Need help from Scorpio Male!!!

I am posting here because I have reached a point of desperation as to how I should handle my "relationship" with a Scorpio male.

We met three months ago and we hit it off immediately. He said I was different than the other girls because he could immediately trust me (for reasons unforeseen to him) and that on our first date we acted like we could be on our 40th anniversary as a married couple. I wasn't too keen on him at first, but over the course of a month he kept impressing me more and more and it grew to the point where I felt like I respected him more than anyone else on the entire planet. He said things that would indicate that we were monogamous and he said I was the second most meaningful relationship he'd ever had (after a month of casually dating.)

Two months ago, I had to relocate cities (2 hours away) and that was when the problems began. He started acting up and accusing me of taking advantage of him. He would drink and scream at me for hours on end, creating public scenes. He said he hated the hold I had over him and how I could get him to do anything I wanted. I think he was upset that I was leaving in 3 days. We talked about the future while we were drunk and he said he couldn't foresee remaining monogamous unless I could visit him every week. On the last day we saw eachother, he asked when I would come back to visit, and I said two weeks. I ended up coming down a week later and I spent the entire weekend with him (aside from letting him go out with his friends) but I would pick him up in the middle of the night because he said he didn't want to go home with anyone but me.

I asked him if he wanted to continue to see eachother, and he said that he didn't want to make it an obligation, but that he "wouldn't mind." That made me angry but he consoled me and said it wasn't a bad thing. The next night he asked "what are we?" and I said "undecided" and he got angry and pouty and said my answer was worse than his. The day after that as we said goodbye, he said "see you next weekend" and kissed me, which made me feel as though we had established a routine. Fast-forward a week and he isn't initiating seeing me, and Saturday night when he finally does ask to see me at 9, I tell him I can't come until 1, and when I show up at his house at 1 he doesn't answer my calls or the door. Next day, I get a text saying he is really sorry about the entire weekend but he twisted his ankle and next time he wants to make it up to me by visiting here

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(a first, and more complicated considering I live with my parents.) I say —I would like that.??

We text sporadically after that (like a joke or picture maybe 2x per week), and midweek he tells me that he might go come up for a music event, and what are my plans. I am kind of angry still so I say —That should be fun.?? And leave it at that. Last weekend I texted him late Saturday night and he replied with a cute picture of himself. Then two nights ago he —liked?? a photo I took on Instagram.

What I want to know is, have I lost him? I felt like I became too comfortable and too housewifey for him (which I am prone to do as a Virgo) or maybe he just got tired of the affair and he is over it? What do you guys think? I feel like he is trying to let the relationship slowly wane and lead me on because he feels guilty or something, I'm so confused.

Oh and not sure if this matters, but I'm virgo sun with Aquarius moon and he's scorpio sun with libra moon 🙂

Hello Virgocat, I am a Scorpio male to the T....In my past relationships the best angle is too lay everything on the table with your guy. You may want to even write it down first. Express your feelings. Scorpios are emotional beings if he admits it or not.(dont bring this up in the convo of course). Tell him how he made you feel when he did what he did. Of he cares, he will react to your statements. Listen to what he says and ask yourself if you want to deal with him again. He doesn't sound like a very stable person. How old is this Scorpio?

He is 24, I am 22. I was planning on just waiting for him to visit me or not visit and leave the ball in his court because I don't want to seem clingy. You think I should initiate a serious conversation?

Do not go to him! He will have all the power and walk all over you! I have done this in the past with women. Tell how you feel ask him what he wants now. Tell him to be honest. Don't take I don't know for an answer and don't go into this expecting a certain answer just really expect the worst so your not disappointed. If he's a real man and a true scorpio he will spill his heart out right then and there,if he cares about you. If he doesn't care he won't have much to say.

Do not go to him! He will have all the power and walk all over you! I have done this in the past with women. Tell how you feel ask him what he wants now. Tell him to be honest. Don't take I don't know for an answer and don't go into this expecting a certain answer just really expect the worst so your not disappointed. If he's a real man and a true scorpio he will spill his heart out right then and there,if he cares about you. If he doesn't care he won't have much to say.

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