Scorpio lover... keep trying or give up?

We split up two weeks ago. She took everything and left. Shes done alot of stuff in spite.. trying to hurt me. Shes been playing mind games, lying and telling me to move on.. yet getting mad when she sees me doing that...shes blocked off facebook but has been watching it somehow. Throwing things in my face... has no remorse.. does not care what she has done to me.. only for herself..only her pain..shes angry, hurt..and as of two days ago she is now ignoring me. I did alot to hurt her but i am fixing it. Not good enough. I keep going from begging to being just as vindictive... no budge. Aries here. Know i should leave her alone but want her to come back before its too late. My love is turning into hate. I keep explaing how and why she is wrong.. still doesnt matter. She has taken things to the extreme. How do i get a reaction? I know there is no manipulating her.. shes too strong. But i want her back but all i keep doing is making my self look pathetic. Left her alone for five days.. text her.. begging just to talk.. hear nothing.. next day i call.. first thing i hear is not about her ignoring me.. not caring... but some guy on my fb. Wth? And thats just the tip of the iceburg. Narcissistic or just unevolved scorpio.. ? leave her alone for good or give her space? She has slipped enough for me to know she still cares... but is it that the anger and hurt will fade and her begin to miss me and feel sorry or is she hurting and when it calms down shes done for good?

Whats going to happen? Us staying apart? So theres really no way to get her to reconsider?

Ahh. I get it. Lol.

Well I just talked to her. She said she thought i would have taken the hint. I got alot of things thrown up in my face. She said had I have not went bat shit crazy or had been so harsh and "made everything about me" (im hearing that alot) even though i didnt... just tried to make my feelings matter... she said she would have been in my corner. We would have had a chance. I havent given her the space she needed and that were past that now. I said well i guess your love for me wasnt the same and she got mad and said it was. She made the conversation about her. How shes going to stop wondering how i am and start worrying about her. Shes doing this for herself. She says she wasnt spying on me. Someone randomly showed her what was on my facebook. She says she is creeped out.. nd says she cant look at me the same... all for me being so wishy washy when she has been toying with my emotions. But she told me to let her go. She doesnt care how much i beg or cry she is done. And hung up when i tried to reason... and that there is how you lose a scorpio. How to lose the love of your life. God I hate being an aries. She really hates me. Lol

Still want her back. Guess the only thing to do is leave her alone. Should I try to talk to her in a few months or just wait and see if she tries to communicate?

I tried to listen tonight I was very calm and you know being an aries that is against my nature ' I talked smoothly and she just could not keep her cool. I dont want to give myself false hope that she will calm down. As much as I wish she would reconsider. Trust me, I pleaded. She just kept pushing me away. I know I could do it right this time. Im not going to lie, Id put my life on the line for this girl. She appears to not want that. Bad thing about it, shes surrounded with all of her family. I know she feels strong. Theyre all involved. Shes not very good at standing up to them. But she is the favorite so she can do no wrong. Her mom leaves this friday. Sounds crappy but Im hoping with the holidays and being alone with her strict gma she will see the grass in greener. Our relationship has sucked. But the love is there. I believe in it. I also believe that she is through. What advantage could she have by pushing me this far away? To make sure I leave her alone? Surely she sees that once im too far out the door I wont want back in. Im wounded. She must honestly believe she can close the door this quick (though I have drove her to that) so she must not care like how she claims. Thats always been an issue with us. I can never tell. She said I pushed her too far out the door, and now shes doing that to me. Its confusing. It sounds like goodbye... sure.. i need to see that. But she hasnt really had time to think.... thats where my hope is. But i suppose now i dont have to worry about her thinking and not coming back.. shes already said she isnt. You said humility, grace and dignity... so move forward.. get my life together... any other pointers?

Really you thought you being an Aries a good match for a Scorpio? Aries are way too rash and brash for a sensitive Scorpio woman you get angry you start blurting out hurtful words without realizing it. Probably best you just walk away you will have this same fight over and over again, I have couple Aries friends I know what they are like, I'm a Cancer man and they have said some things that hurt my feelings they think nothing of it.