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    July 5 1980

    Cancer, Aries moon, Leo rising

    8th house moon


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    I wear both, but with both I prefer high quality that is likely to last a long time, made with natural materials. I'm willing to pay more for that, but it doesn't always qualify as expensive because I wait for sales.

    Venus is dominant in my chart using several systems to determine that.

    Taurus rising, 7th house sun, Mars in Libra, Venus conjunct sun and Jupiter, and 5 planets in 6th house including Venus (the "picky picky" placement lol), probably all have some weight with this.



    Same! Quality over quantity for me. Sag rising and Jupiter in Taurus makes me adore pricey but excellent quality stuff. And I do have several virgo placements myself so I tend to be very selective.
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    Great that you relate! :-)
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    Don't know for sure. I think that the sense of freedom can be sexy for some people.



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    Nothing at this time. I'm reading this thread to get ideas. lol

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    I wear both, but with both I prefer high quality that is likely to last a long time, made with natural materials. I'm willing to pay more for that, but it doesn't always qualify as expensive because I wait for sales.

    Venus is dominant in my chart using several systems to determine that.

    Taurus rising, 7th house sun, Mars in Libra, Venus conjunct sun and Jupiter, and 5 planets in 6th house including Venus (the "picky picky" placement lol), probably all have some weight with this.

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    I can't imagine any of my exes describing me as clingy, but I wasn't the total opposite either. I like having a lot of time to myself, but I spent more time with my exes than I did with other people, usually, and they usually had a similar need for time to themselves so it wasn't a conflict.

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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.





    Thats interesting. I have sag friends and I never realized how much similarities we have apart from getting bored easily and wanting to travel and do random stuff at any given point. I just read about Lilith in the 9th house and its making me like a cult leader of some sort. Holy crap. :/


    Yes! Hopefully cult leader isn't your destiny, lol

    I'm confused, now -- let me know what your chart says. In your other topic you wrote that you have Venus in the 7th house opposite Saturn in the 1st. Here you wrote your Venus is in the 9th house.


    Oh did I say that? Sorry for the confusion. I didnt notice. I basically have sag rising, virgo moon, lilith and PoF all in 9th house. My Venus is Cancer in 7th house but its in opposition witj my Saturn in Cap 1st house.


    Okay, thanks! Yes, this topic says, "Sag Rising and Virgo Venus in the 9th House" but you mean Virgo moon.

    Definitely with moon in 9th, that's going to be a strong Sag-ish influence.

    Venus in the 7th house is considered an ideal placement for Venus, but the opposition with Saturn offers a challenge. Not doom, though. I've known many people with that kind of opposition who have decent relationships.


    Omg. Sorry!!! I really meant Virgo moon! I have always wondered about my venus placement because for some reason I am very much into the idea of marriage. But I am also too careful for my own good and I have trouble forming attachments with my partner. One moment I am so crazy inlove then the next im like nah.... this is irrational i better not. The one you know who have it, did they take them a while to settledown? Did they settledown with a good partner?


    That's okay! :-) Now I understand, so good.

    What you're describing is very much how the Venus opposition with Saturn can be I'd say! I have a Venus and Saturn opposition too, but my Venus is in the 6th house, and my Saturn is in the 12th house. But, Saturn is also opposite my sun in the 7th house. Fun. lol

    The ones I've known are cautious about commitment usually, and they sometimes are more mature than their age. I was in a 9-year relationship starting when I was 21 and even though it didn't last more than 9 years romantically, we are very good friends and have been for 16 years and counting!

    I found the following as an antidote to Venus-Saturn oppositions or squares. Of course, the partner in question should be a good person. I didn't have this description when I was with the man I mentioned above, but he fits enough to count. He is a bit older than me, and he had an authority position at the place he worked (well, not at first, but quickly he got to that level), his moon is Cap and his Saturn doesn't form an aspect with my Venus, but it doesn't do bad things with it either.

    "One strategy is to try to find a way that Saturn can work for you. For some, this means pursuing an older lover or someone in an
    authority position. This can work because Saturn represents older people and those in authority. Saturn rules Capricorn, and people with Venus square or opposite Saturn can also find great love with Capricorn people. You might have already found yourself attracted to any of these people already. Even still, there’s no guarantee these relationships will last, but they certainly will have potential."

    "Another strategy is to find someone who can buffer the effects of the Saturn square by having, in their own charts, a Saturn that
    creates a trine or other POSITIVE aspects to your Venus. Alternately, find someone similarly suffering from a Venus square
    Saturn or Venus opposite Saturn aspect. They will be able to relate to you and will be searching desperately for love as you are.
    Of course, these aspects are impossible to know until after you have met the person and done their chart."



    Damn!!! You do have a hard one. Mine doesnt aspect my sun so at least thats a relief for a bit. I can relate to dating older men. Its prolly the reason why all my exes are older. In fact between 3-15 years older. The older they are the longer my relationship is with them. Current partner is 5 years older but we have Venus Trine Saturn in our synastry. Do you think thats enough to make it work? Are you in an rs right now or married? I started thinking about this just recently because I have friends who wanted to back out from their own wedding because they arent sure and it makes me wanna be even more careful now. I dont get in rs for the sake of being in one. Im more of a long term kind of person so ir marriage isnt the long term goal, i dont want it. Marriage to me is not just for paper purposes but more like growing old with someone. I see my parents grow old together and the family is happy. They are happy so I kinda want something like it. But then, I am so careful 😂


    That fits really well with what is recommended then! Venus trine Saturn I'm sure can be helpful enough to smooth out the Venus-Saturn opposition you have, according to what I quoted. The author believed that just one of the things they listed could be enough to ease it.

    I'm single now, and more cautious than ever about getting into a relationship. I prefer something that is likely to last, like you're describing about what you want. I was in another long term relationship, that lasted 7 years, but it was my worst by far -- it could be very stressful. I definitely don't want to repeat something like that.

    Awww sorry to hear that. I guess with just a bit more patience, we will meet someone for long term. My last one was pretty bad too but i think he was the one i loved the most. 4 years. I definitely learned a lot. Our charts had every opposition possible hahaha. I guess you and i lasted long in the wrong rs what more in the right one eh? smile


    Thank you. Sorry about your last one as well! I loved my ex very deeply, and I learned a lot too. Wow about having every opposition possible with your last one's chart -- I can imagine the challenge.

    Yes, here's to many years in a good relationship for our futures. :-) A vedic astrologer told me that my next one will happen in about 3 years, so I'll see if that ends up being true or not.
    Wow! Thats definitely something to look forward to! Good luck!!!! Wishing you (us) all the best in this! smile
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    Thanks! I wish the prediction was for meeting this man sooner, haha, but I'm willing to wait for a good relationship, however long it takes. Wishing you (us) all the best too!
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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.





    Thats interesting. I have sag friends and I never realized how much similarities we have apart from getting bored easily and wanting to travel and do random stuff at any given point. I just read about Lilith in the 9th house and its making me like a cult leader of some sort. Holy crap. :/


    Yes! Hopefully cult leader isn't your destiny, lol

    I'm confused, now -- let me know what your chart says. In your other topic you wrote that you have Venus in the 7th house opposite Saturn in the 1st. Here you wrote your Venus is in the 9th house.


    Oh did I say that? Sorry for the confusion. I didnt notice. I basically have sag rising, virgo moon, lilith and PoF all in 9th house. My Venus is Cancer in 7th house but its in opposition witj my Saturn in Cap 1st house.


    Okay, thanks! Yes, this topic says, "Sag Rising and Virgo Venus in the 9th House" but you mean Virgo moon.

    Definitely with moon in 9th, that's going to be a strong Sag-ish influence.

    Venus in the 7th house is considered an ideal placement for Venus, but the opposition with Saturn offers a challenge. Not doom, though. I've known many people with that kind of opposition who have decent relationships.


    Omg. Sorry!!! I really meant Virgo moon! I have always wondered about my venus placement because for some reason I am very much into the idea of marriage. But I am also too careful for my own good and I have trouble forming attachments with my partner. One moment I am so crazy inlove then the next im like nah.... this is irrational i better not. The one you know who have it, did they take them a while to settledown? Did they settledown with a good partner?


    That's okay! :-) Now I understand, so good.

    What you're describing is very much how the Venus opposition with Saturn can be I'd say! I have a Venus and Saturn opposition too, but my Venus is in the 6th house, and my Saturn is in the 12th house. But, Saturn is also opposite my sun in the 7th house. Fun. lol

    The ones I've known are cautious about commitment usually, and they sometimes are more mature than their age. I was in a 9-year relationship starting when I was 21 and even though it didn't last more than 9 years romantically, we are very good friends and have been for 16 years and counting!

    I found the following as an antidote to Venus-Saturn oppositions or squares. Of course, the partner in question should be a good person. I didn't have this description when I was with the man I mentioned above, but he fits enough to count. He is a bit older than me, and he had an authority position at the place he worked (well, not at first, but quickly he got to that level), his moon is Cap and his Saturn doesn't form an aspect with my Venus, but it doesn't do bad things with it either.

    "One strategy is to try to find a way that Saturn can work for you. For some, this means pursuing an older lover or someone in an
    authority position. This can work because Saturn represents older people and those in authority. Saturn rules Capricorn, and people with Venus square or opposite Saturn can also find great love with Capricorn people. You might have already found yourself attracted to any of these people already. Even still, there’s no guarantee these relationships will last, but they certainly will have potential."

    "Another strategy is to find someone who can buffer the effects of the Saturn square by having, in their own charts, a Saturn that
    creates a trine or other POSITIVE aspects to your Venus. Alternately, find someone similarly suffering from a Venus square
    Saturn or Venus opposite Saturn aspect. They will be able to relate to you and will be searching desperately for love as you are.
    Of course, these aspects are impossible to know until after you have met the person and done their chart."



    Damn!!! You do have a hard one. Mine doesnt aspect my sun so at least thats a relief for a bit. I can relate to dating older men. Its prolly the reason why all my exes are older. In fact between 3-15 years older. The older they are the longer my relationship is with them. Current partner is 5 years older but we have Venus Trine Saturn in our synastry. Do you think thats enough to make it work? Are you in an rs right now or married? I started thinking about this just recently because I have friends who wanted to back out from their own wedding because they arent sure and it makes me wanna be even more careful now. I dont get in rs for the sake of being in one. Im more of a long term kind of person so ir marriage isnt the long term goal, i dont want it. Marriage to me is not just for paper purposes but more like growing old with someone. I see my parents grow old together and the family is happy. They are happy so I kinda want something like it. But then, I am so careful 😂


    That fits really well with what is recommended then! Venus trine Saturn I'm sure can be helpful enough to smooth out the Venus-Saturn opposition you have, according to what I quoted. The author believed that just one of the things they listed could be enough to ease it.

    I'm single now, and more cautious than ever about getting into a relationship. I prefer something that is likely to last, like you're describing about what you want. I was in another long term relationship, that lasted 7 years, but it was my worst by far -- it could be very stressful. I definitely don't want to repeat something like that.

    Awww sorry to hear that. I guess with just a bit more patience, we will meet someone for long term. My last one was pretty bad too but i think he was the one i loved the most. 4 years. I definitely learned a lot. Our charts had every opposition possible hahaha. I guess you and i lasted long in the wrong rs what more in the right one eh? smile
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    Thank you. Sorry about your last one as well! I loved my ex very deeply, and I learned a lot too. Wow about having every opposition possible with your last one's chart -- I can imagine the challenge.

    Yes, here's to many years in a good relationship for our futures. :-) A vedic astrologer told me that my next one will happen in about 3 years, so I'll see if that ends up being true or not.
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    Venusian Scorp
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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.





    Thats interesting. I have sag friends and I never realized how much similarities we have apart from getting bored easily and wanting to travel and do random stuff at any given point. I just read about Lilith in the 9th house and its making me like a cult leader of some sort. Holy crap. :/


    Yes! Hopefully cult leader isn't your destiny, lol

    I'm confused, now -- let me know what your chart says. In your other topic you wrote that you have Venus in the 7th house opposite Saturn in the 1st. Here you wrote your Venus is in the 9th house.


    Oh did I say that? Sorry for the confusion. I didnt notice. I basically have sag rising, virgo moon, lilith and PoF all in 9th house. My Venus is Cancer in 7th house but its in opposition witj my Saturn in Cap 1st house.


    Okay, thanks! Yes, this topic says, "Sag Rising and Virgo Venus in the 9th House" but you mean Virgo moon.

    Definitely with moon in 9th, that's going to be a strong Sag-ish influence.

    Venus in the 7th house is considered an ideal placement for Venus, but the opposition with Saturn offers a challenge. Not doom, though. I've known many people with that kind of opposition who have decent relationships.


    Omg. Sorry!!! I really meant Virgo moon! I have always wondered about my venus placement because for some reason I am very much into the idea of marriage. But I am also too careful for my own good and I have trouble forming attachments with my partner. One moment I am so crazy inlove then the next im like nah.... this is irrational i better not. The one you know who have it, did they take them a while to settledown? Did they settledown with a good partner?


    That's okay! :-) Now I understand, so good.

    What you're describing is very much how the Venus opposition with Saturn can be I'd say! I have a Venus and Saturn opposition too, but my Venus is in the 6th house, and my Saturn is in the 12th house. But, Saturn is also opposite my sun in the 7th house. Fun. lol

    The ones I've known are cautious about commitment usually, and they sometimes are more mature than their age. I was in a 9-year relationship starting when I was 21 and even though it didn't last more than 9 years romantically, we are very good friends and have been for 16 years and counting!

    I found the following as an antidote to Venus-Saturn oppositions or squares. Of course, the partner in question should be a good person. I didn't have this description when I was with the man I mentioned above, but he fits enough to count. He is a bit older than me, and he had an authority position at the place he worked (well, not at first, but quickly he got to that level), his moon is Cap and his Saturn doesn't form an aspect with my Venus, but it doesn't do bad things with it either.

    "One strategy is to try to find a way that Saturn can work for you. For some, this means pursuing an older lover or someone in an
    authority position. This can work because Saturn represents older people and those in authority. Saturn rules Capricorn, and people with Venus square or opposite Saturn can also find great love with Capricorn people. You might have already found yourself attracted to any of these people already. Even still, there’s no guarantee these relationships will last, but they certainly will have potential."

    "Another strategy is to find someone who can buffer the effects of the Saturn square by having, in their own charts, a Saturn that
    creates a trine or other POSITIVE aspects to your Venus. Alternately, find someone similarly suffering from a Venus square
    Saturn or Venus opposite Saturn aspect. They will be able to relate to you and will be searching desperately for love as you are.
    Of course, these aspects are impossible to know until after you have met the person and done their chart."



    Damn!!! You do have a hard one. Mine doesnt aspect my sun so at least thats a relief for a bit. I can relate to dating older men. Its prolly the reason why all my exes are older. In fact between 3-15 years older. The older they are the longer my relationship is with them. Current partner is 5 years older but we have Venus Trine Saturn in our synastry. Do you think thats enough to make it work? Are you in an rs right now or married? I started thinking about this just recently because I have friends who wanted to back out from their own wedding because they arent sure and it makes me wanna be even more careful now. I dont get in rs for the sake of being in one. Im more of a long term kind of person so ir marriage isnt the long term goal, i dont want it. Marriage to me is not just for paper purposes but more like growing old with someone. I see my parents grow old together and the family is happy. They are happy so I kinda want something like it. But then, I am so careful 😂
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    That fits really well with what is recommended then! Venus trine Saturn I'm sure can be helpful enough to smooth out the Venus-Saturn opposition you have, according to what I quoted. The author believed that just one of the things they listed could be enough to ease it.

    I'm single now, and more cautious than ever about getting into a relationship. I prefer something that is likely to last, like you're describing about what you want. I was in another long term relationship, that lasted 7 years, but it was my worst by far -- it could be very stressful. I definitely don't want to repeat something like that.

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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.





    Thats interesting. I have sag friends and I never realized how much similarities we have apart from getting bored easily and wanting to travel and do random stuff at any given point. I just read about Lilith in the 9th house and its making me like a cult leader of some sort. Holy crap. :/


    Yes! Hopefully cult leader isn't your destiny, lol

    I'm confused, now -- let me know what your chart says. In your other topic you wrote that you have Venus in the 7th house opposite Saturn in the 1st. Here you wrote your Venus is in the 9th house.


    Oh did I say that? Sorry for the confusion. I didnt notice. I basically have sag rising, virgo moon, lilith and PoF all in 9th house. My Venus is Cancer in 7th house but its in opposition witj my Saturn in Cap 1st house.


    Okay, thanks! Yes, this topic says, "Sag Rising and Virgo Venus in the 9th House" but you mean Virgo moon.

    Definitely with moon in 9th, that's going to be a strong Sag-ish influence.

    Venus in the 7th house is considered an ideal placement for Venus, but the opposition with Saturn offers a challenge. Not doom, though. I've known many people with that kind of opposition who have decent relationships.


    Omg. Sorry!!! I really meant Virgo moon! I have always wondered about my venus placement because for some reason I am very much into the idea of marriage. But I am also too careful for my own good and I have trouble forming attachments with my partner. One moment I am so crazy inlove then the next im like nah.... this is irrational i better not. The one you know who have it, did they take them a while to settledown? Did they settledown with a good partner?
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    That's okay! :-) Now I understand, so good.

    What you're describing is very much how the Venus opposition with Saturn can be I'd say! I have a Venus and Saturn opposition too, but my Venus is in the 6th house, and my Saturn is in the 12th house. But, Saturn is also opposite my sun in the 7th house. Fun. lol

    The ones I've known are cautious about commitment usually, and they sometimes are more mature than their age. I was in a 9-year relationship starting when I was 21 and even though it didn't last more than 9 years romantically, we are very good friends and have been for 16 years and counting!

    I found the following as an antidote to Venus-Saturn oppositions or squares. Of course, the partner in question should be a good person. I didn't have this description when I was with the man I mentioned above, but he fits enough to count. He is a bit older than me, and he had an authority position at the place he worked (well, not at first, but quickly he got to that level), his moon is Cap and his Saturn doesn't form an aspect with my Venus, but it doesn't do bad things with it either.

    "One strategy is to try to find a way that Saturn can work for you. For some, this means pursuing an older lover or someone in an authority position. This can work because Saturn represents older people and those in authority. Saturn rules Capricorn, and people with Venus square or opposite Saturn can also find great love with Capricorn people. You might have already found yourself attracted to any of these people already. There’s no guarantee these relationships will last, but they certainly will have potential."

    "Another strategy is to find someone who can buffer the effects of the Saturn square by having, in their own charts, a Saturn that creates a trine or other POSITIVE aspects to your Venus. Alternately, find someone similarly suffering from a Venus square Saturn or Venus opposite Saturn aspect. They will be able to relate to you and will be searching desperately for love as you are. Of course, these aspects are impossible to know until after you have met the person and done their chart."



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    Venusian Scorp
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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.





    Thats interesting. I have sag friends and I never realized how much similarities we have apart from getting bored easily and wanting to travel and do random stuff at any given point. I just read about Lilith in the 9th house and its making me like a cult leader of some sort. Holy crap. :/


    Yes! Hopefully cult leader isn't your destiny, lol

    I'm confused, now -- let me know what your chart says. In your other topic you wrote that you have Venus in the 7th house opposite Saturn in the 1st. Here you wrote your Venus is in the 9th house.


    Oh did I say that? Sorry for the confusion. I didnt notice. I basically have sag rising, virgo moon, lilith and PoF all in 9th house. My Venus is Cancer in 7th house but its in opposition witj my Saturn in Cap 1st house.
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    Okay, thanks! Yes, this topic says, "Sag Rising and Virgo Venus in the 9th House" but you mean Virgo moon.

    Definitely with moon in 9th, that's going to be a strong Sag-ish influence.

    Venus in the 7th house is considered an ideal placement for Venus, but the opposition with Saturn offers a challenge. Not doom, though. I've known many people with that kind of opposition who have decent relationships.
  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.





    Thats interesting. I have sag friends and I never realized how much similarities we have apart from getting bored easily and wanting to travel and do random stuff at any given point. I just read about Lilith in the 9th house and its making me like a cult leader of some sort. Holy crap. :/
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    Yes! Hopefully cult leader isn't your destiny, lol

    I'm confused, now -- let me know what your chart says. In your other topic you wrote that you have Venus in the 7th house opposite Saturn in the 1st. Here you wrote your Venus is in the 9th house.
  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
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    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.



    Apart from those two, just my Lilith and PoF both in 9th house. Both are also in Virgo. Its the first time I have ever seen it.
    click to expand


    I haven't studied Lilith, but possibly with all of that it would enhance things, yes.



  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
    Yes, I'd say, based on the Sag rising people I've known.

    Is anything else in your 9th house? I'm more likely to pick up on Sag-ishness if a person's sun or moon is in their 9th house, or several things are in their 9th house, compared to just one planet.

  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
    This makes me think of Leo with it's crown-like top and emphasis on gold. It was designed by a Leo: https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/181064763/golden-rutilated-smokey-quartz-and?ref=shop_home_active_7&ep_click=1

    Golden rutilated smokey quartz and ametrine pendant with white diamond studded enhancer bail in 14k gold

    Only my SN is Leo, but it's Leo season so I wanted to post it.



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    I haven't fainted or hallucinated but I can relate. It happens to me when the beauty is somehow unfathomable to me -- it overwhelms me because of that. It's beyond what I can understand rationally. Other worldly.
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    Venusian Scorp
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    I am very sad most people didn't pick Gemini Sad


    When my life actually was on the line, the RCMP constable who helped me was a Gem, and he was/is one of the best police officers I've ever known, or known of, because he believed in doing everything possible to avoid having to use physical force on the job. He knew how to talk to people to calm them down. He was surprised that only recently it's part of RCMP training to learn how to do what he had been doing naturally.

    Not that this says that all Gems are like this, of course, but I wanted to put in a real example of someone to round this out!




    Thank you for this post! Sometimes I think people in the Astro community think we are robots with no feelings or whatever?... Anyway, yeah, thanks again.


    You're welcome! He definitely was a feeling person. I've known many Gems who are feeling, so I don't understand the astro stereotype at all.


    My mothers best friend is a Gemini and his mother is in her mid 90's with Alzheimer's and he's taken care of her for years now. She needs help doing everything and he's there helping her, while she's cursing him out, and is sooo patient with her. My mother feels so bad because he has no social life due to watching and caring for her 24/7 and it's been like that for probably 10+yrs now. He's not the only child, but he's the only one carrying it all on his shoulders, and he's never in a bad mood despite it. I don't know of ANYONE that would do what he does.
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    That's amazing. To stay in a good mood despite that -- most people couldn't. I know that there's growing awareness of the stress a caretaker can experience.
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    Posted by PhishFood
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    Posted by PhishFood
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    Posted by PhishFood
    Posted by CopperDove
    Posted by LethalFantasia
    I am very sad most people didn't pick Gemini Sad


    When my life actually was on the line, the RCMP constable who helped me was a Gem, and he was/is one of the best police officers I've ever known, or known of, because he believed in doing everything possible to avoid having to use physical force on the job. He knew how to talk to people to calm them down. He was surprised that only recently it's part of RCMP training to learn how to do what he had been doing naturally.

    Not that this says that all Gems are like this, of course, but I wanted to put in a real example of someone to round this out!





    What happened that needed mounted police, if you don't mind me asking


    My now-ex increasingly suffered with mental illness, then he had a a psychotic break and threatened to kill me. He had no history of violent or threats of that kind, but in that state he became dangerous and I had to call the RCMP.


    Oh my god I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope he didn't harmed you or himself.


    Thank you! He didn't physically harm me or himself, unless he has harmed himself since that time. From what little I know about what happened after he was arrested, he got help, and he's far away from where I live. He hasn't attempted to contact me, which is good. The night he broke down was close to 7 years ago. I hope he'll be okay, but I know I can't risk having any contact with him. We had already broken up, amicably, before he had his breakdown and we were going to be friends but that isn't possible now of course.


    That's really sad.
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    Yes. I never feel angry at him for what he said to me when he had lost his mind, because I could tell he wasn't himself, but it was very scary of course. He didn't sound like himself -- different inflections in his voice, different words used from his norm. Also, when sane he was very against threatening people unless they were threatening your life. He didn't think that was okay.
  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
    Posted by FantamRooster
    Posted by CopperDove
    Posted by PhishFood
    Posted by CopperDove
    Posted by LethalFantasia
    I am very sad most people didn't pick Gemini Sad


    When my life actually was on the line, the RCMP constable who helped me was a Gem, and he was/is one of the best police officers I've ever known, or known of, because he believed in doing everything possible to avoid having to use physical force on the job. He knew how to talk to people to calm them down. He was surprised that only recently it's part of RCMP training to learn how to do what he had been doing naturally.

    Not that this says that all Gems are like this, of course, but I wanted to put in a real example of someone to round this out!





    What happened that needed mounted police, if you don't mind me asking


    My now-ex increasingly suffered with mental illness, then he had a a psychotic break and threatened to kill me. He had no history of violent or threats of that kind, but in that state he became dangerous and I had to call the RCMP.


    I'm sorry to hear that.
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    Thank you. It was a terrible time. I'm so glad that I was able to recover, but it took a long time.
  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
    Posted by PhishFood
    Posted by CopperDove
    Posted by PhishFood
    Posted by CopperDove
    Posted by LethalFantasia
    I am very sad most people didn't pick Gemini Sad


    When my life actually was on the line, the RCMP constable who helped me was a Gem, and he was/is one of the best police officers I've ever known, or known of, because he believed in doing everything possible to avoid having to use physical force on the job. He knew how to talk to people to calm them down. He was surprised that only recently it's part of RCMP training to learn how to do what he had been doing naturally.

    Not that this says that all Gems are like this, of course, but I wanted to put in a real example of someone to round this out!





    What happened that needed mounted police, if you don't mind me asking


    My now-ex increasingly suffered with mental illness, then he had a a psychotic break and threatened to kill me. He had no history of violent or threats of that kind, but in that state he became dangerous and I had to call the RCMP.


    Oh my god I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope he didn't harmed you or himself.
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    Thank you! He didn't physically harm me or himself, unless he has harmed himself since that time. From what little I know about what happened after he was arrested, he got help, and he's far away from where I live. He hasn't attempted to contact me, which is good. The night he broke down was close to 7 years ago. I hope he'll be okay, but I know I can't risk having any contact with him. We had already broken up, amicably, before he had his breakdown and we were going to be friends but that isn't possible now of course.