SCORPIO MAN | After the first date

Male:
Scorpio Sun
Virgo Moon
Aquarius Rising

Female:
Leo/Virgo Sun
Aquarius Moon
Scorpio Rising

I went on a date with this guy that I met a few years ago before I moved to a different city but had never hung out with him before. We kept in contact over the years via social media but nothing major. I moved back recently and decided to reach out and before I knew it we were texting back in forth for a week.
One day he texted me and said he was in my neighborhood and wanted to see if I would meet him for a drink. At first it was kind of awkward just because I could tell he was soooo nervous. He made jokes about "stalking" me and we both discovered we were from the same hometown! He walked me to my car and when I turned around to say goodbye he kissed me. As much as I was trying to avoid it, we ended up sleeping together and stayed up talking about our family's similarities.
When I woke up I had a text from him saying he was grabbing a coffee around the corner and would be back soon. I actually ended up meeting BOTH of his parents only because the house we stayed him used to be theirs and they were doing some work on it. He kissed me goodbye and saw me off.

We texted a couple of times (me being the initiator) since then (now a week ago) but when I asked if his day was going okay he didn't respond. When we were hanging out he asked me what I was doing for my birthday(yesterday) and I told him I was working for most of it. He told me he was going to be back in my neighborhood for it to help his parents again so I was expecting if anything for him to wish me a happy birthday, but not a word.

I'm completely puzzled. We're so compatible is scary, and when we were together it felt effortless. I don't want to lose this guy and I have no idea what to do.

You may need to give it more time..just feel him out aliitle...time will tell.

Try this.

Posted by virgin_lioness
I went on a date with this guy that I met a few years ago before I moved to a different city but had never hung out with him before. We kept in contact over the years via social media but nothing major. I moved back recently and decided to reach out and before I knew it we were texting back in forth for a week.
One day he texted me and said he was in my neighborhood and wanted to see if I would meet him for a drink. At first it was kind of awkward just because I could tell he was soooo nervous. He made jokes about "stalking" me and we both discovered we were from the same hometown! He walked me to my car and when I turned around to say goodbye he kissed me. As much as I was trying to avoid it, we ended up sleeping together and stayed up talking about our family's similarities.
When I woke up I had a text from him saying he was grabbing a coffee around the corner and would be back soon. I actually ended up meeting BOTH of his parents only because the house we stayed him used to be theirs and they were doing some work on it. He kissed me goodbye and saw me off.

We texted a couple of times (me being the initiator) since then (now a week ago) but when I asked if his day was going okay he didn't respond. When we were hanging out he asked me what I was doing for my birthday(yesterday) and I told him I was working for most of it. He told me he was going to be back in my neighborhood for it to help his parents again so I was expecting if anything for him to wish me a happy birthday, but not a word.

I'm completely puzzled. We're so compatible is scary, and when we were together it felt effortless. I don't want to lose this guy and I have no idea what to do.

Lose? He isn't yours (yet). Sleeping together seems to be clouding your mind. Clearly that wasn't a good idea. I'm not saying that because I personally see anything wrong with sleeping with someone if you're feeling it. It only becomes an issue if you think it then means more than it does. It doesn't as his behaviour seems to be demonstrating. Now you have certain expectations based on what exactly?

As for what to do...perhaps just go on as you did before you slept together. He is. If it turns into more, then it does. You can worry about "losing" him at that point.

You mean to carry on business as usual? I feel as if It's too late for me to play it off or have it even pass as if I wasn't affected by it. Or were you suggesting something else?

Posted by kalin
Please just be your usual self.
I think if you start to chase him, he might lose respect for you. On the other hand, if he never wanted to be with you to begin with, then there's probably nothing you could have done differently to change his mind.

Anyways, the point is, if he wants you, he will make sure you become his. If not, there's nothing you can do or could have done differently.

This. On point. In my experience a Scorp who "wants" you won't waver. You can act the hell up at times and be the worse person in the world and you won't "run him off". If he doesn't want you, you can be the BEST girlfriend EVER and that won't keep him around. There's no rhyme or reason other than what it is that the Scorp man wants for himself. I think this is the best sun sign guy to have great sex with and not expect anything afterwards. The best thing is just to live your life without driving yourself crazy...or try not to anyways. lol It's hard...I know.

he's making sure it's just not a sex thing sorry but anytime you rush and have sex with a guy they will startle the fence to see if your gf worthy. Men are hypocrites they want to bang you but they don't want you to be easy either. Pretty much they don't want to settle with a whore yet a lot of them are men whores. Don't act clingy after sex nor place expectations on him because you slept with him before a title now if you can't handle it then you learned a lesson to wait to have sex no matter how much "passion" and tempting it is to sleep with them.

If you carry on as usual without being emotional they will chase you honestly because you know when to separate your feelings from sex. Trust I've done it before and the guy use to chase me down I was so cool calm and collected it turned him on and he wanted to be in a relationship with me.