jealous much?

So what do you do when you're seeing someone and you like them, but you're both seeing other people and you're TRYING to like them too, but you really just like that one person and the thought of them being with someone else is enough to drive you a little crazy?

so you're both dating 2 people?

avoid complicated attraction at all costs. distance yourself from the object of your desire and spare everyone inevitable hurt.

if you are seeing someone else, you ought to break it off immediately. there is no room to be attracted to someone else when you are in a relationship. if you are, there is something wrong and you need to deal with it.

do this BEFORE you get to the point where you follow up on this attraction and when caught, start bleating about how 'you couldn't help yourselves'. you CAN help yourself right now. be strong. do something.

been there SS, unfortunately sometimes, no matter how hard yo try to forget that person, it doesnt work, and "sometimes" there are reasons why you cant be with that person nor leave the person you are with...thats what happened to me, and unfortunately, the follow your heart thing isnt always possible...

i hope you manage to sort it out, cause i know how painful that can be!

Thanks for the responses. I was talking about the "dating game". No one is committed. Everyone knows there's no exclusivity. The idea is to date around and have "fun" and figure out what you like. I'm trying to date other people so I won't be so focused on this one person who is also dating other people but no matter what I can't get my mind off of him.

"fun"

what is this word—

"fun"

lol...idk, i guess enjoying the company/conversation of other men and doing fun stuff but really just using them to distract you from obsessing over the person you really want who apparently doesn't realize that you are everything he has ever wanted...lol

i guess you should stop "trying" and go with whatever suits you.

"It's going to break you on the inside."
it is...

i'm a busy and important executive these days. i work hard and i play hard. work is fun too and i get paid a fortune for doing it! fuck.....i'm sooooo lucky LOL!!!

some of us don't have to "try".

::smirks::

"just using them to distract you from obsessing over the person you really want who apparently doesn't realize that you are everything he has ever wanted."

So put on a trench coat with nothing underneath and some stilettos and go over to his house and tell him. 🙂