We had a brief, but to the point conversation, just he and I off court, regarding my constant frustrating-ness and his macho attitude. He said there was nothing to worry about...I've adjusted the way I respond to the guys well enough that he isn't feeling pressure from any side at this point...
So, we had a great weekend, full of volleyball! It was awesome, I got to play, was asked to leave once (but it was my turn!!) and I was able to stay on the court and not piss anybody off! (I confronted the guy who was trying to take my turn. The reasoning was, he hadn't played but 1 game all day. So had I..so I just asked: mind if I play this one? YOU GET NEXT? He said "no," and my scorp friend smiled..🙂)
Just as a side note, I only missed 3 balls and got the game winning spike on the last game of the day!!
yeah! we worked it all out. I'm really happy and we had a great weekend with no conflict. The first in a loong time. It's so good to be back to normal!
ANd yeah! I love volleyball, it's challenging and fun...sandy!
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We had a brief, but to the point conversation, just he and I off court, regarding my constant frustrating-ness and his macho attitude. He said there was nothing to worry about...I've adjusted the way I respond to the guys well enough that he isn't feeling pressure from any side at this point...
So, we had a great weekend, full of volleyball! It was awesome, I got to play, was asked to leave once (but it was my turn!!) and I was able to stay on the court and not piss anybody off! (I confronted the guy who was trying to take my turn. The reasoning was, he hadn't played but 1 game all day. So had I..so I just asked: mind if I play this one? YOU GET NEXT? He said "no," and my scorp friend smiled..🙂)
Just as a side note, I only missed 3 balls and got the game winning spike on the last game of the day!!