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I think I have been stung by a scorpion but its only when I read the post on retribution that I realised.

Question: Is is only people you care for and has hurt you, or is it just a game and anyone will do?

Story: Met really nice guy things really complicated because of (ex partner) and so in the end called it a day because I couldnt cope. But instead of saying that made out I didnt care and then! Scorpio said something to put me into really hot water. Left a message for him asking him why he would do such a thing and to stay away from me. He phoned me - well phoned my number and then put the phone down. I was still feeling the pain of not only what he had done to me but of saying goodbye when deep down I still wanted him big time, so never called back. Do you think he wanted to say sorry or maybe that I would have phoned him back!

Well who knows but to you all out there, sometimes people do things not to hurt you but because they feel they have nowhere else to turn and think it might be for the best! So next time think before lashing out!
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No I'm a capricorn. Thanks for the advice but I think I have left it too late. Its been 6 months now and it was only reading other post that got me thinking because I never knew why he done what he did - must admit I felt I had hurt him by saying goodbye but I thought it was for the best. We had only really started this relationship and well I felt he cared about me by all that he was putting up with but we never really got round to saying so! I just feel better now knowing he did it as a backlash and somewhere deep down he cared!
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If your question is whether Scorps "get revenge" on only those they care about or anyone and everyone who crosses them, I would say that it conpletely depends on the individual Scorpio. Smetimes we get in nasty moods where everyone who gets under our skin is fair game for our famous sting. But then again, sometimes we are acutely aware of who really deserves it and who doesn't, i.e., someone who unintentionally crossed us may be spared if we are evolved enough. Most of the time, at least with me, I only bother with revenge if I've been deeply hurt, and since I'm only capable of being hurt deeply when I care deeply, it's rare that I unleash my stinger.

Hope that helps, and I hope I was right about what your question was. : )

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Hi phoenix

Yes you were right about my question. I just couldnt understand why he had done what he done and as I say the retribution post kind of answered it for me. I actually feel better it explains a lot. My only wish now is that I had called him back to let him know that although I was hurting I didnt think any less of him for doing what he did. Thanks Phoenix!
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I've seen some variation among fellow Scorps. Myself, yeah I will make sure the offender feels the pain if they have acted out of line or unfairly towards me.
I do not mean basic life things that happen to all of us, like someone falling out of love and leaving us, etc, I mean when someone has really very obviously been out of line and acted totally innapropriately.
I've gone so far as to have people fired from their jobs. I don't believe in pettiness at all, if I am pissed enough to come after you, rest assured its not because of something stupid and small, nor will my action be small.

Here is another example, someone abused me financially so I did some digging around and found out that they owed the government. Yep the IRS was happy to see all the copies of incriminating papers I made and this person is now in some very hot water. Nope not a pang of remorse, nor do my actions ever come back to me because they always had it coming.
I don't get into these situations often, only a few times in my life so far.
What I have seen from some other Scorpios though are pure pettiness and striking back in stupid ways over stupid stuff, when the person really did not deserve it and someone with basic sense would just blow it off.

My mother in law was a fellow Scorpio and was pissed just because I "took her son away from her", but you know that is a general life issue. Every mom goes through it, and the woman your son married should not be mistreated because of your own issues.

Well, yep I persuaded him to move 3000 miles away and we see her like once a year now. Holding people accountable for their actions keeps them from walking on you, no one in their right mind will walk on a mat made of nine inch nails.
Anyways, a fellow Scorpio ex boyfriend wanted to meet me for some hanky-panky, knowing full well I am married. So I just said no, no venom on my side or anything. But he responds with a long email describing the birth of his child.. totally irrelevant to the situation at hand.
Except for that fact that I have miscarried several times and haven't been able to get pregnant easiely. So he stung me because he felt rejected, but he deserved that rejection for wanting to mess around with a married woman in the first place.

So it all goes back to where you draw the line. This differs from Scorpio to Scorpio. Oh and here is a funny story. One lady I know caught her husband skinny dipping with another woman. It was night so the wronged wife snuck to the place where their clothes were and poured chili pepper powder all over the other woman's crotch. Being dark and all she put the tainted panties right on...OUCH.....not nice to skinny dip with another woman's man huh.
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All of the above comments border on someone who is insane. Just because some one pisses you off or doesnt't do what you want them to, doesn't give you the right to
1. call the IRS
2. think its cute to physically injure someone. (chili pepper powder)
3. Take someone away from there family.

You may not have had to pay for your vindictivness yet, but someday my dear you will...someday all your karma will come back to you in spades. I have seen people who have that same type of nature eaten up with cancer. It's not healthy to have that kind of a mind set. Your not flying high your crawling on your belly!! Your the type that give Scorpios there deserving reputations.

You show how really sick you are by getting on here and bragging about your evilness. I hope your husband dumps your a** before you screw up his life anymore!!!
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Who the FUK is the hater above? Wait a minute, don't think I want to know your weak, sorry ass! U know s***. Who are u to say anything, or judje anyone? U ain't god!!
So if u ain't helping and have nothing good and positive to say, u shouldn't say anything.Period. How does it feel to have someone talk like that to u? You desurve this, and u know what? U are the evil one to wish someone who u know nothing about that their life, family and marriege would break. F U !!! and Grow up!!! Bye and have a nice day to u too...p of s
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I totally agree with 152... Good for you honey.. Told it just like it is... There should be more people like you around. Scorps should realise that they do not have the right to hurt others and expect not to get the same treatment.... Many of them do seem to border on insanity if you ask me.. They like to call it sensitivity.. My ASS... If they could learn to be as sensitive to others as they ARE TO THEMSELVES they would be nice people. Most have such a GUILTY CONCIENCE due to all the crap and hurt they've caused others and thats the reason they behave the way they do. They should learn to have better morals, stop being so childish and selfcentred, learn a bit of self-control and take responsiblity for their rediculous behaviour... In fact it probably boils down to self-respect. THEY JUST DON'T HAVE ANY.... so how can you expect them to respect any one else.. Hiding under rocks the majority of the time.. They should come out sometime, SEE THE LIGHT and SMELL THE ROSES.....
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Your pathetic!!!

You brag about having people fired from their jobs and calling the IRS on people etc...and then you get on here and think your a big bad ass, and we should say "WOW your so cool!" Well, I hate to burst your insecure bubble, but your an evil person and like I said before, your karma will catch up with you. I like to see you go up against someone with your own deprived mind.
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That was intended for 64.105 He/She is acting out because they hate their own miserable life. They are only sensitive when it comes to themselves! I can't believe the things they do and say and don't expect others to come back at them. That is the only real problem I have with a Scorpio. They think they can operate like they do and not get a knife in the back because of it. Let me tell all belly crawlers this--you act like that and you will end up not holding the knife, but having it turned on you!!! I myself will do battle with you if I have to, and I will not be as sneaky and covert an operator. If I do it, I will be right in your face about it. Not sneaking in to pools at night with cayenne pepper or calling the IRS or going to the boss and snitching. It shows that you have no real balls, and it shows at what a low-level you operate!!
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Apparently 206, you act the same way! You think it's fine to get people fired from there jobs and come between family members; to call the IRS and turn someone in that use to be a friend? If you find that behavior exceptable, then you too have serious mental problems. That is what I consider a coward!! If you have a problem with someone, why can't you be upfront. Why all the sneaking and hiding and snitching on people? I'll tell you why, because people would tell you what a sick and pathetic person you are. If you think your right in what your doing, then don't hide in the shawdows; act like an adult...and, what I meant by going to battle was, if someone ever pulled a stunt like that on me, I would expose you in the daylight to everyone who knows you. Isn't that what Scorpios fear exposure! I'm sure there is plenty to dig up on anyone if you wanted to be just as low!!! I would play you back at your same games. Only mine would be overt.
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Apparently 206, you act the same way! You think it's fine to get people fired from their jobs and come between family members; to call the IRS and turn someone in that use to be a friend? If you find that behavior exceptable, then you too have serious mental problems. That is what I consider a coward!! If you have a problem with someone, why can't you be upfront. Why all the sneaking and hiding and snitching on people? I'll tell you why, because people would tell you what a sick and pathetic person you are. If you think your right in what your doing, then don't hide in the shawdows; act like an adult...and, what I meant by going to battle was, if someone ever pulled a stunt like that on me, I would expose you in the daylight to everyone who knows you. Isn't that what Scorpios fear-- exposure! I'm sure there is plenty to dig up on anyone, if you wanted to be just as low!!! I would play you back at your same games. Only mine would be overt.
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But i think the thing with scorpios is that they like to take you by surprise, its the not knowing that is half the torture. Not taking sides, just commenting... I too have been stung by a scorpio or two but it wears off and you just dont let that particular person back into your life... Also, i know what its like to get revenge on someone and i always regret it... My new policy is to never end anything on a bad note, life is too short for petty grieviences and major hurts!
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I don't think what that person has done could be considered petty even by the most liberal of minds! And then they go and brag about it! You say your a love of justice 210.50; tell me what is fair about what she/he did or does? Most Scorpios need to be taught a lesson once or twice, and I am not at all afraid to give them back some of their own medicine! Those big fat egos are just ripe for smashing!!! Rising Phoenix, you might have finally found someone on the board you can relate to-- another ridiculous Scorpio! Your sun sign really shows the real you. Your defintely not a Libra, we all know you wish you could be; sorry honey you don't even come close!
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Hi 152!

Any chance you could point out to me exactly where I sided with the chili powder person? Did I once say that I agreed with those actions? Isn't that what you're so upset about? Or do you just hate Scorpios? If so, aren't you every bit as "evil" as you seem to think we are? Why are you so mad at me? Because I made a joke about someone getting their panties in a wad over a story about chili powder? And by the way, I'm one of the least sneaky people you'll ever know; if I think you're an idiot or I'm pissed off at you, you will know about it. : )

Where do you get off generalizing so much? You're nothing like the Libras I've known in my life--they all seemed to embody those admirable qualities like fairness...the one you appear to lack. And what are you talking about, "you wish you could be a Libra" ?
My sun is in Scorpio, and my ascendent, Mercury and Moon are all Libra. Facts, not wishes, "hun".
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206, you have flown off the handle and accused almost everyone who has an opinion about a Scorpio, that you didn't like, of being against you. You have even tried telling people to leave the board. My friend, your not in control here. You may get away with your odd behavior at home or wherever someone lets you, but not here. You seem to take all the comments about any Scorpios personally!! I never set out to offend you, and as a matter of fact, I have tried to calm your insecure personality. But for now I wish to shine you on. You got to have your fun by insulting and offending me, and you should just move on. Ok, It's alright to have opposing ideas it doesn't mean you have to take them personally and go nuts over such benine s***. Take your passionate personality and put it to some good works instead of wasting it on meaningless BS. There are plenty of good causes out there in need of you!!! Later days!
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I'm a scorpio, and i'm just cruzzing the board. I feel bad hearing all these bad opinions about scorpios stated as facts. So missunderstood. We can be greatly vengeful, and extreme, but take this from me: We would never hurt anyone if they never did anything to hurt US first. We know how it feels to get hurt and don't wish to cause innocent people hardships. Why?, because when we get hurt we feel our generosity and fairness haven't been appreciated. Why would you hurt me when I never hurt you? and we say hey! you know what? maybe if you get a taste of how mean we can be you will finally see how truly good we were when you respected me. Relationships are boken and we know it's not our fault. How many times have you started a friendship with a scorpio and he disrespected you for no reason. We want to make that person feel guilty because they have unjustly stepped on our integrity and pride, taken advantage of that generosity which we only expect to get in return. To let them walk without getting even would make us feel like cowards and unworthy individuals. We are such fair people and getting even is how we can get on with ourlives and move on. u only get what u give. When we give and don't get, it won't work. But if someone gave just alittle to the scorpio there will be twice that returned, because u cared and took your time to see the masked good in us. There come rewards when you have a true loyal scorpio on your side whom u value just as much.
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Well said, my Scorpio friend, I couldn't agree more. You speak the truth. I just hate when someone dishes stuff out but can't take it right back. The only time I've ever asked anybody to leave the Scorpio boards is when they were spreading negativity and mistruths about Scorpios--even outright attacking us. That's not only mean-spirited of them, it's immature, ridiculous and without basis. If I sat idly by and allowed someone to get away with such gross generalizations, I would be a total wuss and disloyal to my fellow Scorpios. It's just not right to do that; you don't see me going to the other boards and picking fights with people. And for someone to come down on me for "losing control" when in fact THEY are the ones who lost control in the first place over something THEY didn't agree with, is just lame. Don't backpedal like that--it's obvious that it's an effort to deflect blame from where it truly lies. I stand by everything I've said here--I know I am a good person and I'm not going to let someone who doesn't know jack about me try to spin it like I'm not, base don some posts that they didn't agree with. My "odd" behavior? Maybe where you (second to last poster) come from, it's considered odd to stand up for yourself and those that are being attacked, but in my book it's odd not to. Not only odd, but shameful. You back someone into a corner and you better be prepared for them to lash out. You can't run around provoking other people like some sort of third rate bully and expect them to bend over for more.
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Geez, this is screwed up.

First off, the entire conversation, from jump street, is there for you to read. How can you 206 and the other 206, come to the conclusions that either of you were backed into a corner?? Please, re read the thread again, and put your emotions in neutral.

Secondly, I have stated over and over and over again all the good things about you Scorpios; you can't take that away. I was a offended by one of your fellow species for being a snitch, a rat, and a evil doer. Now all the sudden, here comes the heavy artillery!!! Why? Because your emotions are over-riding your ability to rationalize the situation. Come on people get it together. and get your heads out of that dark, warm, and smelly place it is residing!!!

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PS This is how stupid wars start. Look at where India and Pakistan are at for cryin out loud.
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Thanks for agreeing with me 206.102.24.211, Our kind understands our kind most definately. I wasn't backed into a corner, Don't take that scorpio thing too far 205.188.199.164, When we are backed into a corner we will kill,fight till death,with all our fiery fury, not just give you back the same nasty medicine twice as much, that's only a wake up call to warn u that it could get worse.
So just know that we want to be respected and accepted as being the way we are. If you won't, don't try to make us see how we can be so " emotions are over-riding your ability to rationalize the situation." You are right, but it's our pure nature that makes us that way. I recognize that my emotions take over my life sometimes, but we are really in tune with our emotions. That's why maybe we feel something that was not ment to be so harsh on us twice as much as harh and go for revenge bcuz we felt terrible.. We are truly sensitive people. Kinda see where I'm going? so know that if you hurt a scorpio he wil probably feel twice as offended as you really think and watch your back. We go so far too understand others but we never have others come and take the time to understand us. You people not scorpios on this board are COOL for wanting to understand us even though you don't know how to go about it. Yeah u say more bad things about us then good, believe me good sex is not all we are capable of. I'm insulted. That comes with a whole packege not just the fact that we love being sexual and feel comfortable in doing so..Loyalty, patience, creativity, generosity, understanding, devotion, a true friend, respect, accomplishing goals, setting the barrier high, ambition, pride, homor,fairness....To be with a scorpio YOU have to be a strong, proud, fair, spiritual, sexual, adventurous, sensitve( caring/affectionate) and loving person.Not to mention undersanding of us. Once u understand us, and can keep uf ith our intenseness you are in. Glad to makes others see a scorpio's own selfimage. Tis is mostly the good. The bad only comes when it's being brought in our lives.
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Look, how about playing fair...can you see only the shortcomings in others and not yourself?

Why not just except others as they are,and give them a chance before you blow their heads off! I never set out to hurt anyones feelings. That's not to say that I wouldn't go off on you if you deserved it. I am not afraid of the potential fall out. If I am at
that point where I am that frustrated and upset with you, I am not thinking about anything but whats going on at the moment.

I hear you, and I understand your proud, and you demand respect...can you understand it's a two way street?

Can u allow people their thoughts without taking things so personally and going ballistic? That is how people have a conversation. One person talks and the other listens and then you can respond with quiet dignity. What's wrong with that?

You guys(Scorpios)always want to go right for the throat. We have feelings too you know 😢 What makes you think yours are so much more sensitive than anyone elses?

Your over sensitiveness and anger is misdirected, most of the time. I'm not out to do any damage. OK, so let's just leave it at that, I've said all I am going to on the subject, so let's talk about something else.


One more thing, as far as offending
people with the sexual comments,
I can sometimes get a little carried away with the perversion, but it is just to loosen people up, and to make people laugh. I would never,ever think to get serious with you or anyone else about their personal life! I find that distasteful myself! Nobody is going to know what really goes on in my house either--Its all just for fun!!!

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Yeah guys, cool down!!! You're (scorps) are not the only ones with feelings. You seem to get on your high horses about how sensitive you are but none of the other signs do it, we just live our lives humbly... And as for being sensitive, caring etc... Ive known plenty of scorpios that are self obsessed pricks, evil and are out to destroy everybody and Ive tried to see the good in them but after years, and i mean YEARS, of searching, there's none to be found. They seem to often use the "I need understanding" dictum as an excuse to remain selfish, lazy and malicious, its just an excuse...
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Well, morons they are NOT! You can't pin that on them!!

They have to be tip toed around, thats all. Once in awhile, we mis-step and all hell breaks loose, but I have found them to be very forgiving, loving, and will defend the people they love to any lengths...especailly if your family!

Remember where you are Scorp haters, your on there board. If you don't love em, why would you be here? You know darn well they are facinating creatures!
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I suppose I learned a thing or two about how others see us.:! That's cool But I didn't jump on your guy's throat,ever, I was just expressing my opinion.U Know whta that is Right? still I got the "egotistical, weird, morons" but people are people, they can think what ever, I can't change that.Truth is noone likes to admit to their not so good side.Cool talking to all you out there.
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SOOO, what do u want to talk about Guy/Girl? What is your sign 205.188.199.173? Tell me abot it, Call me Julia.
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Julia,

You sound like a decent person, and one that can reason!! Having that character trait will take you far in life...you'll see.

206,

You need to be cool, and get a hold of yourself. Think about where you are and what it's all about! This is an anonymous message board. It isn't going to hurt you to listen, and you might learn something for the future. All this therapy for you is free!! Look at it that way. Free advise for the insane!
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LOL, I *love* that song. In fact I *love* everything the Beatles did! Particularly that song "All You Need Is Love". Let's just talk about the Beatles now, whatd'ya say?

I would like to sincerely apologize to 152 (and all the others I've been at war with)...I would like to call a truce, and say that I was wrong to go off like I did. I WON'T be doing that again. You are right, this is an anonymous message board, and I need to get a grip and instead of getting so touchy I should try to learn something from others' opinions. You guys/gals are very intelligent and articulate, and what you think and feel in fact does have value, and I don't think I was right to take the point you were trying to make as an attack. I will fully own up to the fact that I over-reacted. Perhaps I will get better with age, though I can't blame everything on the fact that I'm 20, it's time to grow up now. I don't have ill wishes or feelings toward any of you that disagree with me, I just get really heated up really easily, which is not necessarily a Scorpio trait, it's a Heather trait, and one that needs to be worked on big time.

Please, know that I'm saying this with total and complete sincerity, and I don't want to argue any more. I'm going to try to spread love and peace on these boards from now on and if I feel myself getting weird about something I will stop and take a breath before unleashing that weirdness on you guys. You have every right to express yourselves fully, even if it's something that I (mis)interpret as mean.

Peace & Love,
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P.S...I forgot to dd something. I always read how Libra learns from Scorpio in the relationship, and that Scorpio is the "teacher", opening up Libra to deeper emotions and more abstract thinking. Well, I am going to be honest and say that in this situation, the Libras are teaching ME. I am the one who is learning something, which is ust to cool down and be more objective. BTW, 205, I wasn't being sarcastic when I thanked you for your insight, I was being serious. I don't know if you already knew that, but if you didn't there it is.

Anyway, I'm so sorry 152, I can sense that you are a good person with a good heart and an honest soul.

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Wow! Your message touched my heart beyond belife. In today's world that amounts to ALOT. We could use more people like you. That is a big jump for you to compromise like that. A huge hug, and a pat on the back for a job well done...Thank you! If we were all the same, then life would be boring and you Scorps keep life interesting. You were made a certain way for a reason. In the bible there was a King named David; he was probably a Scorpio, and he was a fraid of nothing. He would go to battle against anyone who disrepected God, and God loved him very much. This is one of my favorite people in the bible and it reminds me of all the Scorpios I know. As a matter of fact, when the you fly high(like this last message) you go much deeper. Don't hide your light...let it shine, and people will love you even more...Scorpios have the heart and soul to love way beyond the realms. Be yourself; just use those stingers when you really need them!! Yikes! I know when I am getting near the edge and pushing my luck. I won't do that anymore. I'll pull back and we shall both try a little harder from now on, ok? It's not all your fault it is my too.
I humbley accept your apology and I extend one to you and all others I have offended.
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Well Susan, I cannot thank you enough for forgiving me, and let me tell you, your post touched my heart in a big way as well. I am going to read that part of my bible too, it sounds like a good story--and God must have a lot of patience to love a Scorpio...lol : )

You know, I am seeing that this, like many things in life, is a learning lesson, and that the energy that I sometimes let take over in a negative way, just needs to be redirected. Which is probably easier said than done, but I am SO going to work on it, because, man, I had no idea how much turmoil it is possible to create (both in myself and others) when that negative energy is turned loose! Not a good thing, and upon taking a step back and reading your posts and the others who were telling me to cool down, something clicked there. You did a good thing as did the others by turning my own stuff back around on me, because I don't know if I would have seen it the way I do now if you hadn't.

Whew, this free therapy thing sure does help!! lol : )

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Right on! I assume this is the mean Scorpio boss that you have, Sloane? Think of it this way, this is one of my favorite lyrics ever and I can't for the life of me remember the band but the song is "Closing Time" and the lyric goes "...closing time; every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end...". Anyway, I like that phrase so much I hung it up in my bedroom.

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i-sun,

I know, this is definitely the most crazy thread I've ever been a part of!--but the "free therapy" thing is actually a really cool opportunity. I think we sometimes learn and grow a whole lot more from real people rather than psychologists or psychiatrists...🙂
I've definitely seen that other people can have just as strong opinions as I have, and it doesn't mean they hate me, they just disagree. What a learning experience! (lol)

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P.S. (i really need to stop it with the p.s.'s...)

i-sun, I'm wondering if male Scorpios can get just as venomous as female scorps? Can you believe in my whole life I've only known like 2 male Scorpios?? And I couldn't read them if I tried. They seemed very nice and fun-loving, though I suppose at first glance we all probably seem that way. It's weird though, I've had very little experience with male scorps. Your thoughts?

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