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Elite
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Hello all,
I am new in this forum. :-) I want to ask you about your opinion. Sorry for my English. :-)

Well
This is my story :-):
I have met one girl. She is Scorpion 32 and I am Arie 26. She doesn’t have boyfriend for 2 years and she believes in Astrology. :-) I often work for the company, where she works. She has never shown me that she is interested, but one evening she stayed in office a little bit later and she was drinking a wine with her friend from the office. They gave me a glass of wine and we were talking together. After that she has started mirroring my moves

Then we moved to the bar
 After few dances I kissed her. We were kissing and she has started holding my hand like couples do. She wasn’t drunk, and I was sober. She told me a lot of nice words why she is interested, then she said that money, expensive clothes and age isn’t important for her.
It was a good night
 But the next day she has start acting so cold like nothing has happened. Like heavy armored and she stopped posting on Facebook. I asked her friend about it. Her answer was- “ She is cold sometimes, she is special, I think she wants you, but she doesn’t want to admit
 Give her some wine and take her to your home.” - Well, this is not the way I act
 I don’t want make her feel, that I just used her for sex. She hates when someone talk about her like “piece of meat” - I mean it serious with her. :-)
I asked her to go out. She replied me “ I have a lot of work now, I took some courses of German language, every day till 20:30. We can go out, but after courses. 😱 ” -She doesn’t lie, it’s a true.
She is so straightforward
 She tells immediately if she takes you only as “friend.” She didn’t define me as a friend, but acting cold to me.
Last week my boss was in their company to ask her how I work. He told me- “She praised you and talked about you only in superlatives.”
This is what she told me in office- “Your boss was here. I told him everything is ok.” I am completely confused about her. When we are in office we are talking 1-2 hours together but she acts so cold.
I don’t know what to think about it
 She didn’t define me as “friend” but she doesn’t show any big interests and she doesn’t want to go out yet.
My tactic is be patient, give her space, and don’t try hard
 :-) It's a challenge.
She has dream- travel agency and move to another country and she does everything to reach it. Maybe she thinks that if she starts something with me. It will ruin her dreams, but I want be part of it not ruin it, I want to share her dreams and support her.

Thank you so much for your time! :-)
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AgentP911
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Awww bless, a nice post!

I'm a Scorp and when I was 32 I liked a guy who had just turned 26. We worked together a little. I didn't know his age at that time and I thought he was around my age. We got on well but I felt the age was a bit of a problem mainly because I felt he still had much to do in life and he wasn't sure what he was doing for work so I never told him I liked him. I watched him date other girls and I still never said anything. We lost touch but have recently reconnected and should be meeting for a catch up next weekend. He's 29 now and I'm nearly 36 so maybe now he's older and done things we can see what happens.

My points are that the age may be an issue due to where you are in life and what you want.

Also, getting involved with someone at work can be tricky. It's likely she's thinking this and remaining neutral đŸ„¶ at work to maintain boundaries hence she told your boss you were ok but she didn't go over the top.

If you really want her then you could gently pursue her and not give up. If she likes you then she will like this. If she doesn't like you then you'll piss her off but you'll get your answer!
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Elite
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Posted by AgentP911
Awww bless, a nice post!

I'm a Scorp and when I was 32 I liked a guy who had just turned 26. We worked together a little. I didn't know his age at that time and I thought he was around my age. We got on well but I felt the age was a bit of a problem mainly because I felt he still had much to do in life and he wasn't sure what he was doing for work so I never told him I liked him. I watched him date other girls and I still never said anything. We lost touch but have recently reconnected and should be meeting for a catch up next weekend. He's 29 now and I'm nearly 36 so maybe now he's older and done things we can see what happens.

My points are that the age may be an issue due to where you are in life and what you want.

Also, getting involved with someone at work can be tricky. It's likely she's thinking this and remaining neutral đŸ„¶ at work to maintain boundaries hence she told your boss you were ok but she didn't go over the top.

If you really want her then you could gently pursue her and not give up. If she likes you then she will like this. If she doesn't like you then you'll piss her off but you'll get your answer!
Yeah. Maybe age is an issue... We will see. :-) She is quite strange... I must show that i don' take her as "piece of flesh" and find a way to warm her up. :-)

My boss told me, - "she talked about you only in superlatives!"

Then i asked her about it:

Me - "My boss was here, right?"

She - "How do you know it? Yes he was. I told him everything is OK"

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Posted by Elite
Hello all,
I am new in this forum. :-) I want to ask you about your opinion. Sorry for my English. :-)

Well
This is my story :-):
I have met one girl. She is Scorpion 32 and I am Arie 26. She doesn’t have boyfriend for 2 years and she believes in Astrology. :-) I often work for the company, where she works. She has never shown me that she is interested, but one evening she stayed in office a little bit later and she was drinking a wine with her friend from the office. They gave me a glass of wine and we were talking together. After that she has started mirroring my moves

Then we moved to the bar
 After few dances I kissed her. We were kissing and she has started holding my hand like couples do. She wasn’t drunk, and I was sober. She told me a lot of nice words why she is interested, then she said that money, expensive clothes and age isn’t important for her.
It was a good night
 But the next day she has start acting so cold like nothing has happened. Like heavy armored and she stopped posting on Facebook. I asked her friend about it. Her answer was- “ She is cold sometimes, she is special, I think she wants you, but she doesn’t want to admit
 Give her some wine and take her to your home.” - Well, this is not the way I act
 I don’t want make her feel, that I just used her for sex. She hates when someone talk about her like “piece of meat” - I mean it serious with her. :-)
I asked her to go out. She replied me “ I have a lot of work now, I took some courses of German language, every day till 20:30. We can go out, but after courses. 😱 ” -She doesn’t lie, it’s a true.
She is so straightforward
 She tells immediately if she takes you only as “friend.” She didn’t define me as a friend, but acting cold to me.
Last week my boss was in their company to ask her how I work. He told me- “She praised you and talked about you only in superlatives.”
This is what she told me in office- “Your boss was here. I told him everything is ok.” I am completely confused about her. When we are in office we are talking 1-2 hours together but she acts so cold.
I don’t know what to think about it
 She didn’t define me as “friend” but she doesn’t show any big interests and she doesn’t want to go out yet.
My tactic is be patient, give her space, and don’t try hard
 :-) It's a challenge....
She's just holding her cards close to her chest. In other words, guarding her feelings. Just take your time and get to know her when the opportunity allows for it. Don't be pushy about it and see where that goes. And stop talking to her friend about her (e.g. asking questions, talking about your night together). Get it sorted on your own. Scorps like to keep their personal life private.