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Scorp from the past
That Gemini voodoo no?
Posted by EllycakesThis.
Don't melt. Make him earn your time and your devotion. He had it the first time around and dropped it with little consideration towards your feelings. Make him accountable.
People should get a clean slate the first time around. But if they give it away or fuck it up, they need to know they have to earn back what was once freely given to them. Otherwise they tend to take it for granted over and over.
Posted by EllycakesHow do I go about doing this? Wait a few days in between replies? Should I ask to reschedule next time he wants to see me? Should I confront him and talk about what happened or just leave it alone for now?
Don't melt. Make him earn your time and your devotion. He had it the first time around and dropped it with little consideration towards your feelings. Make him accountable.
People should get a clean slate the first time around. But if they give it away or fuck it up, they need to know they have to earn back what was once freely given to them. Otherwise they tend to take it for granted over and over.
I see what you ladies are saying. I got so excited about being able to see him again. ;___; I thought it wouldn't really matter about going to his place since we're just being friendly so far. He was kinda persistent so I figured why not.
Posted by GennieOh, I wish! I haven't a clue what his motives are.
That Gemini voodoo no?
OMG. Can't believe it's been 4 months since all this happened...
Update: He isn't pursuing me romantically and I'm not over him. We've gotten into a lot of drama over things, like me finding out what he was up to when he went out of town before we stopped talking. I tend to bring up our problems on social media (it's hard for me to communicate over the phone and in person) and every time he pops up after disappearing and getting mad at me, he acts like nothing's happened.
The last thing he told me was "I'm not avoiding you. I just don't see the point when our 'discussions' never go anywhere" in response to me asking if we could meet and talk it out face to face. I messaged him after that and asked him if that meant he'd rather we stop talking all together than try to resolve the issue but ended up deleting the reply and blocking him after I got no response. His response to me confronting him about the out of town girl and accusing him off tossing me to the side after he had sex with her was "Okay so I ain't shit. And if this is true, you've been knowing this. If you think I'm not worth it because of social media, then I suggest you cut me off. Seriously for your own good, why don't you just say f**k you and block me? I don't waste my time with people who aren't worth it. It's really f***ing simple, because your facts are not accurate and this is a very drawn out thing. Make a decision." I called him out for turning the situation around on me and said what I had to say but yeah, no response.
Later somehow we ended up talking normally as if it never happened even though nothing got resolved. I've seen him this week but he's yet to tell me how my facts aren't accurate.. which is probably my fault because I get anxious and I'm not the best communicator. I don't know to bring these things up when I haven't seen him in a while and he pops up acting up all sweet and stuff. Another thing, I stupidly agreed to have sex with him... I realize that was the worst idea. But thank God we haven't really had the chance to do anything other than kiss. He's busy all the time I guess so I haven't seen him that much and for those times, he either took me to get some food really quick or dropped me off somewhere.
I think I just need to have a long conversation with him about all of history and try to let him go for good... even though it's hard to even think about cutting him off completely. I know I'm going to feel worse in the end if I'm just holding on to something that was never real in the first place. 😐
Update: He isn't pursuing me romantically and I'm not over him. We've gotten into a lot of drama over things, like me finding out what he was up to when he went out of town before we stopped talking. I tend to bring up our problems on social media (it's hard for me to communicate over the phone and in person) and every time he pops up after disappearing and getting mad at me, he acts like nothing's happened.
The last thing he told me was "I'm not avoiding you. I just don't see the point when our 'discussions' never go anywhere" in response to me asking if we could meet and talk it out face to face. I messaged him after that and asked him if that meant he'd rather we stop talking all together than try to resolve the issue but ended up deleting the reply and blocking him after I got no response. His response to me confronting him about the out of town girl and accusing him off tossing me to the side after he had sex with her was "Okay so I ain't shit. And if this is true, you've been knowing this. If you think I'm not worth it because of social media, then I suggest you cut me off. Seriously for your own good, why don't you just say f**k you and block me? I don't waste my time with people who aren't worth it. It's really f***ing simple, because your facts are not accurate and this is a very drawn out thing. Make a decision." I called him out for turning the situation around on me and said what I had to say but yeah, no response.
Later somehow we ended up talking normally as if it never happened even though nothing got resolved. I've seen him this week but he's yet to tell me how my facts aren't accurate.. which is probably my fault because I get anxious and I'm not the best communicator. I don't know to bring these things up when I haven't seen him in a while and he pops up acting up all sweet and stuff. Another thing, I stupidly agreed to have sex with him... I realize that was the worst idea. But thank God we haven't really had the chance to do anything other than kiss. He's busy all the time I guess so I haven't seen him that much and for those times, he either took me to get some food really quick or dropped me off somewhere.
I think I just need to have a long conversation with him about all of history and try to let him go for good... even though it's hard to even think about cutting him off completely. I know I'm going to feel worse in the end if I'm just holding on to something that was never real in the first place. 😐
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