sad capricorn needing advice on scorpion

during spliting up with my ex i met a scorpion who became my pillar - unbelieveably (with me being a capricorn) i found i could tell him anything and toldly opened up - during these talks things started getting intense until we both realised that although havent touched each other deep down we both wanted to rip each others clothes off! We started on a relationship and found it hard to leave each others arms (we both said this) due to emotional pressure from my ex (who didnt want us to split) I started to fall apart and finished and started this relationship with scorpion several times - now several months later I realise I miss him and want to be with him - but I have just been told that he was going with a girl when I met him and that she dumped him when she found out about me (this is news to me) and that when we stopped having contact he tried to get back with her - am i making a big mistake trying to contact him - i thought scorpions were deep emotional and trusting people - was that intense feeling we shared something you get with all scorpions and does it mean anything - can someone please help me understand

First of all when you mess with a scoprion you really better know what you are doing, they are very loyal they are deep and emotional people. But when you had him you should have kept him because once they are done with someone they are done, they try not to look back to much on things and if you hurt them it can get real ugly. I think you should approach him and see where his head is and if he is not in Love with anyone and he is not seeing anyone give it a try, but if he is in a relationship you might as will kiss him goodbye because the are very loyal and caring he will not hurt your feelings but he will tell you he is seeing someone eles.

Ta for the reply - I dont know if it makes me feel better though. I feel you are right that now he has let go he will not return. I just wish there was a way to change his mind.

I am a capricorn married to a scorpio. When we first started dating we had alot of problems like my friends hated him, his friends hated me- we were young just going off to college and after about a month we just kinda went our separate ways. 5 years and a divorce later- (Mine) we started going out again. However, our relationship started moving way too fast for me. He talked about marriage, his family started buying my daughter gifts at Christmas after 2 months of dating. I guess I kinda freaked. I broke up with him. A month after that I heard he had gone out with someone and the jealousy I felt-(Had never felt it like that before) came all the way from my toes. I had to get him back - called him up and after some serious kissing up we got back together. We've been together for 8 years now. I'm not saying that all Scorpion's are like that. But- He told me that he loved me a month after we were dating the first time and had loved me ever since. I just think that I was extremely lucky that I didn't lose him over my own stupidity. If the guy ever said that he loved you - I'd give it a try. The worst that could happen is that you find out what you already fear the most. Your living with that already. If he doesn't want to try again at least you know and you can move on. Hope this helps, Thea

Thea
Thanks it does help. You are right I'm already living with the worst conclusion (him not being in my life). I am going to contact him and see if there is a chance and then I will know once and for all.

Oh this guy really sounds like a catch, first of all he was cheating on his original girlfriend with you. Niether her nor you knew it at first. So good for her she dumps him...but he goes right ~back~ to her when things don't work out well with you.
DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!More fish in the sea.

me too is a cap.. and I was involved with a scop for 2 years.. what a roller coaster it was. I am not over him yet.
He would never lie to me. he just wouldnt give me the whole story. It was very very frustrating and it still is.
So I hear ya what your saying

Just try to talk to him before you do anything drastic. It could be that he felt hurt and he maybe wanted to get back at you, evern if it wasn't totally your fault. Don't try to go out with other people just to get back at him, beause that will only make things work. If he doesn't want to get back together with you after you talk to him, then try to move on. I know that it will be hard, since it always is hard to loose somebody that you love, but there is plenty of other great guys out there and are ready for a great woman like you. Good Luck!
-Superwoman