Observed by a Scorpio

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Shaun
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I've been observed by the Scorpio I love for the past eight weeks. He tests me, studies me, and observes me, willing to let me be hurt in his pursuit of discovering my soul.

I feel like a lab rat and I hate how powerless I feel here. I also like it because it means he likes me. But, I feel like I'm being unraveled and that he cares so much about understanding me completely that he is willing to hurt me in the process.

I'm angry and excited. I'm scared but exhilarated.

I don't know how to proceed.
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Shaun
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Posted by Koniuchaa
He is hurting you and you are happy about this? Sounds disturbing.
It does. It is. But, when one is overwhelmed with a negative feeling sun as fear, they can only be self-centered.

It is not out of malice, and I've tried to stop being drawn in. But I love him, care deeply for him, and want to know him too much to forget him. I can give you the full story in another postC
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This is the Cancer who is in lala land over a straight Scorpio man. But obviously 20 year old cancer boy here knows better, his chosen Scorpio love is merely hiding in the closet, sending him longing looks or whatever.

Look, Gothic romance may be the IN thing at the moment, but that's not how the world works Emily Bronte. He doesn't like you in that way. HE TOLD YOU THAT.

And then you promptly ignored it because "signs" that he was a closeted homosexual who is interested in you. "Signs" from your nebulous intuition. You're stalking the guy, writing poetry, and mooning like a Pisces.

NO really does mean, NO. NO WAY. HELL NAH. NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. NOT IN THIS LIFE. NO.

This is why cancers annoy aquas.
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HarleyTwinFlame
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Posted by Gennie
This is the Cancer who is in lala land over a straight Scorpio man. But obviously 20 year old cancer boy here knows better, his chosen Scorpio love is merely hiding in the closet, sending him longing looks or whatever.

Look, Gothic romance may be the IN thing at the moment, but that's not how the world works Emily Bronte. He doesn't like you in that way. HE TOLD YOU THAT.

And then you promptly ignored it because "signs" that he was a closeted homosexual who is interested in you. "Signs" from your nebulous intuition. You're stalking the guy, writing poetry, and mooning like a Pisces.

NO really does mean, NO. NO WAY. HELL NAH. NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. NOT IN THIS LIFE. NO.

This is why cancers annoy aquas.
Oh my...

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Dude, as somebody else already pointed out, he is straight.

I would do my best to wash those feelings away if I were you, the sooner the better. You are probably making him uncomfortable, and I think a lot of people wouldn't know how to handle someone of the same sex crushing on them. Especially if they are a friend, coworker, classmate, etc, someone they can't really avoid.

If you are "in love" with him as you say, you are probably observing him all the time and he knows it, so he catches you doing it and doesn't know what to do and would prefer it if you just stopped. If he is blushing it's not returning your feelings it's that he doesn't know how to respond and he doesn't like it.

I really don't understand how people develop such feelings for those who are impossible for them.
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Posted by GuardianAnu
Dude, as somebody else already pointed out, he is straight.

I would do my best to wash those feelings away if I were you, the sooner the better. You are probably making him uncomfortable, and I think a lot of people wouldn't know how to handle someone of the same sex crushing on them. Especially if they are a friend, coworker, classmate, etc, someone they can't really avoid.

If you are "in love" with him as you say, you are probably observing him all the time and he knows it, so he catches you doing it and doesn't know what to do and would prefer it if you just stopped. If he is blushing it's not returning your feelings it's that he doesn't know how to respond and he doesn't like it.

I really don't understand how people develop such feelings for those who are impossible for them.
The straight guy probably is clueless about what to do because he doesn't want to look like a homophobic bigot, but Cancer boy here is just gonna keep pushing in on his space.
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Posted by Gennie
Posted by GuardianAnu
Dude, as somebody else already pointed out, he is straight.

I would do my best to wash those feelings away if I were you, the sooner the better. You are probably making him uncomfortable, and I think a lot of people wouldn't know how to handle someone of the same sex crushing on them. Especially if they are a friend, coworker, classmate, etc, someone they can't really avoid.

If you are "in love" with him as you say, you are probably observing him all the time and he knows it, so he catches you doing it and doesn't know what to do and would prefer it if you just stopped. If he is blushing it's not returning your feelings it's that he doesn't know how to respond and he doesn't like it.

I really don't understand how people develop such feelings for those who are impossible for them.
The straight guy probably is clueless about what to do because he doesn't want to look like a homophobic bigot, but Cancer boy here is just gonna keep pushing in on his space.

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Agreed.