Scorpio Breaks My Heart

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warmtaurus
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17 Years

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I am a Taurus female and my scorpio friend/best friend had to suddenly move to start another job. We shared everything for 4 years and at times we have been more than friends. We shared resources, families, the whole nine.(As close as two people can be). She never was comfortable with the "more than friends" part so that was back and forth but she has left me in a HUGE financial bind. I tried to talk to her about it before she left but she blew me off and got defensive. My need for some kind of resolution came out all wrong. I sincerely apologized even though I felt like she should have been more understanding of the situation she put me in. Well now she will not return my calls or answer my e-mails. Its like this chapter of her life is over and she is just walking away. I have given my all to save the friendship just to meet with dead silence after 4 years and I am heartbroken. Is there no way to communicate with her at this point? If not how do I begin to move on ? She has a right to start a new life and move on but why could she not talk to me after all this time together.
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hothouselilies
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YOU CAN GET OUT OF IT. IF IT ALL FALLS APART IT STILL WONT KILL YOU. I KNOW THOSE ARE MERE WORDS BUT A YEAR FROM NOW YOU WILL UNDERSTAND.
YOU SHOULD BE GLAD SHE IS GONE!
SHE DIDNT CARE ABOUT YOU. I KNOW IT HURTS BUT YOU SHOULD SEE IT AS A BLESSING. CAN YOU
TALK ABOUT THE MESS YOU ARE IN MORE SPECIFICALLY. MAYBE SOMEONE OUT HERE CAN REALLY
GIVE YOU SOME GOOD ADVICE ON HOW TO HELP YOU OUT.
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warmtaurus
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17 Years

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OMG hothouselilies thank you for the encouragement !. I would give the specifics but I am embarrassed at how totally head over heels I was with her. She just had this way of making me feel the best I have ever felt in life and then pushing me off the side of a cliff sometimes all in the same day. I admit my self-esteem was never where it should have been and I have a lot of work to do. But this combination of financial disaster and being emotionally cut-off is devastating. How do I start to move on ?
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fragm3nt3d_mind
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17 Years

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AS....geeeeeeeeeeeeee this thread wouldnt be the same without your wise comments....

and as for you "poster" well...from all i have read around here...scorps can be the biggest dicks that you will ever come across in your life....so either she is taking some time and then she will contact you and hopefully everything will be fixed or you will never hear from her again.,...
i know its hard but try not to stress about it...it seems they feel when you think too much about them and then they just turture you more!!!