talks about me all the time , they tell me that she is so in love with me , that she is crazy about me and stuff . Dear scorpio women , please tell me if this behavior is normal in scorpios , I mean why does she act so cold when we are alone but she talks about the "love " she has for me when they are with her friends?? I'm afraid she just wants to keep me until she finds someone else ..
She has the moon in Virgo and I'm virgo