Scorp guy friend tells me he has dreams about me

Lol I posted previously about this friend of mine; the confusing six year friendship. He's a Scorp sun, Cap moon and Pisces rising. So he's indeed very guarded lol but at the same time he's wlways dropped me little hints about his interest -- never direct, though. He's never stopped talking to me and always finds a way to get in contact with me, and excuse. Tells me he has dreams about me, and that he has to see pics of me (not inappropriate ones) just of me. And he comes to me for understanding and to discuss his current problems a lot.
But he's never revealed any feelings for me, just an "I miss you" which he'll quickly follow up with a "my friend". Said he wants to get away with me for a weekend soon recently as well.
He has an extreme tendency to keep things light, and I feel like it's a defense.
I've confused him in the past while he confused me so I see why he's guarded. I'm just curious to see if any Scorps could understand this behavior.

*always
*any excuse

I have a friend who keeps telling me the same, a male friend. Well I think this is pretty common between friends. There could be some attraction there or could just be friendly. Has he told you what kind of dreams he has?

I probably forgot to mention that we've been intimate in the past lol we've always been physically, mentally and spiritually attracted to each other, I don't think that's going away -- we have very similar energy. The intimacy stopped when I wasn't emotionally ready at one point and was getting over my horrible Cancer ex. So he's hinted at being intimate again but I think he learned that we won't be right now. At least not until I know that there's something concrete that I can trust.

Posted by Cappedoff
I have a friend who keeps telling me the same, a male friend. Well I think this is pretty common between friends. There could be some attraction there or could just be friendly. Has he told you what kind of dreams he has?

Your friend tol you he has dreams about you or randomly says that he misses you and tries to keep in contact?
He'll just tell me that I appear in them; accept for the last. He actually told me I came to him dressed in all white and I told him how much better I look in all black lol you would think that would be random but earlier that day we'd been discussing our appreciation for black clothing haha so idk what that means.

Posted by Impulsv
That happens ( dreams) with Connection like these . Tell him u like him but want to take it slow. It takes time for u to feel trust.

Scorpios dream about people they feel connected to, you mean? I'm scared to tell him. And with a double water placement, don't you think he'd be able to sense it in some way? Water signs read peiole like no other. He's has a tendency to get caught up in being an unfulfilled swinger, with his random plethora of girls. But something is keeping him glued to me. I'm just scared of trusting him sometimes.

Yeah I try not to take it too personally because he doesn't seem to care about all those girls. When he and I were intimate, it was just us. And I knew that. Just still a bit confusing. I'll bring it up to him, I just wanna be in person when I do so. To make my position in that clear if it were to go anywhere.
Makes sense; and he connected that dream with wanting to see a picture with me in all black lol he always wants to see photos of me. It's like an obsession. He told me I take "artistic, hot photos" lol
Oh and by the end of our text convo last night he told me to "seriously hit me up whenever!!" I thought you guys preferred to go after people, not the other way around?

Posted by Impulsv
If we sense it we doubt specially if this is a new experience. Trusting ones gut is a Scorpio lesson. So don't assume he trusts his interpretation.

He did say outright that he knew I had a thing for him, but that was four years ago. He's never said he knows I like him now. Hmm..

You guys have chemistry but he asked you on a weekend getaway not a date meaning he doesn't see you as someone to commitment he is on the fence about you and honestly he just wants to bang you again. When a man is serious about you there won't be any confusion men are logical its women that are complicated so any uncertainty is just not into you on a relationship level so yeah he wants to sex he is just not flat out saying it trying to see where your head at.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
You guys have chemistry but he asked you on a weekend getaway not a date meaning he doesn't see you as someone to commitment he is on the fence about you and honestly he just wants to bang you again. When a man is serious about you there won't be any confusion men are logical its women that are complicated so any uncertainty is just not into you on a relationship level so yeah he wants to sex he is just not flat out saying it trying to see where your head at.

Yes our chemistry is off the charts; I feel like we connect on all levels. We get each other. I'm sure it's a sex thing and he's on the fence still -- we never give away too much to each other in regards to how we feel about each other.
You don't think it's possible for him to care at all?