Scorpio falling hard for Virgo!

Virgo love came from out of no where. I wasn't ready for it. It's crazy this intellectual/emotional kind of deepness going on and we haven't so much as hugged each other. Now I'm no stranger to love or relationships, but this one caught me off guard. What's more is the feeling is mutual. Our communication is nonverbal a lot of the time. Please help! What to do—

how about just fall in love?

Hi ScorpioSweetie,

It's more complicated as you might have guessed. My virgo is married. You know how scorpio's are about sharing. Normally I would just let something like this ride and be flattered by the interest, but it's as if we have the potential to complete each other. Does that sound silly? We seem to have what the other needs. This might really sound crazy, but it feels as if we found our other half. It's so wierd, but the instant I felt the connection come over me I ran, just to collect my thoughts. Very few lovers/friends in my life have had that affect on me. What keeps me at bay is that I know she has a deep loyalty to her mate and it would go against her nature to leave what they have built together. I guess I must suffer...

Hi ScorpioSweetie,

It's more complicated as you might have guessed. My virgo is married. You know how scorpio's are about sharing. Normally I would just let something like this ride and be flattered by the interest, but it's as if we have the potential to complete each other. Does that sound silly? We seem to have what the other needs. This might really sound crazy, but it feels as if we found our other half. It's so wierd, but the instant I felt the connection come over me I ran, just to collect my thoughts. Very few lovers/friends in my life have had that affect on me. What keeps me at bay is that I know she has a deep loyalty to her mate and it would go against her nature to leave what they have built together. I guess I must suffer...

Figuratively speaking. But, is virgo likely to have affairs? I am a scorpio with virgo rising, but I have no history whatsoever with a friend, relative or lover virgo.

Very sobering response. If this went any further she would have to initiate it, and I don't think she would allow herself to go out on that limb. So maybe I should chalk this one up as my first experience with a virgo.

Your right. You have appealed to my higher functioning self - my moral guide. This part of me usually wins. It helps to know that virgo's don't initiate, because if she did, I'd give in. But, I have nothing to worry about now. Thanks a bunch.

Hello All,

Virgo came to tell everyone in our group goodbye. I saw her at a distance and walked slowly toward her with intense eye contact. As I walked toward her she became restless and figity moving about mumbling about something to keep from focusing on me. I stood next to her and she gave me a look that told me everything I needed to know and then she hugged me. It felt as if she nestled into me and it was the most gentle and comforting embrace. We were around others and I'm sure they took note of our connection and the fact that she began to cry as she walked away from me. So you see this connection is not just some arrangment of debauchery. That's what's so complicated for this scorpio, I can't put this into a neat little compartment and move on. Not yet...

friendly reminder to help you stick to your higher self: what goes around, comes around....don't put something out there that you're not prepared to receive back

As a V-Female I must say that we DO initiate! How we got the no-initiate reputation I do not know, but this V-Female has no problems with it. It could be a first kiss on a first date, a first move wanting a first date or just wanting affection in a current relationship.

She needs to make a decision on whether or not she wants to be married though. That's messed up.

Hey,

Thanks for some virgo feedback. Now for the update on the situation. The depth of this attraction might be because even though I'm a scorpio, my moon is in taurus and her (virgo) moon is in virgo. When I read up on this I was blown away. This is a an extremely favorable compatibility. Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to fool myself here, nor am I intellectualizing this thing, I'm just being my true scorpio self trying to find out the truth behind it! I knew there had to be a logical explanation. Virgo your right the marriage thing sucks, but if she does initiate and contact me I need to highlight and encourage her marriage otherwise things could go very wrong. At least now I know what else I need to look for in a partner.

GET OUT NOW!!!

The Virgo is great to hang around but IMPOSSIBLE to live with! Very,VERY bad at being attentive to YOUR needs (they'll pick things that THEY think means something, like taking out the garbage when you've asked for a morning kiss)......and will nitpick you to death while being generally cold and aloof.