New Scorp to Board!

Hiya there

Just been reading threads relating to this and getting real hooked - as you have guessed I'm a scorp with Cap. moon, Leo Asc., and Sag. venus.

I have had a range of relationships with guys from differrent astrological signs - interesting, libras figured quite highly o the list at one time - they do seem to appreciate my more scorp style of communicasting and personal manner. A pisces I was involved with used to accuse me of seeing other men - even to the point of describing one such man in great detail - according to him. The end came when his actual accusations were so intense I was becoming emotionally ill with trying to convince him of my innocence - as a scorp the injustice of it was enough to nearly 'tip me over the edge'. He even had an objection to me doing martial arts as he believed that the lessons should not consist of body contact with anyone! This pisces is now seeing another scorp whom I sit next to at work - oh how jolly it is for me to listen to her mobile going off with another text message and to hear what a lovely evening she had - NOT - it's nearly 'killling' me as I actually adored this guy but there is nothing I can do but to keep going and hope I can find another job real soon - not easy. By the way he knows I sit next to this woman as he was my ex boss! Lol But then a scorp never really did things by half - I am now involved with a sag guy who has an amazing amount of energy - he has a scorp moon and asc.

My question would be - and hopefully all you scorps out there will be able to help - how on earth do I carry on working with this situation in the background bearing in kind my work is an important factor of my personality 'make up'.

Thanks.

All that does not seem like too much fun to me, the accusations from the Pisces and all, but anyways

It seems like what you must do is just to communicate that you are not too fond to listen to hers (your work mate) and your ex's conversations when they both know that if you were listening to them you would die. Ask them to stop because it's irritating you, I mean they're not doing it on purpose right? (or are they—?).

If they agree that yours is a reasonable request and claim then they should at least not do it around you anymore (or as often) if they're decent people. And it for whatever reason the appeal to their deceny does not work then all I can say is 'Get Creative' and put a little more energy into getting the point across and actually having them obey accordingly! haha

Also, remember Attitude Really Is A World Of Difference,
so you could just smile and deal with it (dust it off your shoulder), but i'll stop there. 🙂

Got headphones?Im a scorpio who's gotten really good at ignoring people and things that isn't my direct focus point which is usually work,anything else kinda pisses me off so all the more the reason to ignore it if it interupts what im doing.I also have taurus moon;weak side blindsided stuff but still isn't really blindsidedness,just really good at not letting emotional things affect me as much if it comes to paycheck problems.I don't know the how to's of it but I just deal with things like that through aloftness.Also have a leo mars and sag in venus and risng and read fire signs are really drive/goal/athletic oriented everything else is considered trivial to the goal at hand and an unnessacery waste of energy to worry about it.

Thanks for replies. Sorry, couldn't possibly actually say anything to woman since my pride would not let me. In any case the hurt seems to come from what appears he is saying very similar to this woman as he did to me - and like an idiot I actually thought I was special! Lol

I do focus at work and work is important to me as part of my identity but thid is really 'stuffing' the whole thing as now I am dreading going to office.

I think what is making it real difficult is the fact tht this pisces did not give a 'real' ending to relationship but continued to accuse me - this is something I really can't handle!

My work is centred very much around people and my colleagues tend to perhaps be more 'emotionally in tune' with feelings etc.

Can you talk to a supervisor and ask that you be moved to a different desk? Just say it's for personal reasons?

There could be a chance that I could sit at a desk in another office building - my work tends to mean I am in and out of the office quite a bit - however, due to all the re structuring at work there does not seem to be a particular manager I could actually ask - the 'top boss' is new in post and I am a little nrevous about asking for this for personal reasons - one of my colleagues has been off for some time with stress and depression and she contacted him to explain the situation and he demanded to know what medication she was on!

This must sound all so ridiculous coming from a scorp especially about being nervous but it must be something to do with admitting something to do with my personal issues is the reason for request!

The first chance you get, simply say "he's all yours now."

I dream of the day when I can actually say that but alas I don't seem to have that kind of luck! Lol

Can you put paint bomb in her chair? So when she sat on it....Boom!!...and all her ass is red now. LOL.

Think of the real bad karma I would get from that - it's bad enough already! Lol Anyway, it's not really her thought and it's probably none of my business but it still does hurt as I just don't want to know what they get up to and their good times together - this is getting so adolescent it's untrue and me being my age!

Sometimes it is much better to leave tact and act the tactless and funny way. You will never get frusturated by the idea that he's dating her anymore. Believe me it works.

Well I can't obviously put a bomb under her seat so what do you recommend I do bearing in mind it's 'ripping my heart out' - thankfully you wouldm't be able to tell during my work hours as I appear to be very skilled in that scorp gift of hiding my emotions!