Mars in Scorp and lots of Fire too much??

Hey there! New to the forum! Soooo after my lastest breakup with my ex bf ( he is Scorpio Sun) I researched a TON about people with Scorpio Sun's and how the negatives are "manipulative, obsessive, revengeful", etc. Only I was mostly discovering that I was the one being that way as well!!! Did my birth chart to find out..... What do ya know?!!! My Mars is in Scorpio! Talk about calling the kettle black huh?! Most things I have researched have been right on for me about having a Mars in Scorpio ( i.e. sexual, intense, revengeful, all the above).

Apparently half of my entire birth chart is in Fire/Water and Earth sprinkled here and there with a slight pinch of Air. **Recipe for disaster— lol**
Is all this Fire and Water just too much?? Too intense??

Here's a breakdown of major stuff:

Sun-Capricorn
Moon-Aries
Asc-Virgo
Mercury-Capricorn
Venus-Sagittarius
Mars-Scorpio
Jupiter-Sagittarius
Saturn-Scorpio
Uranus-Sagittarius
Neptune-Sagittarius
Pluto-Scorpio