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Virgo-Scorpio...who's the dominating one?
Who Dominates in Virgo and Scorpio Relationships
In Virgo and Scorpio relationships, dominance varies based on individual personalities. Both signs are passionate and can be assertive, but a balanced relationship often depends on mutual understanding rather than control. Neither sign inherently dominates the other, and successful partnerships typically involve cooperation and respect.
I think what happens is virgo tend to give in LOL well with me and the virgo that I see our bigest issue is him wanting me to submit and I won't it's been almost 3 years and I still won't submit, he just deals with it, he mentions is alot but no change on my part.
I find it hard to say equally matched,
Hmmmm, scorpio 😉
I tend to agree, certainly in our case. I am the more 'flexible' and tend to give in if it's a small issue. On big issues however, when I do not, then it's WW3 🙂 I just love this constant daily 'war' of passions, this is surely a very important ingredient in long-lasting relationships!
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I wonder if that's the reason why I have 3 very close virgos in my life, that I love deeply and actually give me what ever I wont when I am with them.
The only reason why I am not with either one of them is because one pressures me to submit and the other 2 are unhappily married and wishes they could be with me.
I know I am given myself a lot of credit but shit they told me. One told me he made mistake, and the other told me that if his wife puts him out again he was coming to my house to stay.
just love this constant daily 'war' of passions - LMAO...yes its all fun and games!
Scorpionlady speaking for myself, I am ALWAYS drawn to Scorpio women. I believe it's their strength and wit that attracts me, and also the 'fight' to win them. Other sings that submit too early or too easily do not excite me...I like to fight for it, and then it's sooooo much sweeter! My heart belongs to the woman who can out-wit or out-debate me...and that's so hard to find 🙂
I like trasformation 🙂 Us I guess you are Scorpio? Which signs do you think are the most compatible with Scorpio?
There are times when the earth is definitely flooded over, but then eventually absorbs some of the water and releases the rest up into the astmosphere to become rain over the earth again. The earth AND the water both maintain, but they know how to mingle and become one, and they know how to remain individual elements. I beleive the very submissiveness of a virgo IS the dominance. To know when to be submissive is key to steering the relationship to higher understanding and companionship.
One of my Virgo friend the on that travels a lot told me that he keeps letting me back in his life every 4 months is because he has the highest respect for me. The other virgo accuses me of putting spell on him that is why he can't leave the friendship alone, I love them both but I am so scared to be with the one that wants me to submit. Not afriad that I won't be happy but I think I am more afriad that he won't live up to all the promises he made me...
Scorplady: When you say "submit" in what context is that? Surely he doesn't want you to loose your special magnetism or your mystical twinkle in your eye? What does he want you to submit to? Being one with him only?
pwhiton -
yea and letting him rule my life, he keep telling me how I should do this and that, and I get a really strange feeling that if I submit I will become a prisoner in my own home. I can't be ruled like that....He has been married 2 times and said that the women did not have any common sense, but he see so much potential in me...This is only because I stand up to him and he get so upset with me when I won't shut up...LOL He tells me I talk to much.
scorplady you are right to go with your gut feelings...I don't know how many times I pushed my gut aside and then wanted to kick my own butt. We aren't meant to be ruled. We're meant to be helpmates to each other and that old thinking can only mean trouble in the long run if he plans to dominate you. I'm feeling you may have a Narcassist in your midst. Careful precious lady they come in all signs. You might want to look up Narcissistic Personalty Disorder on the website called Suite101.com. See if he matches up. Just a hunch. LOL: I have to go for the day but take care.🙂
Right pwhiton, but I don't think he is narcassist. I do know that he think he is the shit, because he told me when I ask.
If he would just do what he say then I will probably give it a second thought. You know he tells me that when he goes out of town he is going to buy me clothes, shoes, jewerly, etc., and it's all a lie but when I come to his house he has nitties for me to wear but he won't let me take them home....lol...and I always ask him is this new? who had it? on stuff like that he ignores me. I just don't bite my tongue with him.
You should fear the scorpios that are late october to early november...
Why?
I going to tell you how it really is between Virgos and Scorpios.
Virgos 'submit' to Scorpios as a ploy. The Virgos then continue to play this submissive role while wrapping the Scorpio around their finger. Scorpios believe they dominate, but it is the Virgos who are in control.
Power games in relationship will never work in my opinion. One party feels sad while the other one is arrogant. It sucks that so much people value control over the person they love because of their own insecurities, it's like saying you should be locked in a cage because I'm ashamed of ect... But I guess it depends who's the male I can see myself a virgo male as the dominate one in the relationship with a scorp girl but as for a scorpio male with a virgo girls. From what I understand about some virgo girls is that they're kinda skuts so a respectable scorpio male wouldn't commit to that but as for the rest of the respectable virgo girls umm sure scorpio males wud dominate them.
Posted by Scorpionlady
I think what happens is virgo tend to give in LOL well with me and the virgo that I see our biggest issue is him wanting me to submit and I won't it's been almost 3 years and I still won't submit, he just deals with it, he mentions is alot but no change on my part.I find it hard to say equally matched,
I have to agree based on my experience with 2 Virgos. Wait how old is this thread ? Hmph.
Scorpio! And Virgos little punk asses love it..lol
Scorpy.
oh my word....i remember this too!!!
i get on great with virgos of both gender but then i have virgo rising.
i think in terms of stubborness, virgo has the edge but i agree that in general, dominance shouldn't be an issue in a healthy relationship.
Posted by Virgo101
You should fear the scorpios that are late october to early november...Why?
I going to tell you how it really is between Virgos and Scorpios.
Virgos 'submit' to Scorpios as a ploy. The Virgos then continue to play this submissive role while wrapping the Scorpio around their finger. Scorpios believe they dominate, but it is the Virgos who are in control.
I agree with this. Scorpio males seem to start off the dominant one, but the tables turn along the way. This seems to be with virgo women in any relationship. That submissive-ness does indeed seem to be a ploy. They are go with the flow, whatever it is you want to do, I'll do it/go with you types, all while figuring you out, your likes/dislikes etc. Giving you the freedom to be yourself, and let your hair down, all while observing you. Before the guy knows it, he's clinging and she knows him in and out.
My sister knows exactly what to do to piss her Scorpio ex off. He can stir up emotions too, you just want to make sure you're standing 100ft away from him after. No telling what might strike once he goes to various evil depths with it. Thing is though, if she wanted him back she could have him.
🙂 I found out recently I am both Virgo and Scorpio dominant in planets (percentage-wise) but I'm actually a submissive, being a virgo sun. There's this scorpio guy who keeps on trying to talk to me ...or maybe 2 of them and yes I would agree that scorpios are the more aggressively dominant ones.
If you look at the % of leaders in the world based on astrology , Scorpio ranks 1. Virgos are down the bottom somewhere because they are the sign of service. They do not like the limelight unless you have a Capricorn/Aries/Leo/Saggitarius/Scorpio dominating streak
How do you all find these 10 year old threads...seriously
Posted by happyface1
How do you all find these 10 year old threads...seriously
much time on their hands? LOL
You should fear the scorpios that are late october to early november...
Why?
I going to tell you how it really is between Virgos and Scorpios.
Virgos 'submit' to Scorpios as a ploy. The Virgos then continue to play this submissive role while wrapping the Scorpio around their finger. Scorpios believe they dominate, but it is the Virgos who are in control.
I agree with this. Scorpio males seem to start off the dominant one, but the tables turn along the way. This seems to be with virgo women in any relationship. That submissive-ness does indeed seem to be a ploy. They are go with the flow, whatever it is you want to do, I'll do it/go with you types, all while figuring you out, your likes/dislikes etc. Giving you the freedom to be yourself, and let your hair down, all while observing you. Before the guy knows it, he's clinging and she knows him in and out.
My sister knows exactly what to do to piss her Scorpio ex off. He can stir up emotions too, you just want to make sure you're standing 100ft away from him after. No telling what might strike once he goes to various evil depths with it. Thing is though, if she wanted him back she could have him.
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Does that mean she drives him crazy or is he crazy enough for her? Can you please describe why is he, her "ex" too?.
You should fear the scorpios that are late october to early november...
Why?
I going to tell you how it really is between Virgos and Scorpios.
Virgos 'submit' to Scorpios as a ploy. The Virgos then continue to play this submissive role while wrapping the Scorpio around their finger. Scorpios believe they dominate, but it is the Virgos who are in control.
Keep believing it...until you see Scorpio is nowhere there...
i can't imagine being with a scorpio.
Why? You would be stunned! 👀
When Virgo and Scorpio are engaged in a relationship, who do you think tends to 'come out on top'? Will one of the two dominate in the end, or are these signs more or less equally matched? This question comes from personal experience, where both I and she are very domineering and passionate and tend to provoke the other all the time...it usually ends in hugs though 🙂
Thanks!
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Virgo is dominating one.
But why th this thread's getting so much replies lol.
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When Virgo and Scorpio are engaged in a relationship, who do you think tends to 'come out on top'? Will one of the two dominate in the end, or are these signs more or less equally matched? This question comes from personal experience, where both I and she are very domineering and passionate and tend to provoke the other all the time...it usually ends in hugs though 🙂
Thanks!