Hello everyone! So I'm a Scorpio girl, I met a Virgo guy at my new job about three months ago. I've found him attractive and interesting from our first conversation, but he is incredibly confusing. For the first month we barely talked one-on-one (and when we did it was job-related) but he was always very cordial and nice. We don't get to talk much at work because we work in completely different areas but when we run into each other he smiles and greets me and I think he lingers around. Recently though, we've walked to our cars (about a 10 minute walk) together a few times but always with some other people so he tries to make conversation with me but immediately stops when anyone else comes around. We have rarely gotten past small talk sadly and since our offices aren't close to each other I don't really have the option to say stuff like "Hey, did you see when??_" or "what did you think of??_" to initiate conversation.
I have noticed that everyone at works looks up at him, men and women. He's a great leader and he is incredibly smart, but he's not very talkative and kind of aloof. Because of this it is very hard to tell whether he's interested in me or not. He asked for my number a few days ago but he hasn't texted or called me once. He is just very intriguing to me, he keeps me on my toes and I, being a Scorpio, am obviously attracted to that.
So, can you give me some tips on how to figure out if he really is interested in me or is just being polite? Also, I don't mind taking the first step but I would like to have a clue as to how me might feel about me before doing it. How can I show him I'm interested in him?
Thank you so much for helping! 🙂
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So I'm a Scorpio girl, I met a Virgo guy at my new job about three months ago. I've found him attractive and interesting from our first conversation, but he is incredibly confusing. For the first month we barely talked one-on-one (and when we did it was job-related) but he was always very cordial and nice. We don't get to talk much at work because we work in completely different areas but when we run into each other he smiles and greets me and I think he lingers around. Recently though, we've walked to our cars (about a 10 minute walk) together a few times but always with some other people so he tries to make conversation with me but immediately stops when anyone else comes around. We have rarely gotten past small talk sadly and since our offices aren't close to each other I don't really have the option to say stuff like "Hey, did you see when??_" or "what did you think of??_" to initiate conversation.
I have noticed that everyone at works looks up at him, men and women. He's a great leader and he is incredibly smart, but he's not very talkative and kind of aloof. Because of this it is very hard to tell whether he's interested in me or not. He asked for my number a few days ago but he hasn't texted or called me once. He is just very intriguing to me, he keeps me on my toes and I, being a Scorpio, am obviously attracted to that.
So, can you give me some tips on how to figure out if he really is interested in me or is just being polite? Also, I don't mind taking the first step but I would like to have a clue as to how me might feel about me before doing it. How can I show him I'm interested in him?
Thank you so much for helping! 🙂