scorpio in war with scorpio...

I recently ended a 6 month relationship with a fellow Scorpio..Things were really good at first,i mean reaally good,the communication,the bed, the intense feelings,the relaxing moments,everything..the problem started when i found a job as a bartender here in his town,,because given the fact that i am finishing my PHD here its the only job that allows me both money and morning time to attend university.when it started to get serious,he started pushing me,lightly at first,to change job ,i am a chemical enginer and my phd is in environmental chemistry.the thing is here in greece,jobs are few,the percentage of unemployed people is extremely high and its pretty difficult for me to find a job as a chemist,which is pretty much is all i ever dreamed of doing in the first place.
All of our recent fights are initiated because of my bar tending.not that he is jealous as he says he wants for me the best,what i deserve.i keep having interviews,they all reject my CVs,things in my country are pretty bad they only fire,they not hire anymore,i think most of you are aware of our economical situation in which our previous governors have put us through..
Anyways,as long as i kept vainly searching ,our fights were constant i tried to keep calm i talked him through until last Saturday his cousin invited us to his place i could not accompany him because i always work on Saturdays,and he lost it he said that i could not keep embarrassing him because he can no longer make up excuses to his friends and family members about where i am on Saturdays,he wants a girlfriend next to him that she sleeps next to him normal hours and to be proud of her,that i am wasting my life on stupid bartending,and things went on he just could not stop,i was only silent,just listening in a shock state..needless to say how offended i felt and feel..
I went to the bar,he went to his dinner..then he texted me this is not working..i was devasted..the thing is i want exactly the same with him,i am a scientist,working as such its my life dream,its just that nobody hires me,im always waiting for a phonecall that never comes..i texted him "have it your way i am running down the hill right now with everything ,your leaving is my least problem"
given that all my family and friends they are 500 km away,i live alone in his town cause university is here..he texted me yesterday that he is wrong to put me in such a mess that he blames himself for putting more on my shoulders..i textedhim i dont ever wanna see him a

thank you for your response🙂i expected to be devastated by now but i am really not.its like a part of me has been free.
what pisses me though is that throughout the relationship he is the one to make the mistakes -even if they were small ones here and there- he is also the one that recognizes them waaaaayyyy later and comes always to me to make things right.why do them at first place i wonder.I am always careful when i interact with people i really care about,its rarely that i get even to curse,normally i get pissed cause public services delay me in the mornings...
AS a Scorpio himself he is very different first the mistakes then the apologies but always my pain..(sigh,,)
you re so right about him supporting me,he wouldnt like it at all,but the thing is i m not that kind of person,i ve been a fighter all my life,fought for everything,i m too proud to even discuss money with him,let alone take it from him.
I expected i would suffer by now,i have never left him before,i was in head over heels love with him
But now i am frozen its like i ve blocked him out completely
I m not sure if its even normal for such a small period of time,,although Scorpio women have extreme strength getting over stuff even if the whole world ,and us too,say "she s dying" we rise up and jump into life.I adore us🙂))

He implied i m not good enough to show me off to his friends and family this is a HUGE INSULT FOR ME.
i am a treetrucking scientist close to my PHD,my looks i suppose are over average since barowners keep asking me to work for them,i m pretty cultivated i guess since i ve been into all kind of reading,going to theaters all of my life..my parents are teachers..How the hell was i ever this "defective package"?
My blocking all contact was really light according to this heavy offense....really light...but i m a good person unfortunately...

you're from greece? no wonder you are so beautifull.

yes...poor Greece nowadays ...lol..-thanks for the compliment"🙂

Greece is my fav country. I go there every year fro Holiday.
Don't worry, EU will fall and Greece will shine again. You best shot as a chemist is to work for a german company.(I wonder why)
Like continental tires. they have factories close to greece.
I've been to Saloniki for one month douring my degree in civil engineering. I loved it.
And about your ex bofriend....fuck that malaka. What kind of looser would treat his gf like that?! Cute, smart, with a PDH in chemistry who is working as a bartender. thare are lots of good men who would look to you more like a heavenly dream not a woman. So be strong. You're a scorpio, you are strong by nature.

Posted by Impulsv
Excactly sounds like he was more insecure n felt he needed to put you down. Come on your the complete package, intelligent, fun, indpendant n hot! He is seriously banging his head now after losing you. If a man is not supportive of you when your down he's not worth it. I think the truth is he was insecure you'd met someone at the bar than you not being around on Saturday nights.

^Its a lot of this. A loving Scorpio is going to be Super supportive. No question about it. My EX, I was so supportive of her wishes and goals. I was so supportive, I would encourage some that included her moving to go to the school she wanted without me. Of course I hoped she didn't pick those choices!!!! But I wanted to show her how much I supported her. Your dude is worried about you moving on to something bigger, faster, younger, stronger. He is a little inseruce. Now, its up to you. Do you want to help feed his ego or slowly unplug??

thanx impulsive.you re giving me a real boost to my confidence🙂
i didnt accept the apology i only said i don't ever want to see you again and he just replied i undestand my mistake i understand why do u want to be left alone and i will do as you say..
it s irritating how he does his stupid thing then walks away just like that.i do not call this pride i call it scared out of my pants and i do not appreciate anyone who does not at least put up a fightfor something he clearly wants ,i ve been fighting all my life!!even to pass a freaking exam,even to pay a bill..
the other irritating thing is that i let my self be a fool,i should have seen that coming,his family has these strict morals i think they have really gotten in him
But as pp very well stated,its all about support,a woman or a man in love would just stand by no matter what the circumstances may be.i may have developed a cold pure analytical,mathematical,scientific way of thinking through my years of study ,but when it comes to love i m butter,take me,melt me,cook me,do whatever u wish,,and us scorpio we do not do that often,in fact,rarely,i believe...
Ovs,EU could give me a lot of opportunities,i m already looking at it,but first i ll have to finish my PHD here,it would be an absolute waste 0f 3 years for me to leave now..there is also the matter of my family that will not handle my living and working at Germany too well..its on my mind but i could act serious on it later..