Problems with scorpio man & direct communication?

I can't understand why for the life of me this scorpio refuses to address me face to face (when I have directly communicated with him). He opens up to my peers, insinuates things about me through his conversations with them, uses innuendos around me, but will not talk to me. WTF!?

I do this when I really like someone. I cannot talk to them no matter how much I want to. I almost get panic attacks just thinking about it!

I would recommend reading up about scorpios. Also there is this good video I've seen by Debra Silverman. She acts out the different star signs...it's kind of exaggerated but I felt she covered the star sign quite well none the less.

It's easier for him to talk to everyone but you because he doesn't care what they think of him (at least that would be the reason why I would, and do, do something like that)

I know the feeling. My Scorpio says nothing worth me knowing where I stand in her life to my face. She tells me she's usually thinking about me all the time, but won't share her thoughts. Today, out of nowhere, she text, Luv ya, you rock my world, I really appreciate everything you do for me, and don't know what I would do without you in my life. Of course this all blew me away, but I still wait for this to be shared face to face. But you will need to read up on the Scorpio, because this action is just what the Scorpio does. It's harmless and will take patience but will be rewarding if you relax and let it come to you. It seems that now I don't long for it, the Scorpio is getting more relax to share something heart felt. It was in a text but I'll take what I can for now, but not forever.

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I know the feeling. My Scorpio says nothing worth me knowing where I stand in her life to my face. She tells me she's usually thinking about me all the time, but won't share her thoughts. Today, out of nowhere, she text, Luv ya, you rock my world, I really appreciate everything you do for me, and don't know what I would do without you in my life. Of course this all blew me away, but I still wait for this to be shared face to face. But you will need to read up on the Scorpio, because this action is just what the Scorpio does. It's harmless and will take patience but will be rewarding if you relax and let it come to you. It seems that now I don't long for it, the Scorpio is getting more relax to share something heart felt. It was in a text but I'll take what I can for now, but not forever.

That's actually a really big thing for a scorp to do. I mean..I can imagine how hard it must be with us not being able to say these things face to face...it probably just feels like meaningless words or something similar but I do that when I'm with a partner too and it's actually quite a hard thing to do. I could spend up to an hour writing out what I want to say and then reading it over and over to make sure I've said it right and that it doesn't make me look silly etc. Haha 😛

Well Damn!!!! She actually said she loves me tonight in person and my dumb ass was so shocked I didn't say it back. This was a little before we were about to be intimate. So when she left, I was still a little puzzled about it and I text her.I said you told me you love me tonight, and she text And—? I said I love you too, just surprised you said it. So what do I expect now —?

That's two cents I'll take any day ...Thanks!! So funny, she's barely wants to talk on the phone now, guess she's thinking I would want to talk in depth about it, but I'm good just hearing her say it. I won't push her to say it again.

jojojo - I was going to respond before your last post, and say I would full out expect a bit of retreating on her part. From what I've read up on, scorps are very good at disappearing once they have "shown" their insides to someone (and many other reasons). But she probably feels somewhat exposed. All in all though, doubtful that it's a bad thing. Sounds like you are in a good spot 🙂 happy for you!

Thanks Deezie, based on what I have read on DXP and other sites, I will be patience just a little while longer. Hard for me being a Libra though, sometimes it keeps me unbalanced (the silence). So far though she seems to be clinging a little tighter but it's just one day later ...... lol.

OMG! The scorp that is in my life from time to time does the same thing it blows me! We can be at a party and I will be at the table with our mutual friend and some else. He will talk to both of them all night but will not say one word to me. Wont even look me in the face, but privately or when its just him and maybe a guy friend we talk all night long. The communication is great but around others its NOTHING. That pisses me off on a level that I really didn't even expect to deal with.