Scorpio Girls Please Help,I am Very Confused......

She is technically a Sagittarius-Scorpio cusp since she was born on November 19th also she has a confusing Aquarius moon....


There is this girl and I am really into her, we have had a very complicated relationship, and I am currently a senior in high school, this is the last year I have to tell her how I feel, We seem to have this really strange barrier between us, I can tell she's attracted to me but she just won't start a conversation with me and anytime we talk she acts extremely nervous, she stares at me constantly and will get into my personal space all the time, but she always acts too nervous to start a conversation with me, and when I talk she either ignores me/acts nervous, we have a strong sexual tension between us, and I really am desperate here, I have no idea how to approach her, If I come on strong at all she backs off, but if I back off she comes on strong it has been very frustrating with all these mind games, I really need help how should I talk to her? and also how should I flirt with her, I can tell she likes me but she is always hesitating/acting unsure, and that makes me unsure, It may be sure to the fact that I am an Aries sun with a Taurus Venus and an Aries Moon, she also has a Scorpio Venus, also there was this one time where I was troubled, and I was lost in thought, I usually can't make eye contact with her because I usually lose all my confidence when I look at her I just melt, which is kinda sad, anyways while I was lost in thought my eyes drifted towards her, usually If I catch her looking at me she looks away quickly , but that time she was looking directly into my eyes and I could feel it, I didn't want to look into her eyes because I didn't want her to see me upset, I think she was trying to make me feel better,..., anyways I rested my glance on her lips, and they quavered from a smile to a frown, and she got so nervous she started to walk away, I realized my mistake and was about to reach for her, but she somewhat flinched/acted nervous so I backed off, and then she was standing behind me and I felt her gaze on the back of my neck like she wanted me to turn around I didn't because, I was just so confused..., and then the next day she completely invaded my personal space and was asking me questions about an assignment, and I was just so confused.... I just want to know what should I do to break this barrier of hesitation?

I only get to see her for short periods during the day this year, what should i do?

I too am a Scorsagian..

it has been very frustrating with all these mind games... *GROWL* We don't play mind games. We get scared. BIIGGGG difference.

Ask her out. Plain and simple. The eye contact thing means she likes you. We WATCH those we like. Study them. I'd be willing to bet she knows more about you than you think she does. She's probably got the same inner conversation going on in her head, plus she has the societal pressure not to be the aggressor. Its your job. So do it.

OMG I can totally help you with this my birthday is november 19th and im deeply in love with an aries... Ill help you if you help me...
Im just like her I refuse to look into his eyes because I feel that if I do everything will be shown and he will know how I feel...
Also its weird it feels like we are always finishing and getting mad at each other but then we always manage to get back together... We never dated but we had sex a few times I dont usually have sex with just anybody actually I dont usually have sex, but our chemistry is so strong our connection is so intense. He is everything I ever wanted POWERFUL, strong mind, so funny, I feel like we are very similar, we say the samethings and we act the same way, we will even talk the samething several times like matching voice and what not. But there is this barrier between us communication is easy but so hard at the same time. We hangout but I notice how he talks to everyone but has a hard time talking to me and its not bc he doesnt want me there bc usually he is the one that invites me, but I have the same problem I will say hi to him but I wont be able to talk to him because Im scared he will see how much I care. it is so weird... I dont know what to do...and when I get cold and try to let it go he comes after me,,, and when he is gone I find a way of getting us back together...it finishes and starts again all the time. I feel like he is everything I ever dreamed but I dont know how he feels... I told him once or twice about my feelings, but he never said he felt the same, but he never let me go either...he drives me crazy ive never cared so much for someone like him.. he is almost as a drug I cant quit him..but also i see him talking to all this girls and invite them on dates but he doesnt do that to me....i dont understand him

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OMG I can totally help you with this my birthday is november 19th and im deeply in love with an aries... Ill help you if you help me...
Im just like her I refuse to look into his eyes because I feel that if I do everything will be shown and he will know how I feel...
Also its weird it feels like we are always finishing and getting mad at each other but then we always manage to get back together... We never dated but we had sex a few times I dont usually have sex with just anybody actually I dont usually have sex, but our chemistry is so strong our connection is so intense. He is everything I ever wanted POWERFUL, strong mind, so funny, I feel like we are very similar, we say the samethings and we act the same way, we will even talk the samething several times like matching voice and what not. But there is this barrier between us communication is easy but so hard at the same time. We hangout but I notice how he talks to everyone but has a hard time talking to me and its not bc he doesnt want me there bc usually he is the one that invites me, but I have the same problem I will say hi to him but I wont be able to talk to him because Im scared he will see how much I care. it is so weird... I dont know what to do...and when I get cold and try to let it go he comes after me,,, and when he is gone I find a way of getting us back together...it finishes and starts again all the time. I feel like he is everything I ever dreamed but I dont know how he feels... I told him once or twice about my feelings, but he never said he felt the same, but he never let me go either...he drives me crazy ive never cared so much for someone like him.. he is almost as a drug I cant quit him..but also i see him talking to all this girls and invite them on dates but he doesnt do that to me....i dont understand him

Well Aries can be sometimes afraid of commitment, we usually only commit when someone really means something to us, but he really does seem to care,I as an Aries, don't go out of my way for someone unless I really care for them, I think the main thing with the communication is he is unsure, like I am unsure with this girl, Aries usually need someone to be blunt with them and I know that Scorpio aren't always the bluntest people, He is being unsure because you are being unsure you don't have to say you love him, just say something that shows you care, people in general c

(continued from last post) can make my day by just saying something meaningful, Aries love attention so make sure you give him plenty and I'm sure he has a bit of an ego almost all Aries do, Aries are usually the most impressed when you can keep them on their toes, Aries don't like to be completely smothered with affection, you have to balance it out. I know that it may be hard for you as a Scorpio to just say how you feel, but you will be able to relate with him better if you are more simplistic with your feelings if that makes sense, As an Aries i am attracted to Scorpio such as yourself because you are mysterious, extremely sexy,sensual and you have the wit and humor to match, and that really draws my attention, the only thing is that you seem to keep your feelings inside too much, I know that you guys have somewhat of a storm brewing in your heart/head and that you are very emotional, and I also know that you like to hide that your emotional, Your Aries might know that you are with holding your feelings and even if he doesn't he will feel like you don't care about him enough to tell him your feelings, just try to share your feelings more he will appreciate it but don't go overboard try to keep that balance, Also don't be scared to let him know how you feel, I can't emphasize that enough!, I know as a Scorpio you fear rejection, everyone does, he is probably unsure because you are being hot and cold that is the number one thing that frustrates and somewhat confuses me about Scorpio, as an Aries we like consistency, it's not that you can't be hot and cold, just try to express how you feel when you are being cold, That will help him feel like he can talk to you more. If you have anymore specific questions then ask away! I am so happy you posted your thoughts, also I am an Aries with a lot of water in my chart so I am more sensitive for an Aries, but most of the advice I gave you is applicable since, I am an Aries sun and Moon.

Alright I have some questions for you if you don't mind, So you play hot and cold when you really care about someone?, also are you more shy when you like someone like to the point where you can't look into their eyes for any length of time?, also what is the best way I can tell you how I feel through eye contact? should I hold your gaze? or should I look at you and then look away quickly, If I smile do you think I'm being insincere? I only see the girl I like for short period of time, also in general what are you like and disl

So I'm gonna start with the hot and cold part... We don't even do it on purpose but us scorpios we know that we are too intense so we might show something but the we think we are showing too much and that will scare people away so we back off again... Bc we know how intense we can be.. I'm not hot and cold bc I want to be like that I'm hot and cold so I won't lose you and so you won't think we are desperate... Bc when we like someone we really like em and the guy we like is the only person we think about it and we think about you allll day... And omg about beig shy yes...the guy that I like brought me around his friends and they all like me and we get along just fine so latetly we've been hangin out more but he's usually the person that invites me to hangout with em... Once I get to the party I talk to everybody but him yes obviously we say hi to each other... But it's like this lil uncomfortable thing just like kindergarden you can't act yourself around the person you like... I play joke around do everything with everybody but him... And he is the same way he flirts with other girls jokes around play but me... And I know sometimes I will avoid looking onto his eyes bc I feel like if I do he will see how I really feel and ill be just vulnerable... It's so cute it's like we are kids and discovering love... Every now and then I catch him looking at me.. And well lock eyes for a split second and look at something else bc it's so intense...I honestly don't know the best way... It would be through sutble things... I wish the guy I like would just ask me out on a real date bc I just can't wait but he doesn't so I bet she wants one... But if you actually asked her she prob would say no bc she's so scared... The truth is this is so intense and we are both so afraid of how much we care that we try to hide it at all cost bc we don't want to be vulnerable and we don't want to lose the person that we actually elieve we could be ableto spend the rest of our lives together... Sometimes you'll prefer have that person you like so much around as friend than to not have em at all...and yes you should hold my gaze just enough not too long or it'll be creepy but just enough that when o go home it's all I can think about it and I keep having the memory of that moment...no we know how sincere Aries are that's why we like you guys so much we can see right through you... If we thought you were insincere we wouldn't even bother with you... So yes smile bc we love that... It feels

Like we are getting so close... We know is sincere 🙂 we like guys just like you... Very masculine... We love the way you dress and how funny you are that's the main thing I like about him and we have the same sense of humor... I admire how blunt Nd honest he is... I love your heart... I can see right through you... People say you're a player and talk bad about the Aries guy to me but I feel like nobody knows him like I do... You are that one person that doesn't have anything that we don't like there's nothing about you that I would've change or him lol.. Even his bad things I find it so cute bc that's what love is you accept the person you don't try to change em... I dislike weak people.. I don't like ppl that's serious all the time... I don't like people that pick on less fortunate it's ok to be mean to somebody if they can handle but not to people that actually have a problem... Loyalty and trust are the main things for me... Dont worry about what I dislike bc I bet she likes everything about you... If she didn't like you she wouldn't be hot and cold the part that she comes hot is when she can't control her heart anymore and she just likes you so much she just cares so much that she decides to do something but then the fear of rejection comes back and she hides her feelings again... Also.. Scorpios lime traditions there's no way she would ever come to a guy and invite him on a date.. We would die before doing this.. The iniciative is the guys job if he wants you he should come get you...

My question is how come he can talk to every girl bt me? Also we are fb friends... And on fb I see that he comments on gels pictures and status and likes stuff on other girls page but he can never do that to me... And I know some of the things I post are funny bc most of his friends will even like it.. But he doesn't and I know he should comment on my pics bc I'm prettier than some of the girls he talks to... We hangout and spent the night this last sat... This monday an old friend of mine posted on my wall and said he missed me and I was like let's do dinner soon but I don't want anything with this guy... However like 7 hours later I saw that he posted on this girl wall and said something about them having dinner... That killed me... I thought how come he invites this girl to have dinner but not me... Well than I thought I can invite anyone I want for dinner and I'll have the balls to do it but I could never invite him...well I freaked out a lil and deleted him from fb lol... He was like I've never promised u we would be gf and bf you're freaking out end of story and I said I would never want to date a guy like you...I never said I wanted to be your gf.. We had a few arguments but then later we did something so similar that I texted him and I was like I'm sorry for freaking out on you... It's impossible for us to not be friends we are just too similar... The problem is sex makes things complicated so let's keep it simple... Well he never replied.. I was like what an ass I said I was sorry and everything... I don't know if it's bc he's upset that I want to he his friends only... Anyways yesterday after the dinner he posted on this girls wall "amazing 🙂 lol" and she said she had such a good time and he said anytime dear.... I think our sparkle is gone I really think he's starting tonlike this girl... I think I lost it...but this girl just got out of a relationship and she deleted her ex on the same day... And I thought you only delete ppl when you like em... So I think she's using the guy I like to make her ex jealous