Scorp Poll

Taking a scorp poll here...

If you initiated contact with someone and they didn't respond back to you. In general, would you:

A. stop contacting them completely OR
B. feel the need to contact them more

In other words, does someone giving you the "silent treatment" make you more or less want to be in their lives? This is generally speaking of course...
Thanks in advance!

-RFT

It all depends on who the person is that is giving me the silent treatment and how important are they in my life.

Posted by ariessun
uh oh...rft...what's going on girly? spill it....i smell a scorpy afoot in your life. did one reappear after a long absence—

LOL...yes...lord. For my birthday...damn him!

Posted by ramfishtwins
Taking a scorp poll here...

If you initiated contact with someone and they didn't respond back to you. In general, would you:

A. stop contacting them completely OR
B. feel the need to contact them more

In other words, does someone giving you the "silent treatment" make you more or less want to be in their lives? This is generally speaking of course...
Thanks in advance!

-RFT

I would move on , don't waste my time chasing any girl. If she doesn't show an intrest I forget about her. Why waste my time? when there are other girls to be had. Also I guess im not your typical strung up by my feet stalker scorpio

A. stop contacting

A is my answer...

Posted by ramfishtwins
Taking a scorp poll here...

If you initiated contact with someone and they didn't respond back to you. In general, would you:

A. stop contacting them completely OR
B. feel the need to contact them more

In other words, does someone giving you the "silent treatment" make you more or less want to be in their lives? This is generally speaking of course...
Thanks in advance!

-RFT

this really would depend on the subject matter i don't think you gave a profusion of info so we could pick either A' or B' hmmmm,... looking at what other people wrote on this topic i'll go on that. if i was into someone and they didn't respond back to me then i'll try to understand why and do some investigating because at the end there's always a reason for a person actions and it's never "you won't understand" then again it would be fun to stick around and toy with the person i'm into 🙂 but if that person blanks me all the time then i'll move on because at the end you will be the one looking like the fool.

hmmm the famous "silent treatment" never something good to give to anybody. firstly what's the point! it's basically someone handing you a pen with no ink and a book with notthing written inside, but only a front cover saying Why? usually a person would give the silent treatment when they get into an argument or something along those lines and disappears for sometime before coming back as if nothing has ever happened. the silent treatment whoever gives it is just a person filled up with their own ego.


-Contact 1

hmm because this is DXPnet i'll just add just like the unevolved scorpio everyone should become the phoenix or eagle these days it's alot of fun ^^

I am in a situation like that now. With a Leo. We had a great relationship a few years ago. Then he lost 2 people within six months that meant alot to him. I gave him space, left him alone to grieve and we drifted apart. Fast forward a couple of years and he got a virus on his computer, the kind that send emails to everyone in your address book and I had two emails from him. I emailed him back and told him I didn't understand the reason for the emails and he emailed me back and explained the virus saga(which made sense considering the type of emails they were)and also wrote 'let's keep in touch'. So...at that point I was willing to do just that and perhaps rekindle what we once had. I emailed him back and told him that we should keep in touch and told him we would talk soon.

Four months pass, and at this point I am thinking 'what the h $ ll'....and I decided then that if I heard from him again, I would not respond. I am sick of his crap. So last week I did hear from him again..his opening line was 'sorry for the delay, I have been busy with friends and bands'. My immediate thought was good excuse, but how long does it take to sit down and write an email? Nope, this chick is sticking with her convictions...I haven't got time for bull like this!!!

A, most likely


However, if it were someone I loved dearly, like one of my good friends, I would try a few times. And if they indicated to me they wanted nothing to do with me I'd leave them alone, and just quietly die on the inside.

it is best never to initiate contact. let them be the first to take the risk. it's amusing entertainment.

Thanks all...
I was NOT the one who intiated contact. He contacted me after a year of complete silence. I thought it was odd and I wasn't sure how to respond. I didn't want to be rude and not respond back, but I didn't want to let him wiggle his way back into my life either by satisfying him with a response.