ilovefoood
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Salvaging relationship with Scorpio man
This sounds like something you need to address with him and not an internet forum. You'd have to get feedback from him to see where he stands.
If you think he can't offer what you want after giving him what he wants, then I'd say move along.
If you think he can't offer what you want after giving him what he wants, then I'd say move along.
Well, you said that there was an indiscretion on his part, so that right there should've given you pause to question. Depending on the severity of what he did, you probably had a right to be inquisitive. But after it was all over, I'm guessing you decided that it was ok to trust him again, so why be inquisitive again? Where you nagging him for three straight years of "if he was cheating"? That can get pretty old, pretty quickly with a Scorpio guy and usually we don't put up with it! What I don't understand was that if he cheated on you and you mistrusted him, why go into a serious relationship with him? You're already starting the relationship on a bad note by doing that.
I guess it depends on if he's willing to trust that you are going to nag him to death about cheating for the rest of his life. Do you trust him NOW? Or do you just want him back because he completes your life? If you really want another shot with him, you need to start on the right foot with your relationship with him first. No mistrust, the past is COMPLETELY forgiven and give yourselves a new, fresh start. But bringing his walls down, you put his walls up, and only you get can him to trust you again. And yes, put down your aggression. It only hurts the two of you, not helps.
I guess it depends on if he's willing to trust that you are going to nag him to death about cheating for the rest of his life. Do you trust him NOW? Or do you just want him back because he completes your life? If you really want another shot with him, you need to start on the right foot with your relationship with him first. No mistrust, the past is COMPLETELY forgiven and give yourselves a new, fresh start. But bringing his walls down, you put his walls up, and only you get can him to trust you again. And yes, put down your aggression. It only hurts the two of you, not helps.
Posted by SilverScorpio
Well, you said that there was an indiscretion on his part, so that right there should've given you pause to question. Depending on the severity of what he did, you probably had a right to be inquisitive. But after it was all over, I'm guessing you decided that it was ok to trust him again, so why be inquisitive again? Where you nagging him for three straight years of "if he was cheating"? That can get pretty old, pretty quickly with a Scorpio guy and usually we don't put up with it! What I don't understand was that if he cheated on you and you mistrusted him, why go into a serious relationship with him? You're already starting the relationship on a bad note by doing that.
I guess it depends on if he's willing to trust that you are going to nag him to death about cheating for the rest of his life. Do you trust him NOW? Or do you just want him back because he completes your life? If you really want another shot with him, you need to start on the right foot with your relationship with him first. No mistrust, the past is COMPLETELY forgiven and give yourselves a new, fresh start. But bringing his walls down, you put his walls up, and only you get can him to trust you again. And yes, put down your aggression. It only hurts the two of you, not helps.
Thank you for your response. It was too late, he ended things last night. There was so much resentment that he lost that passionate loving feeling for me. I know it is for the best and I know how he feels. I've felt it for a long time too but I was never able to face it and leave myself. I'm was and still am so attached. Thank you again, for your help.
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