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Can you give us a little more insight into this situation? How do you know this woman exactly and for how long? I'm not really surprised at your intense feelings for her at this stage in the game. Scorps are know to evoke those type of emotional feelings from others. Give us some more info, so we can try to help you.
Sure.
I'm 17, she's 15 going on 16 and has a Libra boyfriend. I understand that they were bestfriends before they hooked up. I first knew her around when I was 7 - 13. But I barely knew her and we didn't get along well. It wasn't as if I was a total stranger or well-known to her, she just knew me very little. She was kinda mysterious and defensive so it was hard to get to know her. I mainly saw her at family/friend get togethers and whatnot.
I'm 17, she's 15 going on 16 and has a Libra boyfriend. I understand that they were bestfriends before they hooked up. I first knew her around when I was 7 - 13. But I barely knew her and we didn't get along well. It wasn't as if I was a total stranger or well-known to her, she just knew me very little. She was kinda mysterious and defensive so it was hard to get to know her. I mainly saw her at family/friend get togethers and whatnot.
After reading your whole story, and hearing your ages. I would say just work on being a good friend to her. Work on building a friendship with her. Especially since the both of you dont have a romantic history, nor do you have a history of good friendship. As a Scorpio woman, I can honestly tell you that we need to trust someone very well and know someone very well to fall in love with someone and trust them too. I would not travel there to tell her your feelings, nor would I say something on IM or over the phone, you could come off as weird or somewhat like a stalker or something. If she is mad at you right now over something you said or did, write her an email and apologize. Try and just think of her as a friend and build a friendship.
Yeah, makes sense. By the way, what are the chances that she actually forgive me? Can you guys tell when someone is seriously sorry? Any advice is appreciated!
Well, I would definately have to hear what ya did! But, if you dont want to share, that is understandable. Yes, we can tell when someone is seriously sorry. The key to an apology is to be very forthright about it. No "Im sorry if I hurt your feelings..."
When you make an apology, you have to directly say what it is that you said or did that you are sorry for. You have to acknowledge the fact that it was wrong and that it hurt the other person. You have to try and explain yourself, not excuses per say, but an explanation of what happened according to you. And then you have to say it wont happen again, and why it wont happen again. What you will do to make sure you wont hurt her in that way again, and then what your intentions are towards her now. Make sure she knows that you are asking for her forgiveness, and then leave that option open to her and let her know that your door is always open.
When you make an apology, you have to directly say what it is that you said or did that you are sorry for. You have to acknowledge the fact that it was wrong and that it hurt the other person. You have to try and explain yourself, not excuses per say, but an explanation of what happened according to you. And then you have to say it wont happen again, and why it wont happen again. What you will do to make sure you wont hurt her in that way again, and then what your intentions are towards her now. Make sure she knows that you are asking for her forgiveness, and then leave that option open to her and let her know that your door is always open.
I totally agree with ScorpioSweetie. Becoming a good friend to her is sure way to get to know her and also win her trust. She will have to trust you for you to really get to know the real her. Also remember that she is very young and young scorpios are not usually in tune with all of their emotions yet. So, she is doing things and not even really understanding why. She also may not realize how she is coming across to others. Just be there for her. Let her come to trust you and you will be the one she confides in. You do need to apologize to her. Do it by simply saying that you know that you two didn't really get along before, but you are sorry for that. You know she is a terrific person and you hope she will give you an opportunity to get to know her. When you get her attention, tell her how fortunate you feel to have her as a friend. She will be impressed that you want to get to know her. Whatever you do though, don't come across as weak or needy. Good luck and enjoy. There is nothing like young love.
Quick question. Aren't Scorpios attracted to mysterious and weird things?
YES
Yes, we like mystery, we like to find the answer to that mystery though. If we find that there is no real mystery, or the answer wasnt worth our time, or if it takes too long to find out the mystery, well then, we are sorely dissapointed. As a Scorpiol, what I like most is depth. I do not like flaky, fake, shallow, flippant people. As far as weird things? Weird like what?
Better question, if your in a room crowded with people, do you guys gravitate toward quiet people? Can you just look at a person or the way they and see that they have depth? If you notice that someone seems mysterious, especially if it's a guy, does this encourage you to find out about him, even if you have a boyfriend?
Sorry for barraging you guys with questions but how exactly does this radar work? Also,if you hated someone and didn't know much about them, but then you later learn that there's positive qualities about them. Will this change your attitude or opinion of who they are and would you be drawn to get to know them?
Yeah I understand what you mean. Seemed like magic though.
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