Elite
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Posted by AgentP911Yeah. Maybe age is an issue... We will see. :-) She is quite strange... I must show that i don' take her as "piece of flesh" and find a way to warm her up. :-)
Awww bless, a nice post!
I'm a Scorp and when I was 32 I liked a guy who had just turned 26. We worked together a little. I didn't know his age at that time and I thought he was around my age. We got on well but I felt the age was a bit of a problem mainly because I felt he still had much to do in life and he wasn't sure what he was doing for work so I never told him I liked him. I watched him date other girls and I still never said anything. We lost touch but have recently reconnected and should be meeting for a catch up next weekend. He's 29 now and I'm nearly 36 so maybe now he's older and done things we can see what happens.
My points are that the age may be an issue due to where you are in life and what you want.
Also, getting involved with someone at work can be tricky. It's likely she's thinking this and remaining neutral đ„¶ at work to maintain boundaries hence she told your boss you were ok but she didn't go over the top.
If you really want her then you could gently pursue her and not give up. If she likes you then she will like this. If she doesn't like you then you'll piss her off but you'll get your answer!

Posted by EliteShe's just holding her cards close to her chest. In other words, guarding her feelings. Just take your time and get to know her when the opportunity allows for it. Don't be pushy about it and see where that goes. And stop talking to her friend about her (e.g. asking questions, talking about your night together). Get it sorted on your own. Scorps like to keep their personal life private.
Hello all,
I am new in this forum. :-) I want to ask you about your opinion. Sorry for my English. :-)
WellâŠThis is my story :-):
I have met one girl. She is Scorpion 32 and I am Arie 26. She doesnât have boyfriend for 2 years and she believes in Astrology. :-) I often work for the company, where she works. She has never shown me that she is interested, but one evening she stayed in office a little bit later and she was drinking a wine with her friend from the office. They gave me a glass of wine and we were talking together. After that she has started mirroring my movesâŠ
Then we moved to the bar⊠After few dances I kissed her. We were kissing and she has started holding my hand like couples do. She wasnât drunk, and I was sober. She told me a lot of nice words why she is interested, then she said that money, expensive clothes and age isnât important for her.
It was a good night⊠But the next day she has start acting so cold like nothing has happened. Like heavy armored and she stopped posting on Facebook. I asked her friend about it. Her answer was- â She is cold sometimes, she is special, I think she wants you, but she doesnât want to admit⊠Give her some wine and take her to your home.â - Well, this is not the way I act⊠I donât want make her feel, that I just used her for sex. She hates when someone talk about her like âpiece of meatâ - I mean it serious with her. :-)
I asked her to go out. She replied me â I have a lot of work now, I took some courses of German language, every day till 20:30. We can go out, but after courses. đą â -She doesnât lie, itâs a true.
She is so straightforward⊠She tells immediately if she takes you only as âfriend.â She didnât define me as a friend, but acting cold to me.
Last week my boss was in their company to ask her how I work. He told me- âShe praised you and talked about you only in superlatives.â
This is what she told me in office- âYour boss was here. I told him everything is ok.â I am completely confused about her. When we are in office we are talking 1-2 hours together but she acts so cold.
I donât know what to think about it⊠She didnât define me as âfriendâ but she doesnât show any big interests and she doesnât want to go out yet.
My tactic is be patient, give her space, and donât try hard⊠:-) It's a challenge....

Posted by AgentP911Haha. Cute!
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I am new in this forum. :-) I want to ask you about your opinion. Sorry for my English. :-)
WellâŠThis is my story :-):
I have met one girl. She is Scorpion 32 and I am Arie 26. She doesnât have boyfriend for 2 years and she believes in Astrology. :-) I often work for the company, where she works. She has never shown me that she is interested, but one evening she stayed in office a little bit later and she was drinking a wine with her friend from the office. They gave me a glass of wine and we were talking together. After that she has started mirroring my movesâŠ
Then we moved to the bar⊠After few dances I kissed her. We were kissing and she has started holding my hand like couples do. She wasnât drunk, and I was sober. She told me a lot of nice words why she is interested, then she said that money, expensive clothes and age isnât important for her.
It was a good night⊠But the next day she has start acting so cold like nothing has happened. Like heavy armored and she stopped posting on Facebook. I asked her friend about it. Her answer was- â She is cold sometimes, she is special, I think she wants you, but she doesnât want to admit⊠Give her some wine and take her to your home.â - Well, this is not the way I act⊠I donât want make her feel, that I just used her for sex. She hates when someone talk about her like âpiece of meatâ - I mean it serious with her. :-)
I asked her to go out. She replied me â I have a lot of work now, I took some courses of German language, every day till 20:30. We can go out, but after courses. đą â -She doesnât lie, itâs a true.
She is so straightforward⊠She tells immediately if she takes you only as âfriend.â She didnât define me as a friend, but acting cold to me.
Last week my boss was in their company to ask her how I work. He told me- âShe praised you and talked about you only in superlatives.â
This is what she told me in office- âYour boss was here. I told him everything is ok.â I am completely confused about her. When we are in office we are talking 1-2 hours together but she acts so cold.
I donât know what to think about it⊠She didnât define me as âfriendâ but she doesnât show any big interests and she doesnât want to go out yet.
My tactic is be patient, give her space, and donât try hard⊠:-) It's a challenge.
She has dream- travel agency and move to another country and she does everything to reach it. Maybe she thinks that if she starts something with me. It will ruin her dreams, but I want be part of it not ruin it, I want to share her dreams and support her.
Thank you so much for your time! :-)