Need advise from scorpios!

I am gemini. I have a scorpio friend who I have known for about 6 years now,we are very close friends. I have been always faithful to her as a friend and supported her through difficult times(a rare thing for gemini to do as they would say) and she also did the same thing to me.I guess that kept us together very close.
Now I dont see her so much, because she studies in different place from me, but I always go and visit her where she studies and always call her.
But the most dissapointing thing is that I feel that I am loosing her and my love for her as a friend is dying and I dont know what to do.Every time I call her and try to speak with her, she's always busy.She promises me that she will call back and rarely ever does.I came to see one of my friends where she studies and went to see her, she had not time for me even to have 10 min. conversation.She made new friends where she studies and met a new man who is she crazy about.
In the past she used to tell me that friendship we have will stay for life,but I am not too sure it will because of her attitude and how careless she has become.
This situation started from summer and keeps on going on that away even though we see sometimes each other, but I can feel its getting worse and worse. She asks me how I am and doesnt even finish listening to me and changes the subject about her love life.
I feel like I have been poisened by her so many times now, not in the way she did something terribly awful to me but just the way she has become now. I wanted to end our friendship so many times, but there is always been something that pulled me back.I dont even know what it is..
I am thinking of ending everything quitely after her birtday which is quite soon and after that I will stop responding to her and see how that will make her feel...
Please any scorpio out there,who has any better thoughts about this situation please write..
from gem

I'm a scorpio and when I first read this I thought it was about me but my b-day already passed so it can't be me. There is much to say about your situation. First scorpios value friends and that's why they keep around for a long time.They invest time feeelings love and like to connect and get to know someone really well. They are loyal friends who'd hate to just end a long friendship. All the past's year investments wuld be a waste. Think twice about what you will do. Don't assume any thing and since scorpios like assuming thngs make sure she knows what you are feeling. She will deeply appreciate you telling her how you feel,telling her the pure truth, this will help her to act and make the best decision.If she really want to be your friend she will change, and stop talking about herself. But first let her know how that makes you feel. She will understand. Just think,maybe she thinks that you are interested in her life since you are good friends and just wants to save youthe time of asking later about her love life. I'm sure she doesn't want to shove all her doing abouts and feelings into someone willingly. I know i would love to hear about my friend's business but my friends don't talk about themselves. Put yourself in her shoes, she might like listening to other peoples's stories and thinks you would like to hear her story. Don't be selfish. Why would she want to poison you? People see things differently. Let her know that you miss her, that you want to spend time with herthat she is important to you and mention the ever lasting friendship.. that will put a sense of responsibility in her own words that she has to follow on. A scorpio friend has so much to offer if you only ask,and are true to them and will also help them later on as they helped you.Be fair. Think about give and take,is it equal? If you decide to end the friendship tell her don't just let it be, or else she will think that you are the bad friend and will want to get back, honesty is vere VERY important.Good luck,and don't throw a friend away just b cuz she talks about her love life too much, that might be important to her. And when you talk on the phone be enthusiastic about what you are talking about, if you lifeis boring it doesn't mean scorpio can't talk about her interesting life. make your life interesting, and don't envy your friend, she hs no idea you feel that way or else she would not talk about herself cnstantly. Scorpios like the challenge of life itself and find it a mystery. well I hope I was of some help and write back if you have time,& tell me what happened.
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Hi! This is for unregistered 140.97.230.16.....Take it easy on yourself, please. Not all scorps are selfish. We just intense individuals,and yes, sometimes selfish, but not to the point that we can't take our friends' feeling into consideration.

Thanks for your response.
You have been helpful.But I just want to say I never envy my friend on anything.If I love someone I never envy them, I adore them and about give and take, I give all the time everything I can my time even when I am busy and have things to do.But when she's busy she cant respond to me at all I find it very difficult to cope with especially whem you need someone so badly and they just let you down and promise you something which they never do after.
And that upsets me the most and I am starting to think aren't you suppose to be my closest friend, who I rely on the most? Then you start thinking, she's not or I put her too high above everyone else.Or maybe its my fault to become close with someone without knowing its going to hurt so much later!
Maybe I will talk to her about this one day, when I will probably wont be able to control myself any longer and just break down totaly.Anyway,my friend is very stressed out with studies now and I dont want to bother her with my s*** and my feelings, because there will be too much pressure for her.
I think its best to live it for now.Maybe one fine day we will talk about these things.Probably when I will be on the edge and burst out with my anger or maybe not...
But thank you for your help...
I just wish she could be more responsive to me and keep in touch more often, the way I do for her.
Thanks gem

as a scorpio, I can tell you that you offend your buddy and they are probably a bit annoyed with you. Perhaps you should take a step back and let them come to you.

Gemini is NOT for Scorpio!

Take a step back, and f*** grow up!

u were f*********helpful, I wish you the best in ur life