Sooo I've been neighbors with this guy for about 8yrs. He's always caught my eye, but since I was married I never pursued anything. I became single 3yrs ago. About a year ago I started feeling attracted to him again, but didn't show it. A few months ago he started waving at me and I would wave back at him, he would go out of his way to make sure his friends moved when I got home so that I had a parking space. About a month ago he finally approached me with a question and then a couple of weeks after we exchanged numbers. He immediately called me and then texted me. We went out to grab a drink on that same day and we got a little frisky. I told him that I wasn't looking for a fling, and he said it wouldn't be anything like that. He would call and text all the time, but then dimished the amount and frequency. We've kept in touch and we have slept together a couple of times, I guess to me it felt like I've known him forever so I took the chance. He's still being quiet and distant, but is sweet when we're together, always calls me babe and treats me with respect. When we first started talking he said he had been checking me out, that he liked the way I carried my self and that he loved my pretty smile. I am a Libra Sun and moon, Scorpio ascendant, Venus in Virgo and Mars in Scorpio. He's a Scorpio sun Cap moon, Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Scorpio. What is the deal? Is he just testing me? Or should I let it go?
My Scorpio neighbor
@Libralula I do hope so. I've held back so long and I really hope this works out 🙂

Lula is right. Scorp Venus is pretty intense and we are not always aware of it. If we are then we try to hold back as much as possible so we are not too much for our partner too soon. It might scare them away! We do go all in which isn't always good but you can't change it! He probably did like you from afar for a while too. Scorp ascendant can be intense too.

Diminish frequency ...What are we talking?
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