SirHorns
@SirHorns
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I'm lost here...
Posted by JahliaMostly. It like even asking why he's doing something can lead to a possible conversation with an explosive emotional undercurrent.
Do you mean emotions?
I'm amazing at something's that set him off. He has Saturn-Moon conjunct, so it's not like he's a crybaby or anything...
Posted by adoreUEhh, save it for if I envoke his Scorpio rage.
If it's a girl: bring her teddy bears, kleenex and the film Titanic.
If it's a guy: bring him 1 teddy bear, lotion, and the film Backdoor Sl*ts 2.
Posted by Vixen2He's under aged.
Take him for a drink...click to expand
I'll happily accept drinks though.
Posted by JahliaIt's so bad I just stopped asking period.Posted by SirHornsYeah the ones that I'm close too don't like that either. To be asked /why/, they treat the explanation of their actions like it's something sacred. When really it's not that big of a deal. What makes things interesting is that they're obviously interested in why OTHERS do things. I think it's a defense mechanism-they fear it's immature Or stupid and they're afraid that you might betray their emotional depth or vulnerability.Posted by JahliaMostly. It like even asking why he's doing something can lead to a possible conversation with an explosive emotional undercurrent.
Do you mean emotions?
I'm amazing at something's that set him off. He has Saturn-Moon conjunct, so it's not like he's a crybaby or anything...click to expand
Also it's actually difficult to tolerate it, since he also has sag mars/venus and can be brutal when comes to saying things or speaking the "truth."
Posted by adoreUHe's baptized. He's pretty much unslayable at this point.Posted by SirHornsNah. For scorpio I'd go with this combo: holy water, the bible (King James version), and 1 teddy bear for AFTER the exorcism. Not before because that will ruin the whole plan.Posted by adoreUEhh, save it for if I envoke his Scorpio rage.
If it's a girl: bring her teddy bears, kleenex and the film Titanic.
If it's a guy: bring him 1 teddy bear, lotion, and the film Backdoor Sl*ts 2.
Posted by Vixen2He's under aged.
Take him for a drink...
I'll happily accept drinks though.click to expand
Exorcisms just give him a chance to feed of the fear of priests.
@adoreU
Yes. Though hopefully some watery folk here can me avoid setting off the emotional bombs or give me tips on how NOT to behave when it gets like that.
Yes. Though hopefully some watery folk here can me avoid setting off the emotional bombs or give me tips on how NOT to behave when it gets like that.
Posted by GetMistedPfft. You see changes in me with those.Posted by SirHornsFeed him SSRIs once a day for a month. You should see a difference.
Dude is triple water.
Scorp Rising and Sun, with a Moon in Pisces.
It's like every confrontation or serious discussion, my lack of visible emotions just makes his worse.
Can I get tips on how watery dominant people like to be approached and dealt with in dealing with the kinds of stuff?click to expand
Ya know, the goat that has feelings once a month.
Posted by SirHornsWhen you ask him why he's doing something?Posted by JahliaMostly. It like even asking why he's doing something can lead to a possible conversation with an explosive emotional undercurrent.
Do you mean emotions?
I'm amazing at something's that set him off. He has Saturn-Moon conjunct, so it's not like he's a crybaby or anything...click to expand
Like what?
I can see you saying it, 'Why are you ______?'
like there's something wrong with what he's doing.
Sorry I just felt my eyes narrow, involuntarily, when I read that. 😛
I'd say make sure you are providing enough reassurance on an ongoing basis. If you're not emotional, there might be a sense of lack of enough "security" - especially that Pisces moon and he might be reading your emotionlesness as lack of care.
I have Scorp Sun, Venus, Pisces moon and I find I CAN be like that - reading into everything / explosive emotional discussions but it's only when two conditions are met.
1. I like the person very much
2. I don't feel secure with them
So I would say aim for providing (2) - in little ways. Tell him how much you like him and be open with thoughts and feelings and THEN I would say he will feel secure enough not to read into every damn thing you say.
I can't speak for all Pisces moons, but for me this element makes me very suspceptible to the emotions of others and I almost feed off them. If someone seems cold and unemotional to me it can hurt me.
My Scorpio sun makes me a master detective,...If I like someone I am always wondering / reading / questioning "does he like me back?" and it's almost self destructive in the sense that I kind of decide based off limited eveidence that there is a problem and then try and create or parlay evidence into a way of supporting my fear.
It's a kind of fear mechanism.
I vote: make him feel safe, secure, cherised and intimate to you and he will roll over like a kitten purring.
That does not mean letting yourself become a pushover! Just means accepting he needs more openess / emotions than you do and providing for that need. Also try very hard to explain to him how your needs differ from his. I love it when people take the time to epxlain to me what's going on in their head
I have Scorp Sun, Venus, Pisces moon and I find I CAN be like that - reading into everything / explosive emotional discussions but it's only when two conditions are met.
1. I like the person very much
2. I don't feel secure with them
So I would say aim for providing (2) - in little ways. Tell him how much you like him and be open with thoughts and feelings and THEN I would say he will feel secure enough not to read into every damn thing you say.
I can't speak for all Pisces moons, but for me this element makes me very suspceptible to the emotions of others and I almost feed off them. If someone seems cold and unemotional to me it can hurt me.
My Scorpio sun makes me a master detective,...If I like someone I am always wondering / reading / questioning "does he like me back?" and it's almost self destructive in the sense that I kind of decide based off limited eveidence that there is a problem and then try and create or parlay evidence into a way of supporting my fear.
It's a kind of fear mechanism.
I vote: make him feel safe, secure, cherised and intimate to you and he will roll over like a kitten purring.
That does not mean letting yourself become a pushover! Just means accepting he needs more openess / emotions than you do and providing for that need. Also try very hard to explain to him how your needs differ from his. I love it when people take the time to epxlain to me what's going on in their head
Posted by SirHornsI'm not sure it a "water dominant thing" as I am water (All Scorp) dominant. Perhaps the Moon and Merc is at play here. From my experience and observation water moons have certain expectations about how one should feel and act. You don't, "you're a clueless idiot that just doesn't get it". Some are good at managing that, while other go into a tizzy. Lol. It's quite entertaining to watch.
Dude is triple water.
Scorp Rising and Sun, with a Moon in Pisces.
It's like every confrontation or serious discussion, my lack of visible emotions just makes his worse.
Can I get tips on how watery dominant people like to be approached and dealt with in dealing with the kinds of stuff?
Basically, take the time to listen to what is being said and (if applicable) verbalize (since you don't express it visually) your understanding of where they are coming from. Don't be condescending about it. If you don't understand it or simply can't relate, ask for further clarification in a non dismissive way. If you don't agree with a point that was made, simply say so without being dismissive*
*this advice assumes you came off like a condescending and dismiss a**hole. Caps tend to receive these labels because of their approach.
On the other hand, water signs "feel" (vibes, energy, intuition) and this is their strength. Problem is some, myself included at times, refuse to push past what they are feeling and "check it out" to see if it's accurate. Add being a fixed sign to the mix and you're not changing their mind about you without solid evidence to prove otherwise. Lol and still it's probably gonna be "naw, I'm gonna trust my gut on this". Nothing wrong with trusting your gut, but you run the risk of assuming what you see is all there is to see. In your case, perhaps this Scorp thought if you don't look visibly upset, you don't care about what is being said to you vs this may be how you process information. A few things you said might have contributed to this as well.
Meh, work through it if you care enough about the person. It gets better with age and maturity. They just need a few "the world doesn't revolve around you and your feelings" life lessons to get it and adjust.
Posted by SirHornsWhat is he doing that you feel you need to ask this question?
Mostly. It like even asking why he's doing something can lead to a possible conversation with an explosive emotional undercurrent.
Posted by WhiteChocolateWhen asking where is the rice is in the kitchen can result in an explosion, that's nigh impossible.Posted by SirHornsDon't have confrontations or serious discussions with him.
Dude is triple water.
Scorp Rising and Sun, with a Moon in Pisces.
It's like every confrontation or serious discussion, my lack of visible emotions just makes his worse.
Can I get tips on how watery dominant people like to be approached and dealt with in dealing with the kinds of stuff?
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Granted that incident was rare, just to be clear I'm saying I can't pick up cues he gives off since by the time he DOES gives off cues he's upset, he's already 90% ready to burst.
Posted by PhoenixRisingHonestly, it was trivial matters. Like using dish detergent to wash his hands when still had soap in the bathroom.Posted by SirHornsWhat is he doing that you feel you need to ask this question?
Mostly. It like even asking why he's doing something can lead to a possible conversation with an explosive emotional undercurrent.click to expand
I mean I just learned to stop asking when it came to stuff like that. However, when it comes to things we're working on together, I'm hoping to get better skills to deal with the short fuse.
Also they have a Libra Merc if it helps makes this make more sense.
Posted by WhiteChocolateAgreed. It's to the point where I've occasionally misread his mood all together.Posted by SirHornsThat's extreme.Posted by WhiteChocolateWhen asking where is the rice is in the kitchen can result in an explosion, that's nigh impossible.Posted by SirHornsDon't have confrontations or serious discussions with him.
Dude is triple water.
Scorp Rising and Sun, with a Moon in Pisces.
It's like every confrontation or serious discussion, my lack of visible emotions just makes his worse.
Can I get tips on how watery dominant people like to be approached and dealt with in dealing with the kinds of stuff?
Granted that incident was rare, just to be clear I'm saying I can't pick up cues he gives off since by the time he DOES gives off cues he's upset, he's already 90% ready to burst.click to expand
Gave him space and when I ask him later on at night if he felt better, he'll say he wasn't upset all.
If it helps the "worst" outburst I've gotten from him was him yelling and then storming off.
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It's like every confrontation or serious discussion, my lack of visible emotions just makes his worse.
Can I get tips on how watery dominant people like to be approached and dealt with in dealing with the kinds of stuff?