Is it jealousy, or is he just being an @ss?

Yes, I'm back; the female scorpio that was in love with the pisces male. From my earlier posts about this matter, you all noticed that we were having problems. Well, resolved them-----at least I thought we did.

Well, things aren't exactly back to normal, but we are speaking again and everything was sort of falling back into place until recently.
I filled out an application on the internet for a job at Cedar Point. Well, they called me back and now I'm gonna be an employee!! I'm very excited about it because its a good opprtunity for me and a new experience. Plus I haven't had a job in 2 years because my father was ill.
Anyways, I told him that I was leaving and to me, it seems like he's jealous. Everything was cool until I told him that. Now he's acting kind of funny towards me. I thought he would of been happy for me. I asked him was he going to miss me and he said no.
So last night I called him and he was talking to me at first, but when I mentioned leaving, he got ready to get off the phone. I also asked him again was he gonna miss me, and his reply was: "Why do you keep asking me that? I'll call you back" What is all that about?

I think he may be upset because I'm finally doing something positive and he's not. He's 28 years old, he doesn't have a car, a job, or his own place anymore. He's not trying to do anything with his self. I know you all are gonna say that I should just move on, and you're right. Regardless of how he feels, I'm still leaving because I'm not gonna keep sitting around waiting on him forever.
I'm a little hurt by the response I got from him, that's all. So what do you all think? Is he jealous because I'm finally doing something positive, or is he mad about the fact that I'm leaving period?

Sounds like much a do about nothing. Like the Shakespear play.

Sounds like your trying to conger up some feelings that just aren't there.

Just be happy your finally getting somewhere and maybe he can pull himself together too. And then when your both pulled together, maybe you can hook-up at another time.

I would concentrate on what you have to do and don't worry about what he is thinking all the time. If he cared about you and your feelings he wouldn't leave you wondering. He would come right out and tell you how he feels. Loose the guy and find someone better for you. All this back and forth is going nowhere.

Yeah, you're right. I guess I'm just wishng something good will happen and its not; so I just gotta face reality and realize that he doesn't care about me. Thanks for the advice.

Trust me...Deep deep deep down you don't really want someone that doesn't care about you or DESERVE you. When you feel down just keep that in mind. And always feel suspicious of anyone and I mean anyone that doesn't appreciate you. Period.

By the way he sounds like a total sociopathic looser.

Thanks for the advice, guys. My problem is that when I fall in love with somebody, its hard for me to let go. I admit I still love him, but hopefully since I got this ne job and will be away fom him for 5 months, then it shouldn't take me too much longer to get over him.
My parents say that this guy is a loser and I should of been left him alone. But see, everytime he does take time out to be nice to me or show affection, I always fall into his trap. I know I don't need him.

Honestly....This "feeling" of still are sad or what not........is simply PRIDE. Your pride. He challenged your belief system. Deep down he hurt your ego. That is what is left rejection. And it sucks. Pick yourself back "completely up" and don't allow yourself to wallow in this any longer. He doesn't deserve that much energy. Best of luck.

hello! Ive got a bit of pisces in my chart and believe me, we can be jealous. We can also be over emotional and sensitive. Take it from someone who knows, he is upset you are leaving. Its a pity he cant be honest with you (Pisceans also have a way of slipping out of the truth when they want). One thing Ive worked out is that we treat others in the same way as we are feeling about ourselves. If he is treating you badly, he is feeling bad about himself. Congradulations on the job, it sounds like you deserve it!
Martine.

I totally agree with 64.123.
He doesn't seem care about you. He loses if he has no courage to tell you what is in his mind. However, What makes you suffer is not his attitude; it is your pride. We tend to prove we are worth being loved when someone, especially the one we like/love, ignores us. The hurt feelings drive us to avoid the truth that he/she doesn't care.
I have been there. I simply move on after a short wait. One-sided relationship is not worthy, let alone you don't even have a relationship with him. You sound nice. Save yourself for a better guy. 🙂

peace,love and joy ........

I will ad my own few sense worth in here. It could be that you like a little challenge yourself. Like me, I am not use to being told no or not getting what I want!! When you are told all your life how great you are and never have trouble getting anything you want including jobs, men, or just about anything your heart desires, when someone does tell you NO, brat(the ego) comes out. This doesn't sound like you, but this was me. It wasn't until the one I wanted broke my heart. Thats when I had to reach down really deep inside myself and answer some hard questions. 64-- was absolutely right!! It's the pride that is wounded; that is what is so hard to deal with. I needed that person to come into to my life to teach me this hard lesson, and maybe that is what is going on with you?

We all probably have a few times in our lives we would like to forget; hey thats life right, YUK!!!

Good luck with the new JOB!!!


Good luck on the new JOB!!!