Scorpio Attention - Is it Genuine

Hi Scorpions, Wish you a Very Happy Valentines Day.

I have a question, I am a Scorpio & I met this guy who is a Scorpio too on a dating website. I have been communicating with this guy on & off since last 1 month now. First we chatted, then spoke on phone for a couple of times & then we met.

Of all the guys I have met till date, this guy certainly left an impact, he just swept me off my feet. We had a very romantic first date and he tried to get close to me (tried kissing my hands, then me, ofcourse I didnt allow him to kiss me). I have never felt such a strong feeling of passion before with anyone.

Our 2nd and 3rd dates were equally good. Infact we never get bored of each other and the dates really go so long that we lose count of time.

I met him three times in teh last 2 weeks, infact 2 times last weekend. I am looking for a long term relationship. This guy does say that he is looking for a long term relationship as well but I am not sure if he is saying the truth. How do I know he is genuine ?

1. I have met guys in the past who have met him and told me all that want to hear and then it turns out that they are just trying to have a nice time, when they dont get it, they just dissappear. -- This guy believes in taking it slow and not going to the end so far. He likes to keep the mystery going in the relationship. How do I find out if he is seriously interested in me ? Or is this just another way of getting someone in bed ? Some take 2 dates, some may take 6 days. How do I figure that out ?

2. The way our first couple of dates went made me thinking htat he is genuinely interested in me. So is it too early for a guy to ask a girl out for Valentine's day ? He didn't even wish me, all I received was a same to you after I sent him a text msg.

I am getting attached to this guy. He actually drove me past his house last weekend and told me this is where he lives. He didn't show me his house but just the area & his university he studied in. So I don;t want to get attached to someone who is just trying to have fun. Can you guys help me or give me your views on it.

Well he already told you he wants something serious so if I were you I would keep dating him to see if you two are compatible. But whatever you do, don't have sex with him until you're in an exclusive relationship. So if you see things headed that way tell him you don't get intimate with anyone unless you're exclusive.

Hey,
Thank you for telling me this. Frankly speaking, I am new to dating the way it is done here & I am still learning it. So I definately do not know the rules that go with it. Well initially he didnt try much but now I stop him from going further since I too am not very comfortable till I am sure the guy is serious about me and loves me or atleast likes me to an extent. So I still have to figure out if he is interested to be with me in the long run or is it just for ayear or so. I guess I have to wait for a lot of time till I figure it out.

I was restless yesterday, coz I thought even with our 3 dates we had connected very well. But i thought may be its still too early for him to meet me on Valentine's Day. But YAYYYYY 😄 he did ask me out late last night around 9 pm and we met around 9.30 and were talking till 3 am in the morning. I know you will be amazed but I have to share this, This was truely my first amazing Valentine's day I celebrated. I did have a bf while i was in my early 20's but he never really valued it. Infact he never even gave me a rose on that day or any other day. I was with him for like 5 years and he was always out of the country on work purpose. So this was practically my first. Although he made it pretty indirect. I would have loved to get some flowers from him. But nevermind, I am happy that he atleast asked me out. so Yayyyyyyyy 😄

So it was fun & I do see him opening up to me now. But he is not willing to give his horoscope details like date of birth, place & time. I really pushed him last time to give me his date of birth & place, so i m not sure if he was honest about it. So i am seriously scared / worried about the way he is so secretive about it. Does he have something in his charts that he does not want to reveal — I see something fishy here. I have tried a lot of stuff to get it out but not being successful. He is a Scorpio & I am a Scorpio too so I am just worried that while things are good they will be good. But what happens when things go bad, do they still stick to each other or do they part ?

People keep telling me Scorpio / Scorpio combination is bad. Is that true —/

Honestly with anyone you date. You have to trust them until you have an actual reason not to. Over thinking things makes things worse

I agree, but 80 % of the guys I have met till date just wanted to have a nice time. The only thing is they didn't ahve too much patience when I didnt allow them to do anything and they drifted off in 1 or 2 meetings or I dissapeared. But with him its kinda different. I do want to trust him but I am scared & restless. But I am enjoying every bit of it.