Is this scorpio man wants a revenge?

Firstly, was the nature of your relationship with the Scorpio romantic, sexual, or strictly platonic during your vacation? I'm a bit confused since you say that you're in a relationship with a Cancer guy.

It sounds to me lime you've found one of our less mature and more obsessive members. I'd just tell him one last time that you're not interested in anything more then friends. If he can't cope with that then shut him off completely and quit replying. He should be focusing on his primary relationship and so should you. No games.

Posted by Iceprincess17
I met this scorpio guy when I was on short vacation near his hometown last year. He is not attractive really but he was very nice so i felt comfortable with him. When we parted ways he text and calls me everyday but I made it clear that I only want friendship ( I have a relationship with cancer man). But he got mad and disappeared and come back every now and then.

Sometimes I get a text that he miss me, he's still thinking about me a lot etc etc but I don't reply. When he see me online on FB he always talks to me and saying he wants me very badly. I tried to be nice to him as possible.

Now he has a gf and he told me about it, but he said he will break it off if I let him see me (which I doubt). After a month he changed his FB status to "in a relationship" with her and changed the profile pic. The woman in the pic is beautiful. But right after he changed that he talked to me again and said he wants to see me and pursue me.

I wonder what he's up to, is he trying to get revenge (coz he said i broke his heart) and want to screw me or he is trying to get me in bed?

You sound vaguely interested. It is easy to avoid him, he lives somewhere else, you can block him on FB and change your number/ignore his texts and calls if he's pestering you. Why keep wondering about his intentions? You are seeing someone else, this issue shouldn't matter at all.

Hi Scorpiogrl62 - We dont have any relationship yet when I was on vacation, just acquaintance and exchanged phone numbers, though he asked me to be his gf which I politely declined. But you are right I will shut him off completely. Thanks.

@everrevolvingpithet - I said that a lot reminded him he has a gf, hmm kinda scary on what you just wrote - change my name or leave the country?

@trine - Yeah you are right, thanks. Just kinda wondering what's his intentions.

He saw me online on FB right after he changed his profile pic and chatted with me, he wanted to see me according to him.

Anything you want to know? 🙂

I'm wondering why you care if you're in a relationship......be careful IceP.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
You're not telling us something.

I was thinking that from the first post. Unless a Scorp is complete loonie tunes, we're not putting our feelings "out there" unless we have a good indication that it will be reciprocated.....*side eye*. You're not telling us everything.

You can ask questions 🙂

I am scorpio too and you are right about putting our feelings unless it will be reciprocated. So I don't think he has feelings for me I think, I think he just wants revenge or something.

hmmmm and you know I have some problems with my cancer guy.

Yes, I know you are having issues with your Crab, which is why I asked. You know exactly why I asked you that question too. You're basically trying to test the waters with this Scorp so that he can be your plan B if Crabby pants continues to flake. Here's the problem, the issues with your Crab will only be made worse if you play this game. I am not saying you are doing anything physical with Scorpy, but you are toying with a situation that could backfire, all because you're feeling neglected by your Crab. Remember Crabs are intuitive and they are pretty good and seeing the truth.

You're actions with this Scorp are inconsistent with what you've stated you (don't) feel for him. This is how I read the OP, but tell me if I am wrong:

I met a Scorp, not the best looking, but cute enough and he's showered me with all of the attention I want and need right now, because my Crab is acting funky. I love my Crab though--uhh, d*mn moody bugger!...Why can't my Crab be more direct like this guy? I'll flirt with this guy because I am feeling a little insecure about where things stand with Crabby pants. No harm in being "friendly" *fast forward*.

Things are better with my Crab, but I led Scorp on, so he's pouring it on thick. That wasn't intentional--well, not really. I'm gonna play the boyfriend card to get rid of Scorp, but I like the attention he give me when my Crab is shelling...Why can't my crab be this straight forward and direct?! I like to know where I stand with a man...Okay, I'll talk to Scorp here and there when I'm feeling lonely, but I won't cross the line--I don't want to be accused of cheating. Boy, he's pouring it on thick, I kind of like that. *jealousy kicks in, even thought I don't "like" him*, who is this chick on his profile pic? Does he really want me? Is he playing games?

Yes, I am assuming a lot here (vivid imagination and all that), but this is how your post reads to me. I am also filling in holes based on your other thread on the Cancer board.

So, my only questions: Why do you care about what this Scorp is doing if you are in a relationship? Do you like this Scorp?

Yes everything you said most likely is true I have to admit that.

Yes I am asking does he really want me or just want to hurt me?

The moment he changed the profile pic I was online and saw it, I felt relieved and told myself (good riddance with a smile) then he immediately PM me on facebook. Its been a month since I talked to him again and he said "please let me come and see you and those sweet talks again.

Those words is playing on my mind over and over that night. I never been with scorpio so I was curious and maybe I can find answer here. Maybe because of this ego thing.

By the way me and my crab is on disappearing mode now, no communication except some few text from him 😢.

Posted by Iceprincess17
Yes everything you said most likely is true I have to admit that.

Yes I am asking does he really want me or just want to hurt me?

The moment he changed the profile pic I was online and saw it, I felt relieved and told myself (good riddance with a smile) then he immediately PM me on facebook. Its been a month since I talked to him again and he said "please let me come and see you and those sweet talks again.

Those words is playing on my mind over and over that night. I never been with scorpio so I was curious and maybe I can find answer here. Maybe because of this ego thing.

By the way me and my crab is on disappearing mode now, no communication except some few text from him 😢.

Well, you have some Scorps that are so hell bent on revenge that they would play out this scenario just to get you back for whatever perceived slight they feel. At the end of the day, we will never know until this plays out. Not something you want to hear, I'm sure. However, you seem to be focused on the wrong thing--or should I say the wrong person. Do you have a true understanding of why your Crab keeps going MIA? Are you demanding too much? Expecting too much too early? Needing too much? Struggling with insecurities that you expect him to fix? Do you understand the nature of your Crab? All rhetorical questions. If I recall, you were given some advice about how to deal with your Crab when he came back around (unfortunately, not too much feedback from the Crabs on the board, so hopefully it was helpful just the same). I'm not sure how you dealt with his return other than icing him out, but if you guys didn't have the opportunity to have a honest conversation where he is expressing why he disappeared to begin with, then you may continue to do this dance. If he has given you a answer, can you respect it and work with him? You need to figure out how much of this is you and how much of this is him and see where you can make adjustments.

You can also continue to look for advice about this Scorp, but I don't really see that playing out too well for you. Especially, if the Crab is who you truly want to be with.

Thanks PheonixRising you always been so helpful.

My crab disappeared on me just once, now its my turn and he respect that (im on vacation by the way). I miss him though.
I told him we can talk if he is ready.

You are right and I am closing this topic now and will focus on my crab.